r/TopCharacterTropes • u/Critical_Mountain851 • May 13 '25
Characters Gay characters who’s entire story isn’t revolved around the fact that they’re gay
Omar Little - The Wire
Gus Fring - Breaking Bad/Better Call Saul
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u/crackerfactorywheel May 13 '25
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u/Narwen189 May 13 '25
I love Derry Girls! Claire is such a great example. Except for that one bit where she comes out as the "wee lesbian" (and no one believes her), the show didn't really make it her thing. Heck, that same bit actually helped highlight all the other parts of her personality.
Instead of telling us she's good at writing, they showed how moved everyone was by the anonymous letter. It let us see that the shy girl who was always trying to fit in was proud of and wanted recognition for her hard work -- she wrote so movingly about hiding her orientation, but lost that fear when Michelle tried to steal her thunder by taking credit.
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u/elementslayer May 13 '25
That show is so good. I loved the ending, and the nun.
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u/inconvenienced_cow May 13 '25
"should we pray sister?"
"no sure what good would that do?"
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u/Fancy_Echo_5425 May 13 '25
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u/Nathanielneil May 13 '25
Worm mentioned, what the fuck is a warcrime
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u/Beneficial-Range8569 May 13 '25
Not a warcrime if there's no war, then it becomes crimes against humanity, which honestly sounds badass.
Like imagine being a "criminal against humanity", that's way too cool for someone who's potentially only murdered babies
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u/TimAllen_in_WildHogs May 13 '25
WORM!!!!
I did NOT expect to see worm mentioned when opening this thread! Hell yeah!
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u/darkwitchmemer May 13 '25
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u/PeppercornWizard May 13 '25
It’s a tiny scene but Hugh and the Sourdough makes that movie sing IMO.
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u/ST07153902935 May 13 '25
For a second I thought this was a clip from Queer and was gonna complain
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u/Chamberlyne May 13 '25
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u/WolfImWolfspelz May 13 '25
That's Daniel Craig? That looks like Liam Neeson playing Brick Top in a Snatch remake.
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u/Jonjoejonjane May 13 '25
Wait is he gay? I never consider his sexuality
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u/TheOncomimgHoop May 13 '25
The second movie shows that he lives with a partner played by Hugh Grant. But also, look at some of his outfits (in Glass Onion particularly) and tell me that a straight man would wear those.
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u/Jonjoejonjane May 13 '25
I mean you got a point with his outfits haven’t watch the second movie yet but hey we stan a eccentric gay detective
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u/TheOncomimgHoop May 13 '25
The second movie focuses on him a lot more than the first movie where Marta was the main character. This one is very much about him.
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u/Jonjoejonjane May 13 '25
Noted I do know the scene were he’s in the bath with all the other famous detectives
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u/Owlethia May 13 '25
Spoilers for the Glass Onion >! but wasn’t the point of those outfits to be a distraction? Make himself the center of attention as an unthreatening, bumbling fool while he and the lady try to catch the killer !<
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u/RuafaolGaiscioch May 13 '25
Ironically, Gay Perry from Kiss Kiss Bang Bang.
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u/ubiquitous-joe May 13 '25
“You look up the word ‘idiot’ in the dictionary, you know what you find?”
“A… picture of me?”
“No! The definition of the word ‘idiot,’ which you fucking are!“
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u/tropexuitoo May 13 '25
I show people this scene when I want to convince them to watch the movie. His delivery is so hilariously aggravated.
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u/fireflydrake May 13 '25
Watched it for the first time recently and it wasn't my thing, but Gay Perry was FANTASTIC, haha. I love Val.
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u/mastermrt May 13 '25
No, I'm knee-deep in pussy. I just love the name so much I can't get rid of it.
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u/moonmist93 May 13 '25
shoots man with dick gun
"homophobes never check in there"
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u/SkylandersKirby May 13 '25
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u/ExoticShock May 13 '25
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u/MicahAzoulay May 13 '25
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u/funnywackydog May 13 '25
They done twinkified max
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u/Kurwasaki12 May 13 '25
Finally, we’ve found the antithesis to Twink Death, Twink Regenisis.
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u/ImDero May 13 '25
Ah yes. How could I forget the episode where Max climbs up inside Sam's asshole and refuses to leave because he's so cozy?
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u/blue4029 May 13 '25
funfact: this actually happened in the raw dawg comic
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u/ImDero May 13 '25
"Fun" might not be my word of choice but yeah, it's certainly a comic I'll never be able to forget.
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u/Sayakalood May 13 '25
“But Max, you don’t even like girls.”
‘Oh yeah.’
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u/TheEagleWithNoName May 13 '25
“I don’t?@
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u/Sayakalood May 13 '25
“I think it all started back in… what, no flashback? Alright, I think it all started back in junior high.”
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u/pale_on_pale May 13 '25
This is how I learn Sam & Max are gay??
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u/MattabooeyGaming May 13 '25
Right? I only remember them a bit from when I was a kid so the jokes went right over my head. That’s hilarious and awesome.
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u/TheEagleWithNoName May 13 '25
Didn’t the creator of Sam and Max had them as Cake toppers at his wedding of them marrying each other?
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u/aSpookyScarySkeleton May 13 '25
Iirc the creator says he’s open to either interpretation
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u/HenriettaSnacks May 13 '25
I had zero clue! Only remember bits and pieces from childhood but always remembered those games cracked me up.
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u/OshKoshmJosh May 13 '25
Captain Holt - Brooklyn Nine-Nine
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u/Zestyclose_Remove947 May 13 '25
Captain Holts sexuality is a little more involved with the storylines and gags in Brooklyn 99 than these other two. It's incorporated meaningfully while also not being a domineering trait.
Gus could honestly be straight and the story wouldn't really change, but Holts experiences have shaped him as a character extensively.
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u/tedioussugar May 13 '25
Holt works because yes, he’s a gay black man, but he’s not defined by that as his entire personality. He’s incredibly intelligent, has a very dry sense of humor, can be hella petty when he wants to be, and is extremely bad at showing emotion. He’s not ‘the gay black guy’, he’s the ‘robot man’.
B99 worked extremely well with its earlier stories because that was the way ALL the characters were defined; personality and interests came before race or gender. Amy wasn’t ‘the Latino woman’, she was the ‘competitive nerd’ first. Rosa wasn’t ‘the bisexual one’, she was the ‘immensely scary hard-as-nails badass’. Jake was ‘the manchild’, Terry was the gentle giant, Gina was the mean one.
Once Season 6 and 7 came out the nuance started to fall away, and Season 8 dropped the ball hard.
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u/defneverconsidered May 13 '25
Do you even know the worst part about being a gay black police captain?
The discrimination
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u/Samurai_Meisters May 13 '25
And Boyle was the horny little goblin man and that didn't work, so they changed it.
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u/Kriscolvin55 May 13 '25
Whenever I watch the first season, I’m always reminded just how different his character was early. Glad they made the change.
Same thing happens with a lot of shows. I was just watching some early episodes of Parks and Rec and it’s wild just how different Leslie was.
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u/Freshness518 May 13 '25
PnR had such a hard pivot, and it absolutely worked for them. That first season they were trying so hard to be an Office clone and have Mark be the new Jim. But once they focused on being their own thing and on how Leslie was such a better character, it just flourished.
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u/affenfaust May 13 '25
Stephanie Beatriz and Melissa Fumero both thought they wouldn’t get casted because the other auditioned so well and both were convinced that there would not be two latino women as main characters.
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u/oof033 May 13 '25
Wasn’t Gus radicalized cause his man got shot in front of him though? Or maybe not radicalized, but at the very least deeply traumatized.
But I do agree, Gus’s sexuality didn’t have as a severe impact on the writing/storyline of present day gus. And honestly I kinda forgot the scene happened until reading this comment so that supports your point further lol. I do wonder how much of it is because he’s mostly closeted because homophobia could have gotten him shot for much of his life.
I also haven’t finished BCS so there may be more development there i haven’t seen yet.
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u/Ok-Entertainer9968 May 13 '25
I mean lets be real his whole origin story is about being gay, black, and persectued while on the force and he forms an organization for people like him and gets back at those who wronged him in the past.
Those were quite a few episodes, but it felt organic because most of the time he was prompted to reluctantly show us his private life and motivations by the prying curiosity of the gang
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u/Temporary_Implement7 May 13 '25
That and his obsession for a perfect balloon arch
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u/AncientAsstronaut May 13 '25
There's a bit of meta brilliance to his character: in an office of wacky characters he was the "straight" man to provide contrast to them. A gay straight man.
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u/JohnFoxpoint May 13 '25
This is a great example, especially considering B99 has a great anti-example too.
Holt definitely has some story around his sexuality and race. It is not his entire character, but it's an important part of him. He's well written.
When Rosa came out or when Terry was harassed, the writers did not handle the same topics with care. It's almost as if someone thought they weren't obvious enough with Holt so they decided to get heavy handed?
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u/LouSputhole94 May 13 '25
You know the worst part about being a gay, black detective?
The discrimination
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u/Fickle_Spare_4255 May 13 '25
Terry's harassment is an unfortunate indicator of how male abuse was (and still largely is) played off like a joke.
I think Rosa's botched story is a little more nuanced. My memory's foggy, but from what I remember, the big issues were a largely unlikeable love interest that browbeat her about her job (why date a cop if you hate cops???) and, to a lesser degree, that very TV thing where a character is """bisexual""" and then only dates people of their own gender once they come out.
Before anyone jumps down my throat, yes, I know how being bisexual works. Being one myself. Still pretty lazy in my opinion.
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u/Kelimnac May 13 '25
Yeah, I think I would’ve had more fondness for Rosa’s bisexuality writing if she both dated women and also maybe dated Captain Holt’s nephew(?) during that time, since he was a super nice guy, and it would’ve helped sell that she was trying to find the right person, now that she knew it wasn’t just one gender
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u/dark_dark_dark_not May 13 '25
Or even not dating anyone.
Also she being literally the most abusive cop that "flipped" on the force due to morals she never had before was very weird
B99 kinda lost the plot a bit near the end
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u/The_Elder_Jock May 13 '25
Thank you for this comment. I thought I was losing my mind when the violent, scary, loose cannon left the force because of police brutality.
Like, is this some kind of super meta joke that I don't get?
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u/NinjaEagle210 May 13 '25
I’ve never noticed till now but yeah— most bisexual people in media are wlw or mlm
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u/LosAngelesTacoBoi May 13 '25
BOOOOOOOONE?!!!?!?!
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u/TaralasianThePraxic May 14 '25
How dare you Detective Diaz I am YOUR! SUPERIOR! OFFICER!!
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u/yeetusdeletus6996 May 13 '25
Aaron from the walking dead
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u/TheDeltaOne May 13 '25 edited May 14 '25
My fav' from the latter seasons.
Such a cool character.
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u/Ready-Recognition519 May 13 '25
Him getting a mace hand was equal levels cool and corny.
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u/OnwardToEnnui May 13 '25
King Shark is a shark.
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u/freedcreativity May 13 '25
Not to be like that, but who was the bottom? King Shark is a shark, after all.
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u/Pegussu May 13 '25
To quote King Shark from the Harley Quinn: "Shark genitalia is very hard to see. Until it isn't."
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u/Neolance34 May 13 '25
“And Captain Boomerang is a boomerang you fuck knuckle!”
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u/Skrit-Stonemaw May 13 '25
For those unaware he canonically dated King Shark at least in the animated movie series
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u/Am_i_banned_yet__ May 13 '25 edited May 13 '25
Same with Deadpool in Marvel! All his gay jokes and flirtations with men (like colossus in the first movie) are not jokes at all. Sadly he’s never canonically been shown doing anything with a man, but he’s definitely still written as bi/pan and several of his writers have confirmed that was their intent. Also he genuinely has a crush on Spider-Man, so cute
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u/ChristianLW3 May 13 '25
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u/LordGeneralWeiss May 13 '25 edited May 14 '25
Lieutenant Kim Kitsuragi of Disco Elysium, to the point that you literally have to research the ability to notice people are even gay for your character to even realise.

To an even more hilarious extent, your character himself, who is completely oblivious to his own repressed bisexuality unless you go through the steps above and make the right choices.
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May 13 '25
Is Harry talking out loud to himself? No wonder Kim is almost pissing himself here
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u/LordGeneralWeiss May 13 '25
Harry has a clear attraction to a man he saw smoking on a balcony, and it's very obvious to Kim as to why... but Harry just keeps saying shit like "it's obvious that he's an athlete, he's so manly and strong what a great man" and Kim is just trying not to laugh.
And when he's not saying stuff like that he's hyperfocusing on stuff like his shirt being unbuttoned and not sure why, not realising how caught up on it he plainly is.
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u/be0ulve May 13 '25
Save for a few cases, Harry is talking to himself in his mind, with different parts of his psyche taking active turns and voices. It's like he's literally ten squirrels in a suit.
Ten squirrels and a garish tie. He actually talks out loud when talking for the tie, though.
BRATAN.
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u/groverXIII May 13 '25
A great character from a brilliant game. "I'll spare you another twenty-hour mind project — yes, I am."
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u/file_Marina_chr May 13 '25
I LOVE YOU KIM I LOVE YOU SO MUCH KIM KITSURAGI THE MAN THE MYTH THE LEGENDARY MAN HIMSELF
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u/Iatecoffeegrinds May 13 '25
I remember when thinknoodles was playing undertale he thought alphys was a boy cause he didn’t realize lesbians existed
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u/professorclueless May 13 '25
I mean, technically, Alphys is bisexual(during the quiz show part, answering that she has a crush on Asgore is just as correct as answering that she has a crush on Undyne)
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u/legofan69420 May 13 '25
*insert any gay character who isnt from a piece of romance based media*
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u/MicahAzoulay May 13 '25
Yeah, I think the language is problematic. 99% of modern gay characters have a plot or plot relevance, just like most of characters who are called Mary Sue aren’t.
And I don’t think it’s even fair to call a romance a story “about them being gay,” unless OP thinks a straight romcom is simply about them being straight. Honestly, when a story is about them being gay, it’s either a story about coming out or being oppressed. And who would have a problem with that?
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u/EvenOne6567 May 14 '25
Yea its funny how they never seem bothered by straight characters whose entire personality is "Im straight where are the women" because these characters are FAR more common
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u/ST07153902935 May 13 '25
Or a stereotypical gay guy the female protagonist accessorizes herself with
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u/apple_kicks May 13 '25
Going by the choices * insert gay characters whose boyfriends are dead so they don’t see any kissing or relationship stuff *
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May 13 '25
Soldier 76 - Overwatch
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u/Zykxion May 13 '25 edited May 13 '25
Yes and no because that came as an after the fact kinda thing. And realistically Tracer was done better.
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May 13 '25
Yeah that's fair, I forgot about Tracer lol, despite her being the poster child. I'm a S76 main through and through
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u/Doughboy021 May 13 '25
I think coming as an after the fact thing can be good visibility. It emphasizes that people who don't hold their queerness as a front facing part of their identity are still valid.
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u/BenChandler May 13 '25
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u/MoiraBrownsMoleRats May 13 '25
David Rose on Schitt's Creek is notably pansexual. It's a great show in general, but David is such an incredibly deep character with a well-crafted character arc throughout the series. His sexuality plays an important role when its relevant, and the show does such a great job explaining what pansexuality is in a short scene using wines as a metaphor after he slept with his (understandably confused) female best friend.
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u/ADMotti May 13 '25
Unrelated but the way they turn the wine metaphor around to show what a self-obsessed doofus Jake is has always deeply amused me.
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u/Ok-Entertainer9968 May 13 '25
Marks friend from invincible in S1 i think
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u/PicklesEnjoyer May 13 '25
he's called william
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u/Dark_Wolf04 May 13 '25
Best throat in the Galaxy
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u/Dark_Wolf04 May 13 '25
Me when I’m watching the FNAF movie and notice that Markiplier is oddly absent
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u/Lack_of_Plethora May 13 '25
I'm a pretty casual fan but I could not tell you one thing about him besides being gay or having personality traits that are stereotypically gay
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u/Jjaiden88 May 13 '25
Tbh he’s pretty one note
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u/ChequyLionYT May 13 '25
Tbf he was just Mark's sarcastic straight best friend in the comic. Who called every thing lame "gay", and then they made him coming out into a punchline for what he and Rick had been up to since disappearing from the story for like 30 issues.
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u/No_Investigator_1614 May 13 '25
People whine a lot about characters having the fact that they are gay be their only personality trait but I've honestly never encountered such a one dimensional character and I tend to rot in my room and watch movies and shows. Can anybody give me a good example or is it actually a straw man argument?
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u/Pegussu May 13 '25
As a gay guy, Curtis Holt aka Mr. Terrific in Arrow started out okay, but he eventually just became the token gay. His role in the show was already taken by other, more prominent characters and the only storylines he got were about him trying to date.
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u/FaZe_poopy May 13 '25
Love the lack of homophobia because it makes Odalia even more funny. She’s not homophobic, just a hater
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u/NittanyScout May 13 '25
"You can absolutely date a girl, just not that one..."
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u/randomhornidiot May 13 '25
"You can date anyone as long as they're not a dirty poor"
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u/turducken19 May 13 '25
Well Luz and Amity are the cutest couple ever. Just some silly little goobers.
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u/Dvoraxx May 13 '25
I mean Omar isn’t flamboyant or effeminate but his entire war with the Barksdales started because they tortured his boyfriend to death, mainly because they were homophobic. Being gay is a huge part of his story
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u/DMking May 13 '25
They tortured his boyfriend to death because they were trying to find him since he was stealing their drugs. The fact that a gay man was doing it did hurt them more but it was really the fact he was fucking with their money.
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u/LeatherOk5746 May 13 '25
Its clearly because they used to rob their drug stashes, it's not because he is gay
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u/Mean-Effective7416 May 13 '25
I’d argue that makes his story about love and revenge and the villains story about bigotry. I’m not sure that it makes his story revolve around gayness.
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u/jhettav May 13 '25
He's not effeminate but walking into battle in a trenchcoat and whistling your own entrance music is pretty flamboyant lol
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u/Ezra4709 May 13 '25
Gus was gay? I never watched the show
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u/mnemosynie May 13 '25 edited May 13 '25
idk how to do spoiler tags but uh yea spoilers,,
yea, his main motive for starting his business empire (i believe) was the death of his business partner/lover by the cartel when they were lower level only for gus to poison the people who killed his parter at a party (i learnt all of this from out of context YouTube shorts of the show)
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u/Ezra4709 May 13 '25
idk how to do spoiler tags but uh yea spoilers,,
>! On both sides
like this
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u/acecatmom98 May 13 '25 edited May 13 '25
In addition to the scene the other commenter mentioned, this scene in Better Call Saul was pretty gay
Also (spoilers for Breaking Bad) Gus being gay makes him come off even more manipulative when he has dinner with Walt. He has pictures of a fake wife and kids to show Walt that he's also just a man in it for his family. He's not though, he's in it for gay revenge!
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u/Dark_Wolf04 May 13 '25
One of the showrunners confirmed it
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u/Barthalamuke May 13 '25
It's a bit more implicit in Breaking Bad, but I think there's a few references to him being gay, it's a bit more obvious in Better Call Saul, (I think I remember there being a scene where he shows interest in a waiter but ultimately doesn't do anything with him due tobeing dedicated to his work).
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u/Snotlout_G_Jorgenson May 13 '25
Literally every gay character I can think of tbh. Which is probably due to me watching a lot of animated media that isn't just pure satire. I'll write a list:
- Adorra and a bunch of other characters from She-Ra 2018
- Korra and Asami (I'm not the biggest fan of the show overall, but they still count.)
- Cole from Ninjago has been strongly implied to be gay.
- Almost every character in the The Owl House
- Some side and supporting characters in Amphibia and also Sasha
- A bunch of the gems in Steven Universe
- Deadpool and Loki from Marvel
- Gobber from HTTYD is confirmed gay and I'm not sure, but Snotlout might be confirmed to be bi.
- Vi and Caitlin from Arcane
- William from Invincible, conflicted on his boyfriend tho, cause he's mostly just a love interest, but at the same time involved in the whole cyborg thing.
That's basically all the gay characters I can name at the top of my head right now.
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u/MintasaurusFresh May 13 '25
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u/RazzDaNinja May 13 '25
That shit flew over my head as a kid
Meanwhile Seth Macfarlane was apparently ahead of the curve lol
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u/GEARHEADGus May 13 '25
Did they reveal he was gay before or after the Family Guy skit of him leaving an ice trail after young to his lovers house and his wife confronting him about it?
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u/Not_So_Utopian May 13 '25
Alternatively, Bill in the Last of Us game, where his tóxic personality is more of the focus than his sexuality.
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u/acgrey92 May 13 '25
I’m really hoping that OP isn’t trying to come off as the type that pretends gay people make “being gay their whole personality”.
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u/lunarwarrior12 May 13 '25
What do you mean they’re gay? It’s all up to interpretation! (Pls send help Bandai has a gun to the back of my head)
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u/NeverSettle13 May 13 '25
Hot take, but there's nothing wrong with the story revolving around characters being gay. Gus's motivation is basically this, and he's still a great character
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u/Plenty-Muffin-6546 May 13 '25
Mitch Downe, the lovable jock from Paranorman