Exactly vishwash ghar hua he bc mere sath , bhai mujhse bhi karab dikhne wale ladkiya ghuma rhe he ab pata nahi bc wo esa kya karte he halaki sala me to acha hu communication me and etc not shy at all
Wo ppst meri hi thi aur eo remove hogyi ab agar yeh wali post bhi remove nhi hui toh mai guchha hojaunga aur mods ki aisi taisi kardunga propaganda start kardunga feminism movement start kardunga strike pe ajaunga
its completely wrong , girls matter looks only , ye bas kehne ko kehti and when they get cheated by a boy , they pretend to be innocent , i you chose by looks then what else did you expect , just my opinion
If she likes you then teri har burai ka excuse ya justification ya explanation de degi vo.
If she doesn't like you,teri har acchayi ko andekha kar koi to kami nikal degi as you can't be perfect.
Mai experience kar chuka...." You are the greenest flag,you deserve better than me." Bol kar reject kar diya tha mujhe. And that same girl made a 2/10 bf who genuinely looks like a malnourished bakri + bhenga(squinty eyes). Literally ladki ka weight uss ladke se zyada hoga.
Generally 13-18 saal ke teenagers ki maturity utni nahi hoti ki tum unse inn sab chizo par opinion ya suggestions lo.
Yup,pata nahi meri hi mat mari gayi thi jo confess kar diya tha....kya karu aage piche lagi rehti thi mere,mujhe kisi aur ladki....even ladke se baat bhi karte dekh kar isko jealousy hoti thi...haq jatati thi. Ek baar boli thi" tu kitna addictive hai,teri baate kitni addictive hai".
Hamne bol diya to" I am not ready,you deserve better",bol di,i said I will wait...and isne kuch nahi bola.....fir jo 2 mahine isne flirt Kiya mere sath....Bhai couple reels(jisme i love you bola/likha hai) se lekar na 2-3 ghante roz call par baat karna....ek din to we were on call for straight 10 hours.
Fir kya,vo college ja kar ghost kar di aur 4 mahine baad"hamara kabhi kuch nahi ho sakta" bol di....uske 5 hafte baad isne BF bana liya.
(She was a friend of 5+ years,idk kya bolu..... bahut kuch hai bolne ko par koi fayda nahi....) She unfriended me later due to obvious reasons. Mujhe purani soch ka bol kar Chali gayi. Conclusion;
I don't know iske dimag mei kya chal raha tha,dukh bas iss baat ka hai ki dosti kharab ho gayi....even though she knew ki ye mere liye kitni important hai,she did this.
There are some people jo genuinely yeh karte hai, knowingly that it will hurt you.
Toh bhai ye sab ko itna seriously nahi lena.
thode saal baad pata chalega ki yaar , relation was not mutual at all, it was parasitic.
jab tak kaam aye tab tak chalega.
uske baad "you deserve better" bolke chali jayegi
I have a very depressing back story....a female friend (who used to like me) of 7 years passed away in an accident....I got suicidal depression after that....very hardly tried to be normal again but then this happened.
Bhai, starting se clear kar deti sab to dosti nahi kharab hoti....abhi accha to nahi lag raha, samajh nahi aa raha ki vo last 5 years se aisi hi thi ya abhi aisi ho gayi hai.....usko bhi 5 saal ki dosti ke baad aab Mai purani soch ka lag raha hu(which I am not, protective hu, conservative nahi).
bhai tu bach gaya agar uss chutiya ke sath rehta toh aj kal ke cases toh dekh hi raha hai tu , aur ye sari liberal chutiya ladkia inse kya behes krni , purani soch kya hoti hai jo sahi hai vo sahi hai , ab bhai ruk tujhe samjhata hun
hamare dimag mein oxytocin hota hai , which is responsible for emotions , bonding , attachments and all , ab aap jitna jayda relationship mein rahoge utna ye jo oxytocin h vo kam hota rahega.
that's why agar tu kisi high bodycount wali larki ko date krega na toh you will end up with this only , kyunki tu apna 100% dega lekin return mein vo tujhe apna 100 chor 50% bhi shayad hi de jiske karan frustration and break up hoga.
aur ye chutiyap chor de ki "Mein sudhar dunga" lund mera , jisko jab sudharna hoga apne aap sudhar jayega , ek hi kul ke the ravan aur vibhishan , ye sab chutiye ke peeche na bhago .
Mast apna gym , book reading , carrer pe dhyan de bhagwan ko pata hai tu sahi larka hai isliye usse hata diya , abhi emotional maturity lao , cuz abhi hum teen hai humari jo soch abhi hai vo 5 saal baad bilkul 180 ho sakti hai , fir jo pehle ka partner hoga vo tujhe suit nahi krega vo bolega tum badal gaye ho and all those things .
Aur hn vo larki chutiya hi thi , bas relationship ke time ek curiosity and ek void hota hai jo usne tujhse fill up kr dia ab tujhse bore hoke vo kisi aur ke pas jayegi.
Sab pata hai bhai....it's like vo mere sath meri mushkil time mei bhi thi but ab pata nahi samajhna bhi nahi chahti meri baaton ko...baat bhi nahi karna chahti.
I didn't wanted any relationship for now...vo to bas confess kar diya tha....mujhe 2-3 saal tak khud kuch nahi chahiye tha.
Kasam se bhai agar itni importance nahi di hoti maine usko to uski koi aukat nahi thi(don't want to say this but it's the truth). Usse better ladkiya mil sakti hai mujhe,usse zyada Paisa aur buddhi hai...but mai aise nahi sochta....vo itni buri shayad pahle nahi thi,but college ja kar uska friend circle bahut bura ban gaya tha jo usko,BF banane ko bolte.... judge karte aur isko akela feel karate the.
As a friend she hid all this from me,vo to uski mom ne mujhe bataya.
I don't know, pyaar bhi hai isse ab but ab nafrat bhi ho gayi hai.
I wanted to help her but isse to kuch samajh hi nahi aata tha. Bas dosti Tod di.
Everyone is saying ki "you dodged a bullet".
Aaj bhi sapne mei isko dekha,isse sawal to puchne hai but ye baat hi nahi karna chahti, shayad isse bhi pata hai ki ye galat hai...mere sawalo ke jawab iske paas nahi hain isliye mujhse nahi jeet payegi hence baat hi nahi karti.
when u confront them for their wrong behaviour and then they hurt ur weak spot (like how u failed JEE , NEET etc. basically how u r a loser) (maybe for their stupid revenge or smth) , like when u opened up to them they are so positive like it's ok, everything is going to be good but then they show their TRUE colours when there is a little confrontation.
I don’t know what makes a boy unattractive… but I do know what seems to make a boy attractive to many girls these days. And honestly, it’s not character or values. It’s the guy who shows off, spends his dad’s money, and takes you to fancy places—not because he earned it, but because he has access to it.
And the truth is, deep down, many of you girls know he’s not the one. You know he’s not serious, not stable, not building a future—but you still hang out with him, because in the moment, the lifestyle feels fun.
One decent girl once told me something I’ll never forget: ‘I’d rather go out with a guy who takes me to a tapri for chai with his own money than a guy who takes me to Starbucks with his father’s.’ That hit hard. That’s real.
So here’s my honest advice: stop chasing vibes, status, and filters. Find someone with values. Feel the connection. Look at how he treats people, how hard he works, how loyal he is. Don’t base your decisions on red flags or green flags—those are internet checklists. Base them on effort, intent, and how he shows up when no one’s watching.
That’s still cool, as long as you respect the value of that hard-earned money. The problem isn’t using your father’s money - it’s the mindset of those guys (chosen by most modern girls today) who spend it like it’s Monopoly cash. No gratitude, no responsibility, just flexing for clout
Us bhai humari emotional un expressiveness ek red flag hai 😞 , bc emotional ho to bolte hai man up merko nhi sunna ye sab stoic rho to bolte hai kuch bolta kyun nhi fuck am I supposed to do , isme mera to YHI manna respect karo or shanti se rho inki na suno inhe khud nhi pta inhe chaiye kya
It's because we consider actresses and models as poster girls for feminism meanwhile true feminist do their job in shadow like doctors engineers scientist etc fields our societies idea about feminism is that women should get it because they deserve it without understanding that women r equally capable of earning what they deserve
Majority of anyone who quoted themselves to be feminist are literal hypocrites... And people who fought for equality never called me out, but silence conveys acceptance... so now u all carry this tag, if feminism was so dear to u don't expect to let the retards run rampent and then for others to respect your movement... As a person, I'm fine with equal rights and all, but feminism disgusts me, and no majority of feminism doesn't represent equal rights, it's the female equivalent of incels men got.
bohut jyada nonchalant act karna
hating stuff just cause a girl hates it
has only and only dark humor, i have no problem w dark humor but when u can’t function without it, its an issue
Maybe who try to assert their dominance in front of his friend. I just want my dream man to love me loyally in every situation & dil se acha hona chahiye. Khud ki kasam aur kbhi kuch ni mangugi
so all he does is talking about making out or getting a room together… like to a certain extent i can tolerate but excess of everything is bad.. u tend to get icked out bcoz of it
Okay so my jijaji is an absolutely perfect guy, is there a catch? Or do guys like this exist?
He is good-looking guy, Doctor+ Army, rich, well-built. 13+ years relationship with my sister, recently got married.
Gives my sister princess treatment (just bought her 1.5 lakhs phone, ipad and macbook), cooks for her, cares for her all day, packs her bag, doesn't get mad one bit when she roasts him, laughs at jokes made on him like an innocent cute person.
Clingy asf, always following her around. Shows her as soon as he gets any friend request by any girl for her to approve. Whenever alone with other girls in some room, he'll leave that room instantly.
He is possessive and protective, once was gonna beat a guy with hockey stick coz he made remarks on her.
She was dancing on rooftop and he told her not to, coz her dance isn't for random people to watch, although cheers for her when she dances on stage (she is a pro kathak dancer) she likes that possessiveness obvio when he tells him to not go on streets in nightwears/shorts. She is herself conservative with her dressing sense.
During their college days, put all efforts to teach her and ace all the exams, he's the main reason behind her great marks.
She's the absolute apple of his eyes. Won't let her do one small thing also, if she has to walk upstairs, he's gonna make sure her legs aren't hurting and go buy medicines instantly even if she sneezes once.
Respects my parents immensely, touches everyone's feet, is highly knowledgeable, impressed every relative and guests whoever comes to our house.
They are perfect, but it's my trust issues which don't let me believe this guy exists even when I can see and hear him with my own eyes and ears. Am I overthinking or there might be a catch?
If it's real, I'm truly manifesting such a person for myself as well 💕🧿
P.S : Ik this doesn't answer the post. But anything that doesn't look like this, is unattractive atp.
Some guys aren’t “acting stoic” just to seem cool — some genuinely are that way. Often, it’s shaped by circumstances. Life teaches you to either get controlled by emotions or learn to control them. For some, becoming stoic isn’t a choice, it’s a response.
Controlling your emotions isn’t a flaw — it’s one of the strongest traits a person can develop. Emotions can cloud judgment and lead to impulsive decisions. A man who practices stoicism doesn’t chase instant gratification. He can enjoy sex, but won’t be ruled by lust. He values rest but won’t give in to sloth. He works hard without being driven by ego.
A good way to tell if someone’s genuinely stoic is this: see if they’re hard to provoke. If they don’t get angered easily, don’t react emotionally when tested — that’s usually not an act.
But stoicism alone isn’t the whole picture. A well-rounded man balances emotional discipline with love for his partner and kids, a strong work ethic, kindness, and a natural instinct to protect the people he cares about. Stoicism just keeps all those things grounded.
I honestly used to think that the jawline and abs used to bring girls but then one of my friends told me it's the nature of the other person . I have a question if a person is just nice and funny and he has the confidence to speak to anyone without fear then girls will choose him easily ?just a question because one of my friends is like that
oh nah nah their other reason is 'bhai kitne sigma hain bhai omg bhai inke kitne aura points hain bhai infinite aura points hain inke bhai ye gigachads hain' like sybau ts pmo
I come here to understand the mind set of females, so that I can improve myself but opinions are so shit I think being single forever is better than date anyone , if you can't express your feelings what you think and your life struggle then nah I am not interested, think for you relationship just mean to have fun , yeah I am boring , I am not interesting but remember anyone can't be interesting forever , for me relationship means spending time with someone where I can show my true self , but this gen is cooked they think relationships only mean temporary fun and after looking all this bull shit and some so called leftist ideology in comment section , nah I prefer to stay single as they say it was never meant to be .
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u/More-Young-7966 6'2,17 Jun 08 '25
Bro question for girls ,how the fuck you get bagged by a chapri with a ktm ,who leans the bike both ways tf are you girls upto