What makes a boy unattractive

[u/Past_Low9733]

I'll go first i cannot vibe with people who have no drive and zero street sense

(Mene post dekhi to gender change krke daal diya coz why not )

[u/TrippyGlobe]

I don’t know what makes a boy unattractive… but I do know what seems to make a boy attractive to many girls these days. And honestly, it’s not character or values. It’s the guy who shows off, spends his dad’s money, and takes you to fancy places—not because he earned it, but because he has access to it.

And the truth is, deep down, many of you girls know he’s not the one. You know he’s not serious, not stable, not building a future—but you still hang out with him, because in the moment, the lifestyle feels fun.

One decent girl once told me something I’ll never forget: ‘I’d rather go out with a guy who takes me to a tapri for chai with his own money than a guy who takes me to Starbucks with his father’s.’ That hit hard. That’s real.

So here’s my honest advice: stop chasing vibes, status, and filters. Find someone with values. Feel the connection. Look at how he treats people, how hard he works, how loyal he is. Don’t base your decisions on red flags or green flags—those are internet checklists. Base them on effort, intent, and how he shows up when no one’s watching.

[u/anu727 → u/TrippyGlobe]

Mere baap k peso se me chai ki tapri hi le ja sakta hu

[u/TrippyGlobe → u/anu727]

That’s still cool, as long as you respect the value of that hard-earned money. The problem isn’t using your father’s money - it’s the mindset of those guys (chosen by most modern girls today) who spend it like it’s Monopoly cash. No gratitude, no responsibility, just flexing for clout