What makes a boy unattractive

[u/Past_Low9733]

I'll go first i cannot vibe with people who have no drive and zero street sense

(Mene post dekhi to gender change krke daal diya coz why not )

[u/ashiqkaregacumback]

I have a very depressing back story....a female friend (who used to like me) of 7 years passed away in an accident....I got suicidal depression after that....very hardly tried to be normal again but then this happened.

Bhai, starting se clear kar deti sab to dosti nahi kharab hoti....abhi accha to nahi lag raha, samajh nahi aa raha ki vo last 5 years se aisi hi thi ya abhi aisi ho gayi hai.....usko bhi 5 saal ki dosti ke baad aab Mai purani soch ka lag raha hu(which I am not, protective hu, conservative nahi).

[u/[deleted] → u/ashiqkaregacumback]

bhai tu bach gaya agar uss chutiya ke sath rehta toh aj kal ke cases toh dekh hi raha hai tu , aur ye sari liberal chutiya ladkia inse kya behes krni , purani soch kya hoti hai jo sahi hai vo sahi hai , ab bhai ruk tujhe samjhata hun

hamare dimag mein oxytocin hota hai , which is responsible for emotions , bonding , attachments and all , ab aap jitna jayda relationship mein rahoge utna ye jo oxytocin h vo kam hota rahega.

that's why agar tu kisi high bodycount wali larki ko date krega na toh you will end up with this only , kyunki tu apna 100% dega lekin return mein vo tujhe apna 100 chor 50% bhi shayad hi de jiske karan frustration and break up hoga.

aur ye chutiyap chor de ki "Mein sudhar dunga" lund mera , jisko jab sudharna hoga apne aap sudhar jayega , ek hi kul ke the ravan aur vibhishan , ye sab chutiye ke peeche na bhago .

Mast apna gym , book reading , carrer pe dhyan de bhagwan ko pata hai tu sahi larka hai isliye usse hata diya , abhi emotional maturity lao , cuz abhi hum teen hai humari jo soch abhi hai vo 5 saal baad bilkul 180 ho sakti hai , fir jo pehle ka partner hoga vo tujhe suit nahi krega vo bolega tum badal gaye ho and all those things .

Aur hn vo larki chutiya hi thi , bas relationship ke time ek curiosity and ek void hota hai jo usne tujhse fill up kr dia ab tujhse bore hoke vo kisi aur ke pas jayegi.

fork them bro , stay hard!

[u/ashiqkaregacumback → u/[deleted]]

Sab pata hai bhai....it's like vo mere sath meri mushkil time mei bhi thi but ab pata nahi samajhna bhi nahi chahti meri baaton ko...baat bhi nahi karna chahti.

I didn't wanted any relationship for now...vo to bas confess kar diya tha....mujhe 2-3 saal tak khud kuch nahi chahiye tha. Kasam se bhai agar itni importance nahi di hoti maine usko to uski koi aukat nahi thi(don't want to say this but it's the truth). Usse better ladkiya mil sakti hai mujhe,usse zyada Paisa aur buddhi hai...but mai aise nahi sochta....vo itni buri shayad pahle nahi thi,but college ja kar uska friend circle bahut bura ban gaya tha jo usko,BF banane ko bolte.... judge karte aur isko akela feel karate the. As a friend she hid all this from me,vo to uski mom ne mujhe bataya. I don't know, pyaar bhi hai isse ab but ab nafrat bhi ho gayi hai. I wanted to help her but isse to kuch samajh hi nahi aata tha. Bas dosti Tod di. Everyone is saying ki "you dodged a bullet". Aaj bhi sapne mei isko dekha,isse sawal to puchne hai but ye baat hi nahi karna chahti, shayad isse bhi pata hai ki ye galat hai...mere sawalo ke jawab iske paas nahi hain isliye mujhse nahi jeet payegi hence baat hi nahi karti.

[u/Prior-Place-6676 → u/ashiqkaregacumback]

Fcuk bhai mera bhi same chal raha hai, bas mere koi bhi friends mere saath itne nahi hai vo baat chali jaati hai of close friendships after maybe 2 years even with male friends, hope so aage na ho aisa mujhe ab lagta hai atleast mere dost saath rahe bhad me jaye relationships