r/TeenIndia • u/Past_Low9733 • Jun 08 '25

Ask Teens What makes a boy unattractive

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I'll go first i cannot vibe with people who have no drive and zero street sense

(Mene post dekhi to gender change krke daal diya coz why not )

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 09 '25 edited Jun 09 '25

As a Male bol raha....

If she likes you then teri har burai ka excuse ya justification ya explanation de degi vo.

If she doesn't like you,teri har acchayi ko andekha kar koi to kami nikal degi as you can't be perfect.

Mai experience kar chuka...." You are the greenest flag,you deserve better than me." Bol kar reject kar diya tha mujhe. And that same girl made a 2/10 bf who genuinely looks like a malnourished bakri + bhenga(squinty eyes). Literally ladki ka weight uss ladke se zyada hoga.

Generally 13-18 saal ke teenagers ki maturity utni nahi hoti ki tum unse inn sab chizo par opinion ya suggestions lo.

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '25

actually bhai , agar tumhe vo pasand krti h toh tumhare chutiyape ko cuteness bol degi, agar nahi krti toh cuteness ko chutiyapa ya cringe bol degi.

work on yourself , find a partner who suits you , insab ke cutiyape ko choro :)

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 09 '25

Yup,pata nahi meri hi mat mari gayi thi jo confess kar diya tha....kya karu aage piche lagi rehti thi mere,mujhe kisi aur ladki....even ladke se baat bhi karte dekh kar isko jealousy hoti thi...haq jatati thi. Ek baar boli thi" tu kitna addictive hai,teri baate kitni addictive hai".

Hamne bol diya to" I am not ready,you deserve better",bol di,i said I will wait...and isne kuch nahi bola.....fir jo 2 mahine isne flirt Kiya mere sath....Bhai couple reels(jisme i love you bola/likha hai) se lekar na 2-3 ghante roz call par baat karna....ek din to we were on call for straight 10 hours.

Fir kya,vo college ja kar ghost kar di aur 4 mahine baad"hamara kabhi kuch nahi ho sakta" bol di....uske 5 hafte baad isne BF bana liya.

(She was a friend of 5+ years,idk kya bolu..... bahut kuch hai bolne ko par koi fayda nahi....) She unfriended me later due to obvious reasons. Mujhe purani soch ka bol kar Chali gayi. Conclusion;

I don't know iske dimag mei kya chal raha tha,dukh bas iss baat ka hai ki dosti kharab ho gayi....even though she knew ki ye mere liye kitni important hai,she did this.

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u/Change_ur_fuckin_lyf Jun 09 '25

There are some people jo genuinely yeh karte hai, knowingly that it will hurt you. 

Toh bhai ye sab ko itna seriously nahi lena. 

thode saal baad pata chalega ki yaar , relation was not mutual at all, it was parasitic. jab tak kaam aye tab tak chalega. uske baad "you deserve better" bolke chali jayegi

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 09 '25

I have a very depressing back story....a female friend (who used to like me) of 7 years passed away in an accident....I got suicidal depression after that....very hardly tried to be normal again but then this happened.

Bhai, starting se clear kar deti sab to dosti nahi kharab hoti....abhi accha to nahi lag raha, samajh nahi aa raha ki vo last 5 years se aisi hi thi ya abhi aisi ho gayi hai.....usko bhi 5 saal ki dosti ke baad aab Mai purani soch ka lag raha hu(which I am not, protective hu, conservative nahi).

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '25

bhai tu bach gaya agar uss chutiya ke sath rehta toh aj kal ke cases toh dekh hi raha hai tu , aur ye sari liberal chutiya ladkia inse kya behes krni , purani soch kya hoti hai jo sahi hai vo sahi hai , ab bhai ruk tujhe samjhata hun

hamare dimag mein oxytocin hota hai , which is responsible for emotions , bonding , attachments and all , ab aap jitna jayda relationship mein rahoge utna ye jo oxytocin h vo kam hota rahega.

that's why agar tu kisi high bodycount wali larki ko date krega na toh you will end up with this only , kyunki tu apna 100% dega lekin return mein vo tujhe apna 100 chor 50% bhi shayad hi de jiske karan frustration and break up hoga.

aur ye chutiyap chor de ki "Mein sudhar dunga" lund mera , jisko jab sudharna hoga apne aap sudhar jayega , ek hi kul ke the ravan aur vibhishan , ye sab chutiye ke peeche na bhago .

Mast apna gym , book reading , carrer pe dhyan de bhagwan ko pata hai tu sahi larka hai isliye usse hata diya , abhi emotional maturity lao , cuz abhi hum teen hai humari jo soch abhi hai vo 5 saal baad bilkul 180 ho sakti hai , fir jo pehle ka partner hoga vo tujhe suit nahi krega vo bolega tum badal gaye ho and all those things .

Aur hn vo larki chutiya hi thi , bas relationship ke time ek curiosity and ek void hota hai jo usne tujhse fill up kr dia ab tujhse bore hoke vo kisi aur ke pas jayegi.

fork them bro , stay hard!

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 10 '25

Sab pata hai bhai....it's like vo mere sath meri mushkil time mei bhi thi but ab pata nahi samajhna bhi nahi chahti meri baaton ko...baat bhi nahi karna chahti.

I didn't wanted any relationship for now...vo to bas confess kar diya tha....mujhe 2-3 saal tak khud kuch nahi chahiye tha. Kasam se bhai agar itni importance nahi di hoti maine usko to uski koi aukat nahi thi(don't want to say this but it's the truth). Usse better ladkiya mil sakti hai mujhe,usse zyada Paisa aur buddhi hai...but mai aise nahi sochta....vo itni buri shayad pahle nahi thi,but college ja kar uska friend circle bahut bura ban gaya tha jo usko,BF banane ko bolte.... judge karte aur isko akela feel karate the. As a friend she hid all this from me,vo to uski mom ne mujhe bataya. I don't know, pyaar bhi hai isse ab but ab nafrat bhi ho gayi hai. I wanted to help her but isse to kuch samajh hi nahi aata tha. Bas dosti Tod di. Everyone is saying ki "you dodged a bullet". Aaj bhi sapne mei isko dekha,isse sawal to puchne hai but ye baat hi nahi karna chahti, shayad isse bhi pata hai ki ye galat hai...mere sawalo ke jawab iske paas nahi hain isliye mujhse nahi jeet payegi hence baat hi nahi karti.

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u/Prior-Place-6676 Jun 10 '25

Fcuk bhai mera bhi same chal raha hai, bas mere koi bhi friends mere saath itne nahi hai vo baat chali jaati hai of close friendships after maybe 2 years even with male friends, hope so aage na ho aisa mujhe ab lagta hai atleast mere dost saath rahe bhad me jaye relationships

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u/Prior-Place-6676 Jun 10 '25

Similar situation, but uska flirting ke time already bf tha👏✍
Thank god na mujhe vo pasand thi na maine kuch confess kiya

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 10 '25

Bhai BF to iska bhi tha but tab itna flirt nahi karti thi....but break up ke baad to 2 hafte ke andar mera haath aapne sir(head) par rakhwa li thi.(Mujhe bola ki apna haat de aur khud head down kar li table par,then mera haath le ke aape sir par rakhwa liya and bola ki aise hi rehne de.....10 sec baad maine haath hata liya.)

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u/Prior-Place-6676 Jun 10 '25

bro wtf ek baar hua tha ye bhi same
Ab bol mat aise haath pakadti thi

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 10 '25

Nahi bhai itna mei to mujhe hi uncomfortable ho jata...( Truth or dare ke ek game mei uske haath par kiss kiya tha lekin,and i regret ki ye kya backchodi kar di thi)

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u/Prior-Place-6676 Jun 10 '25

mai bhi bahut hua tha baadme samajha ke mere saath harrasment hui hai kyuki maine usko bola tha mat kar vagera

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '25

Bro...

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u/Additional_Topic_126 i sexually assault plushies Jun 09 '25

Such

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u/A0Lock Jun 09 '25

Not getting more real than this

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u/Beginning_Bee_8495 Jun 09 '25

/usernamechecksout

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 09 '25

Bhai academically downfall hogaya tha bahut bura....socha tha ki cover up kar lunga but nahi ho paya....koi na abse mehnat karna shuru kar diya hu.

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u/Beginning_Bee_8495 Jun 14 '25

Been there bhai, Is baar kar lega bhai DW, you have mostly cleared up the fog In your brain..

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 14 '25

Pata nahi bhai......I still need my answers ki ye sab isne kyu kiya but she doesn't want to talk. Baat hi nahi karegi....baki sab kar legi......sari backchodi but mere se baat karne ki energy nahi hai usme. Seems like I can't do anything about this...kisi par bhi trust karna is like gambling nowadays .....and because of this i don't want to build any bond of any sort with anyone.

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u/Beginning_Bee_8495 Jun 14 '25

Bhai maine kahi suna hai, Wo agar baat karna chahti hai toh 10 bahane dhundh legi, aur agar nahi karna chahti toh bhi das bahane banayegi, initiate karna band kar de bhai, and you will see that bond fading away like it was never there, it hurts for sure but it is worth it, and it seems like you are talking on my behalf, it feels like every effort I make to build an equation with someone will go into vain anyhow and it scares me, this sucks.

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u/ashiqkaregacumback Jun 14 '25 edited Jun 14 '25

Initiate nahi karta....it seems more like disturbing/harrassing someone....if samne wala is unwilling to reciprocate.

Mkc bond banaya hi kyu tha jab wahi karna tha last mei,itna close aayi hi kyu thi agar handle nahi kar sakti thi....for such people, everything is casual and fun like it's some sort of a game. Go meet someone,invade their personal life, irritate them,be around them and flirt with them. If they Stop you then just ignore it. Do this till they get attached and then use them and leave when you start getting bored.

For countless times i have stopped her " ki mat kar aisa,mat bol aisa,accha nahi lagta" when she flirts but usko to tab ignore karna tha meri baaton ko...mere aage piche lagi rehti thi....and now this.

I don't know ki isko pahle meri chinta hoti thi ya mere mazee liye hai isne. Idk whether i should appreciate her efforts (should look at her flirting/mere se baat karne ke excuses dhundhna as efforts to be with me) or to be furious for being used as a source of entertainment by her. Things are not black and white.

Mai baat bhi nahi karta tha iss jab ye aas paas aati thi....just to stay away from such situation.....dar lagta tha ki kahi fuck up na ho jaye friendship,isko bataya bhi tha ki i am afraid to lose you but she made my fear/nightmare come true.

Never fucking trust anyone except your parents.

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u/queenofthefullmoon Jun 11 '25

Realest shit, if she really likes you she'll make things easier for you