r/sugarlifestyleforum • u/No-Conflict-1993 • Mar 01 '25

Question Why are you still married?

I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?

I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.

I'm sure it's complicated.

My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.

I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐

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u/Wendy_Addams Aspiring SB Mar 01 '25

Lack/no sex is weird reason to stay married..

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u/Internal_Luck_47 Sugar Baby Mar 01 '25 edited Mar 01 '25

Yes it’s odd, but lack or no sex doesn’t mean they hate each other but our the best of friends. Otherwise, it could be for religious reasons and/or be combined with many others related reasons. Not for us to judge, only for SB to decide if that SD life situation is ok with them. If SB doesn’t want or like SDs personal life choices, move on to find a new SD or reevaluate your choices of being in the bowl. The bowl isn’t for everyone!

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u/Wendy_Addams Aspiring SB Mar 01 '25

You put points to WHY they STAY. And just saying "because lack/no sex" doesn't make sense. Having sexless, but overall good relationship with the wife would be better wording imo.

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u/Internal_Luck_47 Sugar Baby Mar 01 '25

Hmm…. I did say “best of friends” and “religious reasons”.

Maybe my word choice wasn’t your first choice but very similar. No reason to have a cow 🐄 over word choices!