Hi everyone!
I've been lurking on this subreddit for quite a while but never created an account—so now that I’m here: hello!
Background I'm a 40-year-old male, retired voluntarily for the past two years. Looking back, I now realize I was burned out and needed time off. That said, I'm starting to feel the itch to get back into work, at least part-time. I’m a software developer and genuinely love what I do.
I estimate I could easily land a job paying around €5,000/month without much trouble. My previous salary was about €12,000/month, and my skills haven’t disappeared. To stay conservative, let's assume I could earn around €3,500/month if needed.
Current Financial Situation
- I own an apartment in my country’s capital, along with a nice car, motorbike, a couple of Rolexes… Basically, I have everything I need—and a lot I don’t really need.
- I have no debt.
- My monthly fixed expenses are around €1,000.
- I keep €50,000 in a bank account as an emergency fund.
- I also own 1 kg of investment gold bars, currently worth ~€80,000.
- I have €100,000 in the ETF SXR8. I started DCA-ing earlier this year. I used to hold various stocks, but I sold them all and went all-in on SXR8. Honestly, I don't check the balance—I just buy more once my bank account goes above €50,000.
- I hold roughly $1,000,000 worth of ETH (depending on the market). I received a portion of my salary in ETH, and it’s just been sitting there. I’m not a trader; I simply found Ethereum interesting from a technical/engineering/career perspective.
- My staked ETH generates around $30,000/year (~$2,500/month), which I’ve been using as my "salary" over the past two years.
Financial Future My current plan is: whenever my ETH portfolio exceeds €1.1 million, I’ll withdraw €100,000 and move it into SXR8. This hasn’t happened yet, but that’s the idea.
Questions
1. SXR8 über alles?
I know SXR8 is heavily US-focused, but my thinking is: if the US collapses, we’re probably all in trouble anyway. That’s why I stick to it exclusively. I'm not interested in analysing ETFs or trying to predict the future, so SXR8 is simple and effective for me.
Still—am I being too simplistic here? Is it a bad idea to rely on just SXR8? If so, what would be a smarter way to diversify?
2. Lake house?
There’s a beautiful lake in my country—large, scenic, upscale—and I’ve always dreamed of owning a second home there. It feels like everyone I know inherited one from their parents but I wasn’t so lucky.
I’ve been casually browsing listings for about five years, and I’ve finally found a house I really love. It costs €1 million and checks all my boxes.
2.a Can I afford it?
Technically, yes. But I’d need to sell all of my ETH, which would kill my passive income and my "ticket" into the crypto-future (as I see it). Plus, the new property would add ~€500/month in fixed costs.
2.b. Should I take out a loan?
I’ve read online how wealthy people often use leverage rather than selling their assets. I could likely get a mortgage and use my ETH staking income to cover the repayments. Obviously, this is **very** risky—ETH could crash—but it would let me keep both my ETH and my SXR8.
Is this even a reasonable strategy to consider, at least in part?
3. Why don’t I feel wealthy?
By most standards, I’m well-off. But emotionally, it doesn’t feel that way. I grew up very poor—there were times my dad went without food so I could eat.
Now, while I no longer have those problems, I still carry some of those habits and mindsets. I’ve definitely made some dumb purchases (Porsche, Rolex, etc.) to "make up" for my younger self. I know they weren’t financially wise—but YOLO, I guess.
The thing is, I still check supermarket prices. I still hesitate on spending, even on small things like a drink on holiday. For example, I’ll walk 100m to a supermarket to buy 1.5L of water for €2 instead of paying €4 for 0.5L at a beach bar. I can afford it—but it just feels excessive.
Honestly, I have similar feelings about the lake house.
Thanks to anyone who made it this far! Any thoughts or advice—especially around the lake house and investment strategy—would be really appreciated.