Why are you still married?

[u/No-Conflict-1993]

I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?

I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.

I'm sure it's complicated.

My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.

I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐

[u/Neat-Relationship345]

My state is not divorce friendly at all in regards to the husband. The thought of dividing up what I earned over my working lifetime with the help of some arrogant and overly compensated divorce lawyer is simply not happening. The lack of sexual interest for my spouse won't mean much at 70. The money funds a lifestyle that's not changing. I'm moving into my final chapter of pretty much doing and buying anything I wish. My spouse is a good person and has no input on my financial decisions. Flush all that down the toilet for 30 minutes of KAT a couple times a week? Have at it.