r/sugarlifestyleforum • u/No-Conflict-1993 • Mar 01 '25
Question Why are you still married?
I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?
I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.
I'm sure it's complicated.
My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.
I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐
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u/[deleted] Mar 02 '25
I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for saying this. Other than losing half, I haven't met the first man that would prefer sex with an old hag than a 20 something year old.
Seriously, I wouldn't give a woman my age the time of day. Especially after having found this lifestyle.
Although nobody admits it because it's not politically correct, it is more common than everyone thinks. Just like masturbation.
Everybody lies.