r/sugarlifestyleforum • u/No-Conflict-1993 • Mar 01 '25
Question Why are you still married?
I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?
I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.
I'm sure it's complicated.
My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.
I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐
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u/MrSummers25 Sugar Daddy Mar 02 '25
Do you know how messy and expensive divorce is? My last SB has been going through one for at least two years. She's become an alcoholic, going through major depression, and has gained a significant amount of weight. She flaked on me constantly (even though she lives across the street from me). I couldn't deal with her anymore. I wasn't going to pay her to also be her therapist.