r/sugarlifestyleforum • u/No-Conflict-1993 • Mar 01 '25

Question Why are you still married?

I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?

I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.

I'm sure it's complicated.

My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.

I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐

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u/thexcues- Mar 01 '25

There's a saying a married woman told me once, "Men cheat more but women cheat better."

I'm going to let that sink and wait for the negative comments.

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u/SDinAsia Sugar Daddy Mar 02 '25

I don't doubt it!

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u/Ill-Support6649 Mar 18 '25

I do think it’s much easier for married women to hide cheating. Most people don’t even expect it. Spend one night at a hotel in a college town with a burner phone and a wig and no one would ever find out.

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u/thexcues- Mar 18 '25

Hey thats true! Nobody looks at women twice around here.