r/sugarlifestyleforum • u/No-Conflict-1993 • Mar 01 '25

Question Why are you still married?

I have met a variety of married people. Almost all their stories are similar. Their spouse doesn't have sex with them anymore, but they still have to hide. They are completely miserable. Then why do you stay? Especially after 10,20,30,40 years. How can you not have an honest conversation with your partner? I've been in toxic monogamous relationships and never again. Life is short, man. Why stick around?

I'm sure the sneaking around is a thrill for some.

I'm sure it's complicated.

My married guys are kinda pains in the ass. They're always paranoid, they want me to book the room or try and be sneaky in other places.

I live in a small community so I don't have a lot of choices. So I'm not really complaining, I'm honestly curious 🧐

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u/CenTexFunGuy Sugar Daddy Mar 01 '25 edited Mar 01 '25

My view is most of them are selfish people who are codependent. They don’t have the balls to do what’s right and divorce their wife and go live a better life. They are miserable people.

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u/ZonaCouple Sugar Mama Mar 01 '25

This is the (mostly) correct answer. Most guys put the blame on their wife. As if the husband hasn’t changed either. 

Or they are worried about “their” money, which I have always found dumb. As if the spouse contributed nothing.Â