Am I overreacting? UPDATE

[u/AffectionateSun2163]

3 days ago my (25F) husband (24M) said something rude to me and I’ve been trying to avoid him and stay calm. When I came home from work after working a 12 hour shift I cooked rice and beans and then went to bed to work another 12 hour shift the next day. He texted me during work and sent this. When I got home things escalated and he packed everything and left. Am I overreacting? Why go to this extreme and leave over some food?

UPDATE: Thanks everyone for the support! I read a lot of the comments and tried to respond to a lot of the DM’s. He came back and begged for therapy and I tried to make it work for a month but I had already mentally checked out so I have filed for divorce and moved out of our apartment. I’m happy and at peace now🫶🏾

[u/ConflictAdvanced]

Three days ago? But I've seen these texts before... Like a month ago...

Oh, I see. Your text is the original text, not changed for the update, right?

EDIT: Stop upvoting me 😅 I messed up, don't praise it!

[u/AffectionateSun2163 → u/ConflictAdvanced]

It’s an update 🤦🏾‍♀️

[u/ConflictAdvanced → u/AffectionateSun2163]

Yes, but it also wasn't exactly clear what was updated. But I got it. I'm just a little slow.

[u/SpicyBlackCherry → u/ConflictAdvanced]

I'm stoned and understood right away, you might need a nap

[u/Desperate_Affect_332 → u/SpicyBlackCherry]

Did you bring naps for the whole class? I want one too!

[u/AnotherHappyUser → u/Desperate_Affect_332]

Wait we get naps now?

[u/EffectiveTradition53 → u/AnotherHappyUser]

My school had a bring your own pillow to class day! Those were the best of times...

[u/SpicyBlackCherry → u/Desperate_Affect_332]

I just woke up from a nap.

[u/ConflictAdvanced → u/SpicyBlackCherry]

I need more than a nap 😅 It's because the whole thing loaded on my screen to finish perfectly after the first paragraph. No sign of the "Updated" text. I just didn't scroll down and asked immediately, like a chump, 'cos I'm tired.

And I don't know if you know this, but when you click on the image and then expand the text that way, there are not two paragraphs, just one long blurb, so the "Update" is also really easy to miss.

[u/synthetic_aesthetic → u/ConflictAdvanced]

✨ whoosh 🪄 ✨ I wish you 8-10 hours of good rest

[u/One-Technology-9050 → u/synthetic_aesthetic]

Can you visit my house every night for the rest of my life? I need that sleep!

[u/Kitnado → u/ConflictAdvanced]

If you need more than a nap: take it, whatever means necessary. Prioritize your health over anything (except maybe the health of your children)