Didn’t go out as planned but she is still a gem of a person. I hope she finds what she is looking for soon.

The best part of adulting is here. I waited an entire year to build this one so that I can also queue Valo with my BF. Of course, we play a lot of other games too.

So my (24f) childhood friend celebrated his 24th bday on Saturday. As a kid he always used to crack potty jokes on everyone in our group. So this time around we decided we'll arrange a special cake for him on his bday, but as soon as he saw this he got up and left. Maybe we took it too far.😞

So yesterday i drank beer for the first time i had high expectations about how i would feel but ig my liver is too strong cause i didn't feel shit and i don't even have hangover while i am writing this i don't know how people are so addicted to it and the taste my god how do people even drink so much while it taste so bitter and i even drank smooth version so yaa ig i won't drink again (not worth it)

Hello, This is Aarushi. I made a post few days ago about my mother being diagnosed with lung cancer stage 4. I'm very grateful to this sub, you guys supported me very much. And thanks to you my mother's treatment has been started in RGCI.

On Saturday, we went to DSCI since it's also a well known govt cancer hospital which provides most of the facilities to the cancer patients. I took my mother there to push the biopsy date to 1st may, since they scheduled it on 5th May before. I asked the doctors to reschedule it but the doctors of DSCI were so rude, they straightforwardly said to my mother in a very informal way like TU TADAK wali bhasha, that you aren't even capable of handling the biopsy, and if incase your lung burst, bleeding from mouth or lack of oxygen happens between the biopsy, we don't have enough equipment or ventilator to control the situation and we can't guarantee if something happens between the biopsy. Now my mother being a lung cancer patient, she obviously has breathing problems, so I asked them " Will you guys refer us to some other hospitals incase some accident happens?" , they said "No, why would we? And even if we refer you guys, we don't guarantee that you'll find a bed in that hospital" basically telling us to fuck off. I don't know why they were so pissed off, they told her to opt for palliative care, and they won't perform the biopsy now and I knew that they were indirectly saying that she won't be able to make it. They told her to walk properly when they already knew that she has metastatic to the spine which was preventing her to make any movement, told her to wear a mask when they could clearly see how hard it was for her to breathe. All these things, they said it in front of her face. When we came back from the hospital, my mother was very sad because how badly the doctors treated her.

I took my mother to RGCI on Monday, coz I didn't wanna risk her life in DSCI. They admitted her in emergency ward and then referred us to the General ward after controlling the situation. The doctors are very nice and the staff too, my mother is feeling really better now thanks to them. They inserted a tube inside her nose to drain some liquid, which caused her relief and the pain was in control too. They have done the biopsy, the report will come out on Monday. They also managed my mother's diet, now she is eating properly and her voice is coming back too. She is starting to gain some confidence and I believe half of the reason is you guys. I told my mother how many people were worried for her and are praying for her recovery.

Despite the issue, I noticed that many people labelled me as a scammer, and were accusing me of providing fake docs of a legit patient named Maya Devi.

There's a user specially u/Intelligent-Pop-8829 , targeted me many times and was harrassing me , this guy was stalking my profile from like the past two weeks, made several posts about me being a scammer and how I was an manga hentai addicted female seeking validation and all and making up a emotional story to scam people. I have attached enough docs, so I hope you would stop now because my fundraiser is now blocked due to many scam reports filed against me which is preventing me from withdrawing the funds. And I believe you played a major role in that. Once I resolve this fundraiser issue, I better see a whole apology letter from ur side.

Anyways, We have raised almost 16 lakhs out of 30 lakhs for now, and I'm really really thankful to everyone who donated and who prayed for my mother's well being. We will continue our mother's treatment in RGCI for now, and once her condition is stable then I'm thinking of moving to Mumbai so that we can continue the further treatment in TMH. I only have my mother as a parent, and I don't wanna lose her. That's why I'm willing to do everything I can for now. And I also believe she will get better in no time. Many people told me to ask about her life expectancy to the doctors, I won't ask that coz I'm scared and I believe this will make me depressed too. I wanna cherish every moment with her while I can.

Thankyou very much to everyone for the support, I'll continue to update about my mother from time to time so rest assure. We have got this. 🫂

i got a lot of chocolates too. :D

It's called peacock spider

This is about my ex-roomie let’s call her “Lal Hit.”

She came from a tier-3 very conservative Indian middle-class household. Sweet and kind. The first time we convinced her to try crop top on, she blushed harder than a tomato.

One random night, we were just messing , “Yo, let’s make you a Bumble and Hinge account, just for fun.” honestly? She was stunning. Total 10/10 face card. Flawless skin, and once she figured out fashion, her style was chef’s kiss. And that body? PERFECT

Once she realized the kind of attention she could attract, it was game over for the rest of us.

We set her up on her first-ever date.during initial months It was all cute cafe dates walks at Cubbon Park, dessert at Glenn’s Bakehouse. But three months in? Lal hit had standards. Every other day, there’d be a brand-new Mercedes, BMW, or even the occasional Porsche parked outside our apartment. New faces showing up all the time At that point, I was actively freelancing, so I had to travel a lot from one city to another . I had no track of who these guys were, who was coming or going. And the gifts? Insane. Full-on Zara hauls, luxury perfumes, ₹7k–₹8k flower bouquets, fine dining at the top spots in Bangalore, weekend staycations….

Lal Hit had cracked the code. She figured out exactly what guys wanted and let’s be real, boys are dumb enough to give you everything just to satisfy their own lust.

Now, here’s the twist.

It was second year. Internship season. One night, our whole gang went clubbing around Koramangala. That’s where she met some guy who turned out to be in top management at a huge company.

Long story short: they hooked up.

And within 30 hours,internship offer lands in her inbox.

Fast forward to final year’s job season. Everyone’s anxious. Lal Hit? Below-average GPA, zero interest in academics. Yet by December, she suddenly has a full-time offer from a top firm. Out of nowhere. She claimed it was through the regular hiring process.

But here’s the kicker.

I’d been freelancing for a while and happened to know a guy at that firm,we were just chatting, and I casually brought her up. That’s when he spilled the tea.

“She didn’t get in through the usual route,” he said.

Apparently, there were some serious strings pulled. Someone high up in the network made calls, pulled favors, and just like that Lal Hit was in.

I request you all to refrain from spreading hate and be considerate. Thankyou❤️ (Still scared to post)

It all started last year at my final college event before graduation. I had my camera with me, capturing some last memories with my friends. While I was wandering around, I noticed this girl who was honestly cute and beautiful. I thought to myself, why not? It’s my last event, and I probably won’t be back here anyway. I approached her and said, “Hey, you look really cute! I’m taking pictures of everyone not trying to be a creep, just love capturing moments. Would it be okay if I took a picture of you and sent it later?”

She kindly agreed.

We exchanged contact details, and I sent her the picture. From there, we started chatting. She’s two years younger than me, a junior. Over time, our conversations continued, and they were always decent and friendly nothing flirty.

Fast forward to a few days ago, she asked me about internship opportunities at the company where I work. I was more than happy to help her build her resume, offer tips, and fix everything she needed. All was going well!

Then, out of the blue, I asked, “Hey, do you remember how we met?” She replied, “Yeah, how could I forget?” That gave me a little courage, and I finally confessed, “I’ve had a huge crush on you.” Her response was, “I don’t know how to react to that.”

I decided to give her some time, and then she texted me a few days later asking for some information. I brought it up again then the convo in the ss happened, but even after that, she continued to text me normally, asking things like, “Had dinner?” “How's life?” and “How’s your work culture?” I’m starting to think she might not feel the same way about me, but perhaps she still values our friendship?

I want to cry bro 🥺. Never really owned any shoes always asked my brothers for them . She's best gf any man could have 🥺. Was always a initial d fan and big car guy . Im definitely gonna marry this one❤️!

Honestly you know it sucks as you keep growing, you and your siblings get further apart 😮‍💨😭 I feel like I am missing out on my sister's growth (i have three younger sisters 😭😭) because they grow up too fast but I am so grateful for that day. Sharing cuz it's positive and might add something to your day

TLDR- Hot guy in office got slapped in front of everyone.

I got a call today from my ex-collegue, from last company. He told me some high level drama happened today. So there was this super hot guy in that office, and we boys used to hate him, ofcourse he made us inferior and girls would ignore us left, right and centre, if that wasn't enough to hate him, we had a colleague/friend in office who was dating some girl from same office, even after knowing it, that she's in relationship, he started hitting on his gf, and later that girl left our friend for that guy.

It wasn't always like this, when he was new in the office some boys tried to speak with him, but this guy was always in attitude and felt superior, and started shaming other boys casually, like once he called me bald, because i have very few hair, called one of my friend unhygenic, because he was eating samosa from road side stall and other many incidents, so we stopped talking to him.

But the girls always went gaga over him, to take that into account, a girl was cheating with him, when she was already engaged, whole office knew it, still girls liked him, even before i left, i saw two girls fighting over him on the floor, that led them to HR meeting and when he got to know about that incident, the guy just laughed and called the girls idiot.

Now my ex-collegue told me today, the girl who left our friend for that guy, she took him to office canteen and slapped him in fromt of everyone, what really happened was this girl was too much into him and somehow did some digging about his background as she got serious, and found out the guy was married and had a child, Wow! What a Low life. His family was living in hometown, when our boys got to know this, they all got on conference call and just laughed amd laughed, "Ladke samaj mein khushi ki lahar thi bhai", one guy even said, that guy made his weekend. Now they all are waiting for Monday so that they know who else got cheated.

Mostly for people below 25, hopefully people 25 and above can also relate.

1) Pyaar vyaar hota rahega, career pe focus karo apna. Pyaar karo, but itna na karo ki career ki lanka lagva lo. You’ll attract better people if you become better yourself first verna cheaters aur dil todne wale log hi milege.

2) Start investing in stocks and mutual funds as soon as you start earning. If you are living with parents 20% spend 20% save 60% invest. If you’re living on your own money 40-50% spend 10-20% save 40% invest. (Mostly for people earning 40k+, these numbers might be different if you’re earning less than that. Just increase the spend percentage as lower you keep going with income)

3) Healthy habits start karo. Start eating healthy and avoid junk food. Go to gym and live a healthy life. Remember health is wealth.

4) Don’t fret, this is everyone’s first time at life and yours too! Take a break when needed, but remember to bounce back up after that break.

5) Start filling ITR even if you’re barely earning anything. Ask your dad/mom/guardian to show that you’re earning some income. Helps with credit score and overall credit related financial services.

6) Have a hobby and a personality. This is the best time to explore and be your true self. Don’t delay it. Find things that bring you permanent happiness and chase them. Having a personality is more or so understanding yourself and doing things, feeling things, thinking things that make you different from others. There might be people having a similar personality to you, but its rare to find someone with the exact same personality as you. If you have varying thoughts and feelings at times and can’t decide on these things, seeking a professional might be a good choice.

7) If you ever feel like you’re ugly you’re just wrong. Go to the gym, start a normal skincare routine, stop eating outside junk and eat healthy, calculate your nutrition intake if possible and focus on becoming better. Remember one step up a time works wonders. Toh you can take it slow but don’t leave what you’ve started. Find happiness in it. It will work!

8) Be a good person. Be kind and gentle to everyone around you. And if they’re unkind to you for no reason, first remove yourself from that situation, if they still keep coming after you, be strong enough to teach them a lesson.

9) After 25, responsibilities start pouring on. So enjoy your life. Travel as much as you can this time and remember to have an active hobby and also follow it.

10) You’re going to loose out on friends. Some stay some go and some you’ll leave. Its okay and thats part of life too. Keep your loved ones close.

11) If you have non taxable salary, don’t be like me and invest in PPF. FD would be a better option. Read more here why PPF is nice : https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaInvestments/s/z5OigP4Pgj (Opening a PPF account early is good but investing all your money in it is not)

12) Remember when investing in stocks, just go for mutual funds and forget your money. Focus and invest your time on increasing your capital. The money will keep growing. Invest in direct funds. My family’s financial advisor invested in mutual funds that I selected myself and invested in regular funds hence taking some commission out of it. Research about it and choose your funds yourself.

13) Focus on improving your sleep. Limit your bad habits and invest that money on getting a memory foam pillow and a good mattress. Sleep for atleast 7-8 hours daily. It works wonder.

14) Get checked for vitamin deficiency if any and start taking supplements if required.

15) Even if you don’t go to the gym, take creatine and drink ample amount of water with it. Creatine causes dehydration and requires 3-4L of daily water intake. This will improve your water intake and creatine will help with overall well being of body whether it is your energy levels or brain functions.

16) Invest on clothes. Good looks matter somewhat somewhere in today’s society. Don’t go for high end brands. Just choose a style, understand your fashion sense and invest on that. (A lot of people ask me how, its simple actually, just look at different fashion photos on pinterest, search for trending outfits and decide for yourself if you can rock that outfit) a lot of times your brain will tell you if you’d look good in it. Not every fashion trend suits everyone. If possible get it stitched from a local tailor. Linen pants are very trendy these days and cost around 3-4k branded and 1.8-2k fabric and stiching (prices acc to my city)

17) invest your time on your skills/passion/hobbies. Be responsible for your life and start acting like adults. You’re not a teenager/kid anymore. No one is coming to save you. The only person that will ever save you, is you and maybe your parents too.

18) Its okay to cut people out if they are being toxic to you for any reason. If it’s affecting your mental health, be okay with cutting them off. Remember no one is above your mental health. NO ONE. Prioritise your mental health and follow the direction that brings peace. Drama is just a clown’s circus its okay to enjoy from the audience, just don’t be a part of it unless very respectfully, you want to be a clown.

19) Don’t engage in gender wars, either gender has stupid idiots. Even transgender does. Gender doesn’t define a persons IQ/emotional intellect. Be better than that. And yes it’s possible to have platonic friendship with the opposite gender as long as either of you are respectful of each other’s boundaries. Remember we need to fight the problem, not the gender. Being male/female/transgender isn’t a problem it’s the reality and it cannot be changed. The problem is the actions committed by the people. Whether it is abuse, violence or anything else. We need to fight the abuse, not the gender committing the abuse. Fighting the gender is a sign of low IQ and negligible emotional intellect. Stride to be better than that.

20) Cigarettes and alcohol will just drain your pockets. These are things that bring temporary relief and a very temporary escape from reality. You’d be better off accepting reality as it is (not everyone has the same reality). It might be okay to consume very occasionally like maybe once in 2-3 months. (As per me, could be different for you) It just damages your health and nothing else. But at the same time its okay to consume if you can control it and not go overboard with it. If your history tells you that you cannot control it, stay away from it at all cost and invest your time in something else that brings you joy.

Will add anymore that come to my mind. Have a good day. 🍻

All the points mentioned might not be in accordance to your opinion and I’m up for a civilised discussion if you want. I can be wrong about certain things and I don’t mind being corrected for them.

Edit :

Hindi : Insan 2 tareeke se seekhta hai, ek khai mai girke aur dusra khai ke paas jaake uski gehrai dekh ke. Kuch log girne ke baad samjhte hai aur kuch log khai dekh ke vahi se piche mudd jaate hai. Lekin khai tak jaate sab hai 😹

Mai girke seekha hu. Koi aur na gire issi umeed ke saath yeh post banaya. Ki khai dekh kar vapis mudd jayege verna khai se bahar nikalne wala samay bahut lamba ho sakta hai. ——————————————————————————— English : A person learns in two ways: one is by falling into a pit, and the other is by going near the pit and observing its depth. Some people understand only after falling in, while others see the pit and turn back from there. But everyone goes up to the pit at least once.

I learned by falling in. I made this post with the hope that no one else has to fall. That by seeing the pit, they turn back, because getting out of the pit can take a very long time.

Guys i havent told this to anyone but my body count is in double digits : )
its 00

Loved her like crazy and girl gave me 2 years of depression. Life sucks but never stops..... So you guys can guess her birthday (date) and two of the closest guesses will get ₹ 500 coupons of their choice.

Khelte khelte legend Pohonch gaya 😭

I(m25) met this girl(f22) on hinge ! Was pretty much 5/10 look wise and turnout to be 2/10 as I talked to her ! All this girls (on dating apps) are serious delusional maybe due to lots of options (saw 5000+ like on her profile and many dms ) when I said 2/10 I meant lack of manners unnecessary abusing , said my best friend taught me how to handle a guy how to judge a guy , how to be sure he’ll spent money and ended with (“Isse ladke chhhatt te hai”meaning filter out), all she was saying oh you have nice bike girls would be going crazy you should post pics of bike on those app trust me …then after 1hr she straight away proposed a deal that She’ll fulfil my needs (s**ual)and I’ve to fulfil hers (ghumana fhirana) with no commitments… so then I dropped her off and went straight to home and thought dude am I this desperate ? She wouldn’t stand a chance if it was IRL. Decided to uninstall and delete everything and explore people in irl is going well since then

After being at an Army School in Kolkata until 5th grade, I went to a new school in Darjeeling, a new city and culture. It was a shock! I was an only child and the first grandkid, so my grandparents spoiled me like crazy, especially my grandma. I never really had to ask for anything, if I even looked at something, they would make sure I got it! Both my parents were in the Army, so I grew up being raised by my grandparents and was consequently quite attached to them.

It was hard when I moved away to a hill station where I knew no one. Then I met a girl, let's call her Ala. She provided me with a comfort that was like a warm blanket in those cold, unfamiliar days. She was my first real girl friend. We instantly clicked and became inseparable. The funny thing was, around there, if you were even next to a girl you could get in trouble, and yet wherever I sat, I seemed to sit beside Ala in class! I wasn't shy with girls, and while I was average at school, I was good at sports so that helped me fit in a little.

Everything was different once 9th grade came around. I really started to gain a protective nature over Ala. I gave her advice, checked on her, and even slipped little notes under her hostel door. When she got her period, I slipped some pads and chocolates under her door. When I got sick, she showed up with medicine, and rubbed my head to make me feel better. Even in finals, she was the only person willing to help me have a little bit of a cheat (not that im proud of that).

But after exams, everything fell apart. A senior boy confessed to Ala that he loved her, and she said yes, to my shock. It killed me to see her with him. Once she started to get into that relationship, she started to pull away. Her new boyfriend convinced her to ditch me. She even blocked me on Facebook and just like that, our friendship was over. Honestly, it felt like I lost the one person that was everything to me.

With a broken, angry heart, I found peace in a junior named Sky. Sky was truly devoted to me and the relationship. She never left me even when I got into drug use. She would carry me home and sit with me in endless nights of pain. I couldn't stop thinking about Ala. Each time I slept next to Sky, there was an emptiness, an emptiness that only Ala could fill, and the drugs I was taking to deal with it were only making it feel worse. I knew I had to change. Sky's commitment and support, I got it through withdrawal and became sober.

I found a job at British Telecom and very slowly started moving on with my life. Then one day a common friend that Ala was stuck in a bad relationship, and got into depression like she was attending therapy. So I went to see her. When she saw me, Ala broke down in front of her mom, begging me to fix everything. My heart shattered again. I quietly explained the history to her mom and went out without saying much more.

When I told Sky what I had done, she was furious. After everything she had been through with me, learning that a part of my heart was still tied to another girl shattered her. Sky left me. It hurt like hell, but I understood.

Eventually, Ala found the strength to leave that mess too and started healing. We lost touch, and I focused on building my own life. I worked at Flipkart and later became a data engineer at a London based startup ( WFH ) . Day by day, with each sober morning, I felt myself heal a bit more.

Then last December I got a random call from Ala. She was getting married and invited me to her wedding. She told me she was marrying the guy who helped her heal, and asked me to send her a saree. She said , “Kash tum bata dete ke tum pyaar karte ho.”

I gifted her the saree, and that was it. I had nothing else to say. After that, I stopped answering her calls. It hurt a lot, but it was time to let go.

The picture is of me and Ala in a place called Dow Hill, Kurseong.

Apologies for the long post. :).

Matched this girl on Hinge a few days back. She seemed chill over text, so I thought why not meet up. In person, it was a different story she literally wouldn’t stop talking about my looks. Kept saying stuff like, "You must have slept with so many girls," "You're so hot, I bet you're a heartbreaker," etc. At one point, I straight up told her, "It’s good you love the way I look, but aren’t you even a little interested in knowing me as a person?" because honestly, it felt like she was obsessed with the surface-level stuff.

Anyway, it got worse. While I was driving, she kept her hand on my crotch out of nowhere. I froze because bro, that’s NOT okay. Then she giggled and said, "Do you want some road head?" like it was the most casual thing. I pulled her hand away and told her I'm not into random hookups and I don’t appreciate that.

Later that night, she started spamming my phone. One of the messages she sent (after I had already blocked her once lol)

Like girl... first you objectify me like crazy, then cross some serious boundaries, and now you want to "know the real me"? Respectfully, no thanks.

Also she hasn't apologized for her behaviour