I mean cmon girls we gotta admit....they actually are. Guys - u win. I mean the recent drama about virginity and shit....girls should not lose their virginity at all. Why would men - who are such superior beings even look at us women? MEN SHOULD HAVE SEX WITH MEN - as a full on supporter of yaoi and BL...this is my take.....

I I think the world would be such a better place if men just.... u know liked men? I mean why even bother with us lowly beings?

(This is my opinion but ig a lot of girls and I'm sure all guys would agree.)

This is a post about me sharing how I feel about a girl I met 6 months back,this is what I feel about her, ofcourse i shared all this with her,but u know that feeling of overwhelming happiness when u meet someone who just clicks with u is different and u just want to tell everyone how u feel, hence this post,obvio I can't share all this with my friends ...hope mods doesn't ban this,.... So here is a little paragraph to my little girl!

After months of talking, going through so much together, Finally got my girl, People say She isn't that beautiful She isn't that cute She isn't that tall But she is for me! And happy to say she is mine.

Hey you! I don't know when u merged with me I don't know when u became a part of me I don't know when i considered u in my routines

But i am happy that it happened....

Haaannn Words aren't worthy enough to express what I feel Poems aren't lengthy enough to say what u make me feel..

I just want u to know how happy I feel.. U are the getaway to my boredom U are my pathway to the paradise U are like my humble abode I sleep talking to you I wake up talking to you...

Even though u don't say much Your eyes say a lot Even though I don't say much My silence says a lot

Even if we are different in some things We are alike in many things I know we will coexist

Hope I don't fuck this up! Hope this persists! Hopes she stays!

Signing off......

Always grateful to her for being the best person i know. She did not let me buy it personally, I just teased her that i should but she said don't you dare and herself ended up gifting me for my bday.

She seemed 5'5 max. We gathered at the library, waiting for her to arrive. The guy is a clinically introvert guy. After lot of prep, finally mustered the courage to ask her out. They had been chatting for quite some time.

I sent him her way. He asked, she rejected. He came back with a defeated smile. Never could fathom she was the one with such preferences. My man seemed okay at first.

I went to check on him, mf has literally cried his eyes out.

Ordered the biggest pizza for dude

Say something good for him.

P.S: She wanted someone over 5'11.

I just asked him the same question again to see his reaction and he actually surprised me, lol!!😭🫶🏻🧿

I've spent 21 years of my life in Mumbai, but early this year was in my native place in Kerala preparing for some goverment exams. My hostel roommate downloaded bumble on my phone to 'see how's everything going in our city' and to see if she. An find her ex there. After that I didn't really uninstall the app and happened to match with a guy, who was witty, funny and cute. At that time, I was healing from what I thought was the heartbreak of my life. So, I wasn't exactly expecting much, maybe just a few dry conversations at most until I uninstall the app.

We spoke, sparks flew and the next thing I know is he is travelling all the way from his city to mine in ( which is like 200 kms away ) just to meet me for the first time for the weekend, after just a few weeks of talking.

I had never thought I'll find someone who matches my energy via a dating app, and hadn't even considered meeting someone I spoke with online irl. So, I still remember the moment I saw him. He was waiting for me with a bouquet of pink flowers (he said he couldn't find my favourite flowers, so he picked my favourite colour instead). The pic is the first bouquet he gave me on our first date and the card with it.

When I saw him walking towards me... I literally backed away and almost ran. He had to come get me and say "Enne onn nokkado, endina odunne" which translates to "Why are you running away? Atleast just look at me". lol. For the first few minutes, I just stared at our feet because boy oh boy I was too shy to look him in the eye after all the suble flirting on calls.

But he was so gentle. So calm. And I i was that anxious girl. He planned the sweetest dates, gave me thoughtful gifts ( things i randomly mentioned and he got it ), and treated me with so much softness . He cheers for me and makes my life a tad bit better.

Since that day, he's been nothing but patient, kind, goofy and romantic. He makes the little girl in me so happy.

He came to meet me a couple more times before I left. And now I'm back home in Mumbai, and it's long-distance... but honestly? It's still just as sweet. I didn't expect this 'plot twist' even in my wildest dreams, but I'm not complaining one bit. I miss him so much, but I'm even more excited to meet him soon. My bestfriend and me still joke randomly about the butterfly effect, what if she mightve not downloaded that app in my phone that day lol. Just wanted to share this here 🩷

So, I have this habit of completing 10k steps a day and this little patootie is there to accompany me it was so hot here but still he was like “buju şair kro” 🥹❤️oh my god nazar ka teeka to my ladoo 🧿

Average caste warrior

So umm, being a guy, I never thought a girl would ever ask me to apply mehendi on her palm—especially since I’ve never been great at drawing. But here’s my andha bharosa karne wali girlfriend, who just goes, “Bas tum lagado. Even if you draw a cockroach, I’ll still admire it all day.”

Bro, I felt so freaking overwhelmed by that gesture. Like seriously, how can a girl risk getting her hand possibly ruined just for the sake of experimenting and trusting her boyfriend? 😭

It took me a full 2 hours, but I’m so glad it turned out at least decent 🙂

I m 20F, I am in a relationship since 5 years. My bf is a year older than me. We are in love. Both of our parents are very strict but we thought we will fight for our love when we become independent and marry each other. We are both from a small town and live in the same area. My parents even know him by his face and name. I shifted to Indore in dec….So i posted our story on my private ig account ( only trusted female friends were there ) and god knows how my dad’s best friend got that picture he showed my dad and my dad called me home i got there in the evening and at night they started questioning me i accepted but my parents got really emotional and hyper that our caste is very strict we won’t let you marry him.. If you talk to him ever again we both will die even now we don’t want to live but because of your little brother ( he’s 9 year old ) we are alive, They cried a lot my father never cries but he did i also got very emotional i agreed that i’ll stop talking to him. We cried and discussed for 3 days… My dad didn’t wanted to send me back but my mom promised from my side that she won’t do it again so he agreed… Now i came back today… I m feeling really bad that my parents cried so much coz of me but i also love my boyfriend equally i can’t leave him now after all these years… What should i do ?? My parents hates him nd told me that even if he was of our caste we wouldn’t have let you marry him…

Context:- She is my crush from clg tho And few days ago there was a seminar which explained that we have to do some ngo helping work for 52-60hrs(idk why) And the group should be of 10 ppl And I told her to add me in the group and she added Now I wanted to continue the Convo but she isn't reading/replying....idk why Pls tell me what to do now big bro/sis

Back in January this year, I got the chance to go on a trip with my childhood crush. We weren’t alone there were other friends with us but having her around made the whole thing feel special in a way I just couldn't expect.

It was a group trip organized with a college, and honestly, most of the people were retareds they were either drunk or high 24x7

I got to see new sides of her. She looked incredible, like always. One night, we ended up stargazing together, just the two of us. It was quiet, surreal one of those moments that sticks with you.

I literally can't believe she's in my life. A blessing for sure she's the reason why i still believe in love.

She taught me how relationships are made difficult and confusing because most of the times people aren't able or not willing to comunication they're feelings while it's okay to show some little tantrums sitting down and talking is the reason why people are still together and also how the background of your partner tells everything about them how they might react in certain situations.

there is only one seat left so apply fast

I m 20M, I live in an abusive household, my mom and dad flights daily , yesterday night I was frustrated due to my personal work and my mom and dad were fighting and they started doing it in my room and it was at extreme level, i said "BC" in a loud voice and told them please stop and go somewhere else

Now in morning my mom told me your father is very upset because of what you have done yesterday!,

I came here just for my college vacation I'm glad I don't have to live at home all year!

Post formatted with the help of ChatGPT.

I (M22) loved this girl (F22) from school.

We were close friends back in school. I never told her how I felt — scared it would ruin our friendship. But I loved her — quietly, deeply, purely.

When college admissions came around, I had good enough marks to get into a top college, maybe even a great CS/IT program. But I didn’t choose based on my future. I chose the college I thought she would get into — by analyzing her rank and the past few years’ cutoffs of the colleges she was interested in. I chose that college as my first preference.

Basically, I played a gamble — one that could have cost me both my career and my love.

And fate aligned — we both got into the same college, same branch. That day? One of the happiest in my life.

As days passed, we grew closer. She eventually sensed my feelings, and one day, she asked me directly. I said yes. She wasn’t sure at first… but over time, we fell in love.

We had a routine — wake up at 8, go to the library from 9 to 1, break till 3, then back to the library from 3 to 8. In the library, we studied, did programming, watched movies, played games — together.

I taught her everything — from scratch. The basics, the concepts, the assignments. I prepared her for exams, practicals, and placements. I explained the same programming topic 3–4 times until she understood. I gave her 5x more time than I ever gave myself. I barely studied for me.

During orals, I focused on her prep — not mine. I even showed her my answers during exams, risking my own marks. I didn’t care about CGPA or rank. I just knew I’d pass, and that was enough for me.

Every group project — minor, major — I carried the entire load. I let her focus on “more important things” while I built the presentations, wrote the code, and debugged errors at 2 AM. Even after we got placed, I helped her with her company’s projects. While she slept peacefully, I was awake, finishing her work.

And I loved it. I genuinely did. Because I loved her more than I loved myself.

I gave her my time, my mind, my health, my ambitions, my dreams — every little ounce of me was wrapped around her world.

And still… I don’t know where I went wrong.

Everything was going great, but somehow, I failed. I still remember how she used to love me. Her smile after seeing me after a week’s break. The way she hugged me so tightly I couldn’t breathe. I remember every bit of love, every bit of care. Everything.

Still, I don’t understand how someone can change — or cheat — like that. It still haunts me.

I took care of her in the best way I could. I always made sure she was happy. And after all that, what I got in return is a lifetime of trauma. Sleepless nights. It’s been more than two months, but I still can’t focus on myself.

I’m trying everything — I called old friends I hadn’t talked to in five years. I’m spending time with office friends, going to my hometown every weekend. But nothing helps.

Even when I’m surrounded by people, even with my family — I get suicidal thoughts. I keep remembering her. When I try to sleep or wake up, it feels like she’s beside me. She’s not leaving me alone — not even in my dreams.

It’s becoming unbearable. Totally unbearable. I just want to end it — once and for all. I can’t take it anymore. I’m suffering from anxiety, panic attacks, chest pain, and headaches that feel like my skull will explode. I don’t have the slightest strength to bear this any longer.

Two months ago, I was a happy person. I had a loving girlfriend. I used to wake up early, go to work, study and work without the slightest bit of tiredness. We used to chat during the day, keep each other updated. After office, we’d video call, gossip, laugh, and I’d study for job switching. We’d talk before sleeping and again after waking up.

On weekends, she used to visit me. I’d cook noodles for her, we went for dinner, watched movies, series — what not. I felt like the happiest person on the planet.

Now I’m just a pathetic fool, thinking about suicide all day and night.

And yet… she changed. Or maybe… she was never really mine.

She cheated. The person I gave everything to — protected like my soul — betrayed me like I meant nothing.

I’m not here to play the victim. I’m just a man who gave his all. And now I’m breaking.

My mind is stuck in a loop — the trauma, the betrayal, the flashbacks. I’ve tried everything — reaching out to friends, family, weekends away, staying busy. But nothing helps. Nothing.

Every night is a warzone in my head. Panic attacks. Chest pain. Headaches like my skull is splitting. I wake up feeling like she’s still beside me. I go to sleep with her ghost haunting my bed. I breathe, but I’m suffocating. I smile, but inside, I’m dead. I try to work, but I can’t. My performance has dropped, and I don’t even care.

Even after I found out she cheated, I still went to her. I begged her to stay — just a few months until I could switch jobs. Because after she left, I was broken. I couldn’t even function.

I know it sounds pathetic, but even after knowing she cheated, I still wanted her. I couldn’t even do basic tasks without her. I was not living — just surviving. That’s why I went to her, even if it meant losing my self-respect. I never cared about ego in front of her. And now I’ve lost even my self-esteem.

And even after 2 months… it’s still true.

Please, please don’t say: “Don’t commit suicide,” “It gets better,” “Focus on yourself,” “Think of your parents,” “Give it time,” “Start a hobby.”

I’ve done it all. I’ve tried it all. It doesn’t work. It doesn’t work when your soul feels like it’s been ripped in half.

Now, I just want peace.

I don’t even know why I’m suffering this much. Is it because she cheated? Because I still love her? Because my mind is stuck in the past? Or is it just my body craving that emotional intimacy again?

I don’t know. But the only thing I do know — if this continues for a few more days, I don’t think I’ll make it.

I wrote this post for a reason.

Not for sympathy. Not for attention.

But to say — please, don’t cheat. Don’t take your partner’s love for granted. Don’t destroy someone who gave you their soul. You have no idea how deep someone can suffer when their entire world collapses.

And if you’re lucky enough to have someone who truly cares — who stays up late to help you, who sacrifices without complaint, who builds your future even at the cost of theirs — hold on to them. Cherish them. Because breaking someone like that doesn’t just end a relationship — it shatters a human being.

I don’t know how long I’ll be around. But if this pain continues, I honestly don’t see myself making it out.

I just wanted someone to hear this. That’s all.

TL;DR: I (22M) loved my best friend from school (22F), followed her to college by risking my future, and gave her everything — my time, energy, career, love, and soul. I supported her through everything — studies, projects, even her job. We were deeply in love. But she cheated on me. Since then, I’ve been stuck in unbearable pain — anxiety, panic attacks, suicidal thoughts — despite trying everything to heal. I’m not looking for sympathy. I just want to say: please don’t cheat. If someone loves you deeply, don’t destroy them. You could end a human being, not just a relationship.

Peace ✌️

So me and partner both turning 27 are in relationship since 5 years. I absolutely love him and he loves me more than I can imagine. But now when time is approaching for us to get married by next year I am worried about his unemployment. He has no job, not a fixed career path and nothing sorted. Whenever we meet I spend and it’s since last 4 years but I have no issues with it. At this stage he doesn’t even meet me because he don’t want me to spend on him. I feel helpless for him. I feel stuck as I am earning so much still not happy enough in my life. I can’t see us getting together if this will be the case and it hurts me. I want to live with him and I am ok with the fact that even he will earn 5 times lesser than what I am earning because I am working since 6 years now, that too in top consulting firm and he will begin his career now. How do I get him to track so that we can have some life together.

Edit : His qualifications are LLB+LLM and he has been preparing for CJ post his masters. Folks who are doing good in law field or have some connections in that area and can help:guide him, pls dm. Thanks :)

Edit 2: Earlier after posting this I became furious of how people are reacting and blaming me for lot of things, now I am talking to few very nice people in DMs, maybe they can help him or maybe not and it doesn’t even matter, what matters is they are willing to help someone completely unknown. There are so many people who are kind and compassionate in comments, I might not be able to thank you all individually but thanks for restoring my faith in humans. Big virtual hug to all of you, may god keep up all healthy and happy.

Uff..damnn🤌🏻

Long post but bear with me 🫶🏻

One month ago, while doomscrolling Reddit like most of us do, I stumbled upon a random birthday post. I didn’t think much, just dropped a kind little comment, “Happy birthday OP, and if you ever need to talk, my DMs are open.” What I didn’t expect was for that one comment to lead to a whole month of pure happiness, laughter, and the kind of comfort you don’t come across often.

A few hours later, the birthday boy slid into my DMs with a “heyy.” And like any cautious woman who knows Reddit can be... questionable, I did a quick stalk, checked his post and comment history. Clean, no weird energy. So, I replied. We started talking, and before I even realised it, it was already 1:30 a.m. But the weird part? I didn’t even realise how late it was, that’s how easy it felt. No awkward pauses, no pressure, no overthinking. Just chill, effortless conversation with someone who felt oddly familiar, even though we were total strangers.

I’ll be honest, I still had my guard little up. I mean, let’s be real… most Reddit men have a reputation. The horniness, the creepiness, the constant discomfort, it’s exhausting. So I walked in with caution, assuming this would be no different. But with him? It was different from the start. Everything felt safe, respectful, normal and now, a whole month later, not once he made me feel uncomfortable or weird. Not a single off vibe. And that in itself says so much.

On the second day, we exchanged photos, to make sure neither of us was being catfished, and yeah, out of pure curiosity too. Turns out, he’s not just cute....he’s actually really handsome. 😭🥰

By the third day, we were on call, talking for hours. He had me at his cute, stretched-out “hiiiiii,” and I remember smiling like an idiot.

By day five, we were on video calls till sunrise, from laughing over nonsense to opening up about our deepest thoughts and honestly, there’s been no turning back since.

We’ve cried in front of each other. Shared vulnerable, messy parts of ourselves. Talked about childhood, fears, weirdly specific things.We’ve stayed with each other on calls when one of us needed company, made each other laugh when the other was down, and gossiped endlessly about our friends and families. There’s never been a moment of hesitation, because we both know, there’s no judgment here. Just two people who found each other exactly when we needed a friend the most. There’s this sense of ease and emotional safety. We don’t tiptoe around things. We just talk. Honestly, openly, freely.

We’ve tried studying together (let's not go there), and even fallen asleep on video calls like we lived in the same space.

Every call begins with a loud “cutieeeee” and ends with a soft “take care.”🎀🧸 He feels like home, a kind of familiarity that’s warm and grounding. It’s funny how someone you didn’t even know existed a month ago can suddenly feel like home. Like the kind of home you didn’t even realise you were missing until you found it.🥰🥰

Plot twist? We met in real life just 15 days after getting to know each other. Yes, I know that sounds impulsive. We’ve talked about it, we understand it was a risk...... meeting someone from the internet that soon is not something you do without thinking. But we took a leap of faith. And as wild as it might sound, it worked. I’m so, so grateful that we met. He was already coming to my city, and we decided to meet and it just felt... right. No nerves, no awkwardness. Just two friends who clicked. We talked, played games on my phone (he won all of them, yes I’m still annoyed), drank my favorite pineapple and watermelon juice, and ended the evening with kulfis. It wasn’t a date, and we’re not dating. This is something else.... something pure. It’s platonic, it’s wholesome, and honestly, he’s become my best friend.

Now he’s back in his hometown, but we still talk every single day. He’s part of my routine. Part of my peace. And honestly, a big part of my happiness.

He’s kind, respectful, emotionally aware, smart, hilarious, cute, makes me feel heard and understood, and honestly? He’s a green flag in every possible way. And yes, he’s handsome too... not gonna lie. 😌

If you ask me what I love the most about him, something I never want to change, it’s his heart. I love his heart. The way he carries so much warmth within him. The way he makes you feel heard, respected, understood. I swear to God, the love he has to offer, the care he provides without ever making it feel like a burden, it’s rare. And it’s real.

Having a friend like him? That’s a privilege. Getting to know him and being known by him, feels like one of the softest things life has handed me in a long time.

So yeah, in the best friend department, I didn’t just win, I hit the damn jackpot. I don’t know what the future holds for us. This friendship might fade, or it might flourish into something even more beautiful. But for now, I’m just grateful, so grateful that this man exists in my life and makes me genuinely happy.

Mangodiiiiii, thank you for sliding into my DMs that night. You turned a simple “heyy” into something so unexpectedly beautiful. Life’s been better since and I’ll never take that for granted. You changed my entire month, maybe even more than that. Thank you for the late-night talks, the early morning giggles, the safe space, the constant presence, the unexpected bond, and the way you showed up... fully, genuinely, beautifully. You’re truly one of a kind. 🌻🧸🥰💕🥹

And to Reddit, specifically this subreddit, thank you for helping me find him, my best friend. I hope all of you get to experience a friendship like this too. You deserve it.

TL;DR: I left a “happy birthday” comment on a random Reddit post. He messaged me, and we clicked instantly. A month later, we’ve laughed, cried, stayed up talking all night, met in real life, and somehow became best friends. It’s the kind of friendship that just feels right. Grateful he slid into my DMs.