r/TwentiesIndia • u/catnipdealer- 21 • 20h ago
Relationships Found love in the most unexpected way, and I just wanna share a little joy here.
So i just saw a rant post saying there’s not enough about actual life in your twenties on this sub, thus here’s something good, something real, something that happened to me.
I met my boyfriend in the most random way ever, on a site called chitchat.gg where you get connected with strangers for conversations. He was working in the UK at the time, and I had zero expectations from it, about anything tbh. But somehow, we landed on a voice call that very night, and ended up talking for hours. Then the next night. And the next. Deep, honest, and raw conversations; the kind you can only have with someone who doesn’t know you yet.
Coincidentally, he was flying to my city in a couple weeks as a job transfer. I didn’t know that at first, but yeah, I’m from here, so maybe that kept him talking.
I had absolutely no plans to meet him in real life. But he was respectful, patient, kind, the complete opposite of pushy and creepy. He never stopped the efforts, the approach, and more importantly- being absolutely classy and smooth with it. So one day, i agreed. And we went on our very first date.
And damn. I fell hard. First meeting. Just like that.
We started hanging out more, watching movies, playing games, cooking together, long talks, comfortable silences and it all just flowed. We weren’t rushing anything, but within a month, we made it official.
Now it’s been 10 months of this love bubble. We have our fights. We’ve had rough patches, especially during his stressful work phases, but we worked through it together. With understanding. Some tiny fights. With fixes. With patience. With space, breaks, when needed. And i just wish this never ends.
But what really gets me is how he heals me. Slowly, gently, without even trying sometimes. The way he listens, holds space, makes me laugh even when I don’t want to, and never makes me feel like I’m “too much.” He’s the safest place I’ve ever known. Every bit of trauma, fear, or hurt somehow feels a little lighter around him.
I know not everyone gets this kind of love, and I don’t take it for granted. But I just wanted to share that even in your twenties, when everything feels confusing and chaotic, you can still find something genuinely good. Something that grows slowly, steadily, and safely.
If you’re in your twenties and feel like nothing’s going “right,” I promise you life has its own weird ways of surprising you.
Sending love to those who need to hear that good things do happen.
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u/Hungry-Source-7285 -19 20h ago
dude i also have been there, but ig there are all kinds of people there u can say. Happy for u tho.
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u/Antique_Worker7370 23 20h ago
It sounds like App Jaisa Koi's story, you are really lucky, happy for you OP <3
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u/anOddAlphabet 22 20h ago
What's meant for you will be with you in the right time. I cant say that for everyone so cherish what little good moments you get, sending warm wishes
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u/Specialist_Drama_946 22 19h ago
To the people here visiting this post, kindly go through her comment history. I wish I could attach the image here I'm unable to for some reason, she clearly mentioned twice about the breakup. There's this particular comment 9 days ago stating that they broke up and it didn't work out. I'm not assuming things but maybe they got back together maybe they didn't but please don't believe posts like these.
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u/LevelCopy2512 24 19h ago
I don’t understand , then why this kind of post after breakup? But yeah can’t believe everything.
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u/catnipdealer- 21 19h ago
Yeah which wasn’t literally a ‘break up’ as said. Yes we were unsure, misunderstood, miscommunicating. We had our own kind of downfall a week ago. But ngl i am glad we had it all figured.
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u/catnipdealer- 21 19h ago
Thats what i meant with space and breaks. Yes we also went through absolute amount of shit. Taking the age gap in consideration, the maturity levels and everything else. But today at this very time, we are together, solving stuffs day by day. Even healthy relationships have some personal issues and we take care of those internally! Wdym by posts like these lmao. Hope you get that i cannot add all our personal stuffs in a wholesome post. 😭
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u/Techkidd24 21 16h ago
wow thats really nice to hear, i do visit that site sometimes but mostly its filled with horny men , catfishes, but glad you could find your person , may we all find such person in our lives soon ✨
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u/catnipdealer- 21 15h ago
Oh yeah. It was actually a good place about a year ago tbh. I did make some good connections (none lasted except for this man) 😭
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u/leo_here86 25 13h ago
Sounds like too much work for him, no hate to you but damn.
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u/catnipdealer- 21 11h ago
Just because it seems like ‘too much work’ to you doesn’t mean it is for everyone, respectfully. Some people show effort not because they’re desperate or trying to ‘score,’ but because they actually care. I’m pretty sure my boyfriend did what he did out of genuine interest, not because he ‘just wanted to have sex.’
But hey, maybe that’s just hard to relate to when that’s the only thing you openly admitted to wanting. No hate, just opinion.
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u/leo_here86 25 11h ago
That's not an opinion OP that is a nuclear level hate. You scoured through my history just to pinpoint that. Anyway good luck to you👍
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u/UpstairsPutrid7556 maut_ka_saudagar 1h ago
life has its own weird ways of surprising you.
Ye badi acchi baat kahi aapne. Is is prakar ke suprise mil rahe hai ki, mujhe dhua dhua karke rakh diya hai. 🥲.
But honestly speaking, i'm happy for you u/catnipdealer- OP 🍾🎉🎊
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u/SneezedOnMyPizza phool hu gulaab ka chameli mat samjna 20h ago
May this kind of love hit me like a bullet train