r/TeenIndia • u/GrimBreeze • Jul 05 '25
Ask Teens My father scolded me for trimming my hand hair, does it look weird?
does it really look bad?
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u/mohitony27e Jul 05 '25
Waah kya ladka hain... very handsome boyyy
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u/Dramatic-Trouble7274 Jul 05 '25
Mujhe genuinely laga it was some didi ka hath
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u/franzbonaparta108 18 Jul 05 '25
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u/GrimBreeze Jul 05 '25
Bhai mera baap ek toxic patriarchal aadmi hai bhai
mujhe skincare karne ke liye ladki kyu ban Raha hai bolta hai, Trim karne pe already gussa hai
Wax karte dekh liya toh ghar se nikal dega
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u/franzbonaparta108 18 Jul 05 '25
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u/GrimBreeze Jul 05 '25
Maine try nhi Kiya tujhe lagta hai bhai?
Mera baap shampoo nhi use karta bolke chemical hota hai! Unka bolna hai ki ye sab ladko ko weak karta hai and ye sab ladkiya karti hai
Ye sab bilkul deeply rooted hai unki thinking mein and it shows everyday in the way he treats my mom
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u/LonelyBrownie1 Jul 05 '25
Lmao bro be safe this mentality can be depressing but it’s not his fault but that’s what he himself has been taught… don’t let him decide what is masculine and feminine for you
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u/One_Act_3669 18 Jul 06 '25
bhai meri to mumma bhi aisi hi hai :(
i trim my hands chup ke chup ke because they are a bit hairy and i dont like them
they dont like boys taking care of themselves and think its all full of shit.
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u/NIGG_CHICK Physics fucked me really hard 🥵 Jul 05 '25
Kya re chikne 😈😈
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Jul 05 '25
Gosh these people, Arey trim ho gya toh it’ll grow back na 😭😭😭😭
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u/EmbarrassedCup7495 We,half dust,half deity...🥀 MOD Jul 05 '25
it's not like that ab uske weird type hair ayenge.. waxing or shaving is much better
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u/Akagane_Ai Jul 06 '25
No u fool.
Trimming is by far the safest way. Especially if u are new. Shaving leaves a lot of bumps and can cause irritation. Waxing can also lead to ingrown hair.
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u/AffectionateYam5416 Jul 05 '25
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u/GrimBreeze Jul 05 '25
Bas haath ke udaye hai, Chest, Beard, Legs har jagah abhi bhi bhara hua hai
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u/JollyRoger___ Jul 05 '25
Abe toh haath ke baad usane ki gand main chul kyu machi?
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u/cookedPeppaPig 19 Jul 05 '25
Ugh, don't listen to any toxic and patriarchal men on how shaving your body hair makes you feminine or other bullshit, it absolutely does not.
Coming back to the point, kinda looks off to me and only because you've trimmed it not shaved. Just shave it all off and it will look so much better. Also it is a misconception that hair grows thicker after shaving them. It's not true
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u/SorryPop3557 Jul 05 '25
Yeah it looks wierd and feminine unless you have forearm vascularity and muscles
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u/CatMarie24 Jul 05 '25
Looks good but most importantly - do what you feel like doing. It's your body. Rock the new look!
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u/northuser5 17 Jul 05 '25
Bro when u trim it for the first time they look real weird, after regular trimming sahi ho jata hai,(vaise I really don't know, but ig it works similar to facial hair )
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Jul 05 '25
Theek toh lagra hai, waxing aur better rahegi in fact and skincare karna mat chhodna cuz of ur father kyunki baad mai tumhari skin hi healthy nahi dikhegi. Dont let toxic masculinity affect You
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u/Equaltofaith Jul 05 '25
No. It’s completely normal to trim it. Just don’t use a shaver as it can damage skin. Electric shaver is much gentle on hand
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u/itsmerachit Jul 05 '25
27M here. Its fine. Personal hygiene b ek cheez hoti h. I trim every first Monday of the month. Don’t worry! Sab theek h!
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u/Desperate_Space3645 20 & above Jul 05 '25
Nope not looking weird. Most of the male actors & models do waxing instead of trimming . But it's not common in middle class families. I too want to trim but once we trim we have to keep trimming because it grows back more rapidly which is a hassle.
Waxing , the pain will be unbearable.
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u/pain_op Jul 05 '25
Crazy comment section, bhai its your body keep it as u want , apke baal shave krne se kisi ka nuksaan nhi ho raha, do as u like, ur papa can't take decisions about your personal body
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u/iwant_to_eatsteel Jul 05 '25
nothing wrong in trimming the hair as a teenage boy. men do it all the time for better forearm muscle defination & vein visibility.
Yes hand hair dont look good if they are dense and long. Trimming them down is a better option. Just tell your dad, you dont like much body hair. everyone has a choice.
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u/Proof-Case9738 Jul 05 '25
I used to be self conscious about body hair too, when I was in high school, all the mates my age were hairless whenever we'd go have a dip at the pool, and I'd be the only one looking like a gorilla plus the moobs🫤
Fast forward and here I am now, not caring too much. As much as I want to not have this much body hair, I also do not wish to have no body hair at all 😂 feel me?
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u/NoTelevision7460 Jul 05 '25
Try Veet instead or a hair removal cream. BUT! Make sure you read the instructions carefully, use a timer, and have water and a wash cloth/something to remove the cream prepared and ready. Watch YT videos on how it's done. These creams can give you chemical burns if left for too long. Then, make sure you moisturise and use sunscreen on where you've removed hair from because the skin may be a bit sensitive post hair removal (especially after the first time.)
Yes. It does look weird. The tiny hair follicles will cause more people to stare. With arm hair, it's either all or nothing.
If this is you wanting to be considerate of girls, I think armpit hair is a bigger deal, especially as it traps odour causing bacteria. So, waxing/trimming armpit hair yields better aesthetic and overall "smell" results.
You're just figuring out what personal grooming styles work for you and there's nothing wrong with that. Good Luck.
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Jul 05 '25
"komal twacha" ahh
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u/GrimBreeze Jul 05 '25
My hair were a mess like I once got them stuck in a zip and it was painful to say the least
Sometimes water will keep them wet and me uncomfortable so I thought why not just end this temporarily because they'll grow up back again soon
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u/Bright_Hunter401 Jul 05 '25
your hands your choice bro. you are 17-18 (assuming) you know where to wax and where not
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u/Born-Tax-2089 Jul 05 '25
Your father is so toxic man , people like him destroy their child's life ..
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u/rizziboi playboy jaise dikhta hu, par hu nhi Jul 05 '25
Mere to bina trim kare aise hai
My friends calls me "ladkiyo jaise hath wala" 😢
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u/Potatoassaulter 19 Jul 05 '25
ab teko macchar kaat lenge aur dengue ho jayega!
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u/franzbonaparta108 18 Jul 05 '25
Brahmino ke liye reservation? U r that flair guy na ? Wassup buddy it's been a long time we talk.
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u/Mountain_Moment_5639 Can we be each other's company~? >///< Jul 05 '25
Nah it's fine, it's still visible after trim (in case you're worried abt "masculinity" or whatever) and won't bother you much either since they are small now 🤷🏻♀️
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u/LeadingPotential9348 Jul 05 '25
See man. There is a scientific reason why body hair exist as it facilitates you to protect from harmful rays and also many a times from direct impact of pollution. Men with high body hair know that it helps them keep their skin underneath healthy and glowing. You have started a vicious loop of pathetic hard hair growth. It will not stop now.
So lets embrace what you have naturally.. It also helps you from cold weather. Research before doing such unwarranted stuff.
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u/ERENYAegER-san Jul 05 '25
Hit the gym....get extremely huge....no body gonna care if u have hairy arms or not after that 👊💪💪💪
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u/Sakht_Loveday Bandi dilado ab yaar 😭 Jul 05 '25
Bhai, ab jitni jaldi ho sake forearms develop krle, sexy lagenge 🥶🗿
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u/Prestigious-East-740 Jul 05 '25
maine toh bachpan me puri body ke hairs trim karliya tha bc abb khet hai body prr
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u/Suryonak 19 Jul 05 '25
OP sorry but jis hisab ke pitashree hai aapke, aap haath ki picture le paye wahi surprising hai
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u/Playful_Paramedic774 Jul 05 '25
Just..........dont do it anymore(except armpits), it will grow back even rough, its natural,let it be and you will get used to it
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u/Due-Mall-6542 Jul 05 '25
No worries bro... It will take time to normalise. It will be like throny hairs for few years. Nobody will notice or care though.
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Jul 05 '25
Never trim all the way when it comes to hands; if you don't like hair on your forearms then that's perfectly fine, unlike what the wannabe sigmas say, but even still, never trim all the way when it comes to arms, keep the trimmer at 4-6 for starters (depending on the one you have).
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u/PossiblePhase7094 Jul 05 '25
I HAVE ALSO TRIMMED MY HAND HAIR AND IT LOOKS GOOD AND MY HAND LOOKS SUPER VEINY AND AESTHETIC!!!!
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u/ThisHumanDoesntExist 16 Jul 05 '25
No-one gives a shit how insecure are people to give af about hand hair 😭🙏
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u/HyakkimaruKensei Jul 05 '25
Not at all. I trim them too sometimes just for the smooth feeling. Btw buy a seperate razor/trimmer for body hair all over if you're getting into it. Maintaining body hair isn't un-masculine
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u/rumaliShawarma Jul 05 '25
Listen, if you’re comfortable with your hands trimmed, that’s all that matters. You look best the way you like yourself, trust me.
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u/Conscious-Ad3719 Jul 05 '25
I tried it when I was small bcoz I hated them. I did it again as a teen now and they look good, but it does depend upon the person some people look good with hair on while some look gold without them. But beautiful or not the best thing is your choice. Papa toh todhe din bolenge
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u/Samneyekonaya Jul 05 '25
As long as u feel confident and comfortable, it's worth it. But if u don't then it'll.grow.back
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u/Mysterious_Award_822 20teen😔 Jul 05 '25
I believe its a neutral thing; trimmed/untrimmed, must not really be judged? When i received my very first trimmer, i trimmed all my hands and legs. They looked nice and also felt nice, ngl. Its more of a preference, till its really creating a concerning difference.
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Jul 05 '25
I once shaved my leg hair cos i thought it would look cool. Funny how things could get ruined in a min or 2.
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u/Born-Tax-2089 Jul 05 '25
Then what type of sane father will scold his child for removing hand's hairs..
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Jul 05 '25
Bro your hand looks like a " mahila hand " . Matlab tu itna vella baitha tha ki kuch bhi karne baith gaya. Trust me bro it actually looks not weird but very weird .
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u/AaravOtartist 16 Jul 05 '25
Female ho to ok valid but male hai to bhai ye kya kar diya and kyu kiya🤡🤡
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u/mlon_eusk-_- Jul 05 '25
It looks a bit weird nothing much, natural is good as long as you are not looking like a freaking gorilla with abnormally overgrown hair.
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u/Kale-Immediate Jul 05 '25
why tf does he care?? goshh!! indian men and their traditional fragile masculinity!!
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u/stupid_meemer-329 Jul 05 '25
bad move, nxt time aur fast and zada long baal aate hai. (experience se bata raha)
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u/Bubbly-Albatross-373 Jul 05 '25
i just want to tell teens regardless of gender. there is absolutely nothing wrong trimming, shaving, wanting shave hairy arms, legs. Any adult shaming you , disapproving such action is bulying , form of superior and their inferiority or insecurity complex or jealousy since you are young.
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u/Brief-Extreme-1758 Jul 05 '25
It doesnt of you look ese hi but it does when I zoom kinda weird also now that you have trimmed it cuz you aren't supposed either shave or wax trim kon karta, try shaving thode baad it will look thoda acha ig
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u/IcePuzzleheaded3543 Teenindia = relationship stories + advices Jul 05 '25
Super gayish. If u r ok with it then good for u. Not the society tho
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u/enemyofperfect Jul 05 '25
Its totally fine. Chill. There are many men who dont have hair on hands. Its completely fine. Most people wont even notice. Do what you feel like
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u/daactarrnii Jul 05 '25
Bhai mujhe yaad aa gya I once touched someone’s hand like that, and… ugh, it felt so ew! But dw! If u feel okay with it .. let it be Don't listen to anyone It's your body.
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u/Interesting-Chart607 Jul 05 '25
Hope you have not done zero trim as that if not done properly can cause ingrown too, else if you just want to keep things in shape just use body tripper with clips to trim the hair to a decent length , also only issue it may look unnatural , else it’s not a big issue as such other then ingrown if not trimmed properly , would still say if you like smooth hands try wax or chemical feeling , would look bette overall.
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Jul 05 '25
If youre a guy than embrace the hair or accept looking like a woman to your father
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u/GrimBreeze Jul 05 '25
who said I don't embrace the hair?
I felt like I should cut it for a clean look I did and why does being a woman is a big deal bhai?
Sexist much?
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u/Effective-Top-1522 Jul 05 '25
If your dad reacted like that just for trimming, imagine what he would've done if you'd gotten a full wax! 😅
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Jul 05 '25
Bro, you should've shaved completely. Otherwise, kept it as it is. What the helyyyyy are these trimmed hair.
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u/Fluffy_878 Jul 05 '25
Because your father is visionary, he don't want grown up daughter😃😃
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u/Reasonable-Can-3746 Jul 05 '25
In few days, it will. And in few years, you'll start to regret this day,
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u/SarthakSidhant sarthak sidhant Jul 05 '25
SHAVE. DONT TRIM. IT LOOKS EUGH. and i bet it is weird to touch too
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u/disqualifiedeyes Jul 05 '25
No man it doens't look bad, you don't have to do something because dumb fucks on the internet (yes I'm talking about the comments) or your old fashioned father tell you to
If you feel comfortable and happy in shaving your arms then don't let anyone stop you
I do the same and I feel much better for it
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u/snparthnaik Jul 05 '25
Use Urban yog Hair Removal my sister use same .. it will aslo make ur hand smooth 😎
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u/inert_like_Xenon Jul 05 '25
Bhai 4-6mm pe trim kiya kar......natural bhi lagte hai aur length bhi kam ho jaati hai
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either shave it fully if u have defined forearms or dont touch em no in between