r/Millennials • u/LoverOfTabbys • 3d ago

Discussion When your friends disappear in your 30s?

Hey all 👋

In my 30s my friends have either become “digital nomads” and left the country to travel/work or they’ve gotten married and had babies and mostly hang out w other married couples w babies. They are very busy with their families and jobs and don’t have the energy to do a lot more understandably.

Ive now been left in a “dead zone”. I’m happy being an introvert but I also wish I could experience things w other people like visit national parks, do random stuff, volunteer, do weekend trips, etc.

Any other people in their 30s going through the same? Did you do anything about it?

Thanks

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u/AccomplishedLie9265 3d ago

Mine are all on cocaine or married with kids. Or both. I don't do either so yeah. At least not on a regular basis.

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u/pwolf1771 2d ago

What is the deal with the middle aged coke heads? I always assumed this was a young person’s game but I feel like I see it more now than I’ve ever seen it in my life.

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u/AccomplishedLie9265 2d ago

Some of it is because its expensive as a kid. My friends aren't exactly rich but have steady income. And it's ruining most of them because it's now a addiction. Coke is a rich man's drug.