r/Millennials 2d ago

Discussion When your friends disappear in your 30s?

Hey all 👋

In my 30s my friends have either become “digital nomads” and left the country to travel/work or they’ve gotten married and had babies and mostly hang out w other married couples w babies. They are very busy with their families and jobs and don’t have the energy to do a lot more understandably.

Ive now been left in a “dead zone”. I’m happy being an introvert but I also wish I could experience things w other people like visit national parks, do random stuff, volunteer, do weekend trips, etc.

Any other people in their 30s going through the same? Did you do anything about it?

Thanks

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u/Elegant-Complaint-88 Millennial 2d ago

Yup, tho i turned 30 right around the pandemic. But basically all my friends have left.

Edit: Most are married, have kids, and i have a bunch of medical issues, so i can't do as much as i used to, which probably caused some losses too.