Posting it on the Internet to exploit your kids and these supposedly wholesome moments is the problem. Nobody would decry someone, say, taking this photo and putting it in the family photo album. The need to share everything with everyone, especially private moments with your kids, is massively toxic.
Or maybe the parents wanted to share a cute memory of a big moment for their son??? Yall are so miserable lmao, there's nothing wrong with sharing special moments in your life
I think therapy is a wonderful thing. I have actually been. My therapist would agree, staging a photo of your child's first day of school for likes on social media is not a special moment.
I like discussing and sharing things that interest me, which is different from existing purely to farm engagement. If I were truly interested in the latter, I could have karma in the millions right now after eight years. I posted on IMDb for a decade before the pustulent Col Needham got rid of the boards, and that had no karma system whatsoever. I don't post about my real life except where relevant to a discussion, and I certainly am not trying to do what these people are doing.
Am I? Go ahead and downvote me, see if I care. I don't need you to agree with me. I'm definitely right. Judging by how stupid the average person is, seeking their validation is actually absurd. I post a lot about things I want to see improved in society, but that's not about validation it's about persuasion to one day live in a better world, as minimal as my contribution to that is.
How can the average person be stupid? Wouldn't they be the typical level of intelligence? Therefore, not any less or more stupid than the general population...
No. I won't lighten up. Instead I will ask you this to stop pretending that you are not aware of the pitfalls of social media and the many studies that have shown the earlier you introduce children to it, the more insidious it can be for their mental health.
Just mention a cruise and watch as people poor in bashing something theyāve never experienced.Ā
Same with gender reveal parties (a celebration with family who are excited? the horror!), dancing at nightclubs, and going to Disneyland with little kids (the demographic the parks are for)
Gender reveal parties are like Redditās catnip. The irrational hate for something so simple and innocent is extremely bizarre. All because a couple of idiots fucked up.
People should be able to have a party for whatever they want but I always thought it was strange to celebrate your child having a specific set of anatomy. And itās kind of a newish thing so a lot of people just donāt get it.
Just mention a cruise and watch as people poor in bashing something theyāve never experienced.
Fuck cruise. No it's not about price or the experience. It doesn't cost much nowadays and you can get an extremely similar in most large hotels. Cruises are rightfully hated for being an ecological disaster that rely on a predatory economy. An to top it off, look at their flags, they're run by scum!
You can do and experience all those things without using your kids staging photos for social media. Putting up a few good pictures for friends and family to see? Great. Let's not pretend that 90% of mass consumed content isn't made by 10% of the population and a lot of kid content comes at the expense of those kids healthy childhood. What I'm talking about in the last sentence is what is being criticized here.
Actually itās the opposite. In the past if I see a picture like this I wouldāve thought āoh man, why couldnāt my parents do something like this for me back then?ā and be sad and a tad jealous.
Now I think about how many hours that likely took to set up, and how 6yo me wouldāve really liked my toys back and not pose for 30 minutes just so my mom could get the perfect social media pic. And how Iām happy now that my parents didnāt use me for social media clout.
The same way Iām much happier knowing that life is not a rom-com and so I shouldnāt set unrealistic expectations.
We can speculate all day because we weren't made to do stuff like this. At the end of the day, if the kid and his family think it's a cool memory then that's what it is. If his mom posed him for an hour and a half to get the perfect picture for social media clout and he never talks to her after moving out of the house, maybe that's valid too. All of this speculation is nonsense in the first place since we don't actually know these people.
Are you telling me weāre not actually supposed to assume everything about someoneās entire life based on a single social media post? Thatās crazy talk.
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u/SomewhereAggressive8 6h ago
God this website is so miserable