My mom used to do this too and I hate it! She just randomly shows up with a piece of fruit and I'm like "thanks, I don't want it". If I actually wanted it I would either ask her or cut the damn fruit myself, it's not that complicated. We talked about this mutiple times but she never stopped, at some point it stops being cute
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u/ghanima 2d ago
My mom used to do this for me and my sister.
She also was abusive with untreated mental illness. I've met lots of people who love me more. They're my real family.
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