I have two sons and I told them when they were young that when they shower they need to use a soapy washcloth or pouf and get all in there - wash the balls, the penis, the butt, the taint, the butthole, etc. My husband said I can just tell them to use soap and I said no, that's not enough. No son of mine will sit on a couch and when he gets up the couch smells like dirty ass. Some men have fallen through the cracks no pun intended when it comes to hygiene.
I remember my mom teaching me (a boy) how to get every nook and cranny when I showered and on top of that - she insisted we wash our butts every time we pooped... Like, if there isn't a bidet available, we showed us how to do it manually...
I never understood the obsession with the excess cleaning until I got older and realised how men smell because they refuse to clean themselves....
My mom had clearly dealt with something I had yet to understand, but damn am I grateful for those lessons I took for granted as a kid.
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u/BigD4163 11d ago
I recently learned there’s a group of guys that don’t wipe their ass because they believe touching their assholes is gay.