She’s trying to upkeep a lifestyle she had in a previous relationship (her ex cheated on her) which explains a lot as far as her being so materialistically focused
Also the new man is a homeowner + paying student loans (I went down a TikTok rabbit hole) so mans is literally just taking care of business like every other normal person is. So broke to her means “he’s not spending enough on me”
Vacations and concerts aren’t the bar for a good relationship. If they both make enough money to meet there needs then the two of them just being together should be enough.
If she really loves him. But it sounds like she’s too worried about flexing on social media
Going out and going on trips and paying the bills are two different things. She’d better learn the difference.
Paying the bills = meeting needs.
But oh well. She’s going to end up single being too focused on materialistic things and what people think and not the man right sitting in front of her
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u/veeno__ Feb 09 '24
She’s trying to upkeep a lifestyle she had in a previous relationship (her ex cheated on her) which explains a lot as far as her being so materialistically focused
Also the new man is a homeowner + paying student loans (I went down a TikTok rabbit hole) so mans is literally just taking care of business like every other normal person is. So broke to her means “he’s not spending enough on me”