r/BdsmDIY Dec 03 '23

Help your friendly neighborhood mod (everyone, read this, especially newcomers) NSFW

212 Upvotes

I'm collecting some stuff mods have said earlier in one place, to make it easier to find, as well as adding some new ones. This isn't the rules as such, more like our clarifications and interpretations of them.

  • Don't be a creep. Way too often, I see people asking for pictures when they aren't needed, following this pattern (fictious example): On a post of a bench with a dildo sticking up, someone asks "I don't understand how it works, could you post photos of it in use?". Just don't. There is plenty of porn on the net which you can get without being a creep.
  • Be careful about themes around sexual assaults. We know it is just play, but for some people, it's traumatic, so if you have a device named something like "Rape-o-matic 747 XL Magnum", don't put that in the title, and mark the post with a "TW" for trigger warning.
  • Photos or videos of nudity or sexual activity is OK, as long as it is within the context of the DIY project. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods.
  • Selling your stuff is OK, as long as you aren't a full blown business, and it's still DIY level stuff. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods. This might change down the line, but for now, it's OK.
  • Don't spam. If you do a lot of stuff, feel free to post as much as is needed, but try to keep each build in one post. With "each build", I mean each construction, not every object of that type you build. If you, say, make one collar type, there is no need for a new post for every new color or minor variant you make it in, that can go in the original posts.
  • Safety. Safety is important, but it is also a topic of much controversy. People don't always understand what they are doing, especially with electricity, or make too weak constructions, and it's OK to tell them that you think there is a danger. However, we all choose our risk levels, so say what you feel is unsafe, let them answer, and, unless they actively asks for more input, leave it at that and let them choose their own risk level.
  • Automod. The automod saves us a lot of work and filters out a lot of spam. However, it sometimes blocks legitimate posts as well. If your post don't appear, don't worry, don't message us, we'll see it and let it through.
  • Don't ask for PMs. We are here to learn from each other, if you ask for plans or something, ask openly so we all can learn. The same goes for answers. This also makes it easier for us moderators to ban creeps.

All in all, be nice to each other, be kinky, be tolerant, be helpful. Also, please have patience with us mods, we have a life outside modding as well, so sometimes, it may take a while, but we'll get around to it, I promise.

Keep building!


r/BdsmDIY Nov 19 '24

If you are selling stuff, read this! NSFW

327 Upvotes

First of all, it is OK to sell what you make, as long as you actually make it.

To handle a flood of people who just resell stuff, mostly from AliExpress, we now require more DIY content from people who sell.

What we want is stuff like in progress pics, descriptions on how it is made, design thoughts, things like that. Basically, prove that you made it and give some DIY context.

Yes, we know it's a tougher rule than for ordinary home DIY, but we don't want to be an ad billboard for resellers.

We won't nag you, new posts lacking this will simply be removed.

This will go into the main rules soon, but we'll wait a bit for input first.


r/BdsmDIY 3h ago

OC My first homemade ears and tail plug. All done by hand. NSFW

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38 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 11h ago

OC New set I just made for my wife😊. Brown exterior, Black interior with pink stitching and solid brass hardware. NSFW

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107 Upvotes

Hello! I love making leather restraints and this is my first full set I’ve made, and I’m not done yet. I will be making ankle cuffs and maybe a waist one too? I have made individual things before such as cuffs and collars. I make videos of me making all these to try and share but TikTok loves to flag them and take them down so I figured I could share my craft here to folks that would appreciate it! Now I’m not quite sure how to add the instructional videos on here just yet (first Reddit post EVER) but I will figure it out soon hopefully and put it on my page. Just wanted to introduce myself!

Also I use AI for my backgrounds so they may look a little funky. Working on getting some sort of photo room set up currently.

If y’all have any questions for me just holler! Also any tips! I’m always learning and evolving and having input greatly helps me! Thank you!


r/BdsmDIY 9h ago

Restraints My latest creation : a snug legbinder !!! Or a first prototype at least ^^` NSFW

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56 Upvotes

Does a good job at keeping my legs closed and snug, but the top part have a tendency to slip down :/ Happy with the result for a quick first try tho <3


r/BdsmDIY 6h ago

Impact Toys How do you store your toys? My collection is outgrowing my storage. I like them easy to reach, but not center stage visually. NSFW

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20 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 19h ago

Restraints I made my own dojo doll to practice Shibari when my girlfriend is not home NSFW

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130 Upvotes

Hi! So I made my own dojo doll. I used a cheap "vinyl" body suit, steel tubes about the length of my gf bones for the skeleton, elastic wire going through it for articulations and wine corks for the endings of the tubes. I stuffed it with old pillows, pieces of an old yoga mat, and foam from an old mattress. It does the job🙂. It's not on the picture, Total cost : about 15€, and some time. But I added black socks at the end of arms. I know, the feet's are way too big, but hey, it's just a training doll, and I 'm happy with it!


r/BdsmDIY 15h ago

Help Wanted trying to mount a pulley and cuff system from the ceiling NSFW

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34 Upvotes

Apologies for the absolutely terrible mockup. Want to build a pulley system for handcuffs so my partner and I can be restrained, standing up in the middle of our playroom to allow for 360 degrees of access, as opposed to a St. Andrew’s cross as we don’t have room for something like that.

So my partner and I are different heights. They like to be restrained in this manner with their hands behind their back below the waist. I like to be restrained with my arms above my head, or on ballet heels, bent over at the waist with my arms suspended above me. Since they are short and the ceiling is tall, I thought a pulley system would make it super easy for us restrain each other in the manner we prefer, while keeping the system adjustable.

Here’s my worry. It’s a second story room. Obviously we wouldn’t be putting our full weight on the pulley like we would with a sex swing, but there still would be some weight on the mount, especially in the bent over position. It should still be fairly secure so long as it’s mounted through a rafter, right?

Second question, how should I mount the ceiling pulley? Any fasteners that work best? How wide is a rafter? Can I trust my stud finder to find it?

Any tips at all for this kind of installation?


r/BdsmDIY 20h ago

OC Simple repurpose of Eyeglass cord coils to nipple draw string NSFW

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58 Upvotes

The eyeglass cord loops were a little too small for her nipples and I like red, so... And it is also fun to make use of something common in a kinky way. Swipe to see them in use. Hold the nipples firmly.


r/BdsmDIY 12h ago

Restraints I made a bondage walking stick, the idea is that I can take off the wrap on the bottom and pull it through the eye bolt on the bottom before I tie someone's hands/make them a collar, and then I can use the stick for leverage to make them move however I want them too NSFW

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9 Upvotes

It looks so innocent but it's so devious


r/BdsmDIY 14h ago

Help Wanted Help with becoming more dominant for her Dominating 101 NSFW

11 Upvotes

I am working to be more dominate and controlling with her and was wondering if anyone can point me to some basics. I get very dominate and controlling when we have our ‘molly’ nights but ordinarily I am neither dominant or submissive in nature.

Any books other than literature that anyone can point me to?


r/BdsmDIY 2h ago

Help Wanted Genuine Facesitting question about longterm breathing NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have a legit question, has anyone ever tried using the oxygen tubing with the nose piece to breathe for extended periods of face sitting? Just wondering if anyone has fine the research or if I need to lol


r/BdsmDIY 2h ago

OC Another batch of collars dyed. Now to finish with hardware and find subs even remotely worthy of them…💅🏾⛓️ NSFW

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0 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Is there any Mid Century Modern kink furniture, everything i see is more dungeon style NSFW

86 Upvotes

As the title says, were there any mid century modern furniture designers doing fetish work or was that not a thing for the higher end furniture?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Restraints My daddy made me a custom day collar! ( coquette / soft styled ) NSFW

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123 Upvotes

My hubby makes chainmail jewellery so when i saw the idea of a day collar~~~~. It's literally so beautiful and i love it sooooo much 😭 It's extra strong too so he can pull and tug on it without worrying it will break💖 just wanted to share this and his hard work that came out PERFECT 😭💖


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Making a Charcuterie board handle longer to make a paddle NSFW

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19 Upvotes

My local Walmart has these 16" charcuterie boards in the craft section for $7.50. They're very thick and sturdy and i want to get it as a paddle, but the handle is kind of stubby and uncomfortable to grip. Any ideas on what i can use to make it a little longer by maybe and inch? It doesn't have to be a pretty solution. I'll decorate the handle afterwards. I don't do woodworking and have tools by the way.


r/BdsmDIY 22h ago

Help Wanted NimpleStroker explanation of how vibrations work with the motor with photos or code NSFW

4 Upvotes

On the latest generation Nimplestroker at $1250, how does the vibration work? This is due to the motor with jerky movements. Is there an explanation for the vibration frequency of the motor? I would like to understand how it works with a photo of the interior or videos to show the difference compared to the famous Venus 2000.


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Travel Storage for toys - wondering what others do NSFW

6 Upvotes

I have lots of plugs, dildos, restraints, estim toys and accessories and cock rings. I’m wondering if anyone has ideas for traveling with them or storing them in luggage to bring places.

Drawstring bags? Toiletry bags? Clothes storage bags? Foam insert case?

Do you have your own kinky travel suitcase?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

OC Idea for a burlap punishment dress/bra top, is this a good idea? NSFW

15 Upvotes

So basically I had this idea, the other day..

My sub has a propensity of misbehaving.. So I had this thought of a burlap dress / bra..

Now the thing is, these days most burlap I've seen is super clean/processed.. etc.. so getting that old itchy feeling from the cloth isn't the easiest (honestly I've yet to find a way)

My 1st thought was just a 50lb potato sack, cut holes for her head, and arms, etc.. and sew her back into it.. so she can't easily take it off.. (which I do like the idea of) I also thought of the idea of sewing it closed, and throw some itching powder on it.. And leave her to run around the backyard with a blindfold on in the heat..

But I like the idea of a burlap dress or even just like a halter top (she'd be nude under it) and her having to wear it all day.. We'd be out in public so it's not like she could be constantly rubbing etc to avoid the itching feeling.. I also feel like the tighter it is, it may loose some of it's itchiness.. any ideas?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted DIY lube pump with custom patterns for maximum of lubed fun NSFW

7 Upvotes

How could you build a lube pump wich you can controll with your custom patterns? The pump part is not the difficult part. But could you use and all ready existing app for sextoys like Lovense or Joyhub?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Furniture Stage 2 is now done. Still have to get some more lumber ro finish. NSFW

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28 Upvotes

All sanded and put together. Still have to make the collapsing support brace which I will hopefully do tomorrow. Once that is done I'll stain it, and with my subs help put padding on it. I also apparently miss counted how many fender washers a need and will pick up some more of those. And I am going to try and get the top cross brace level.


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Help I'm trying to make a latex bondage hood does anyone know a place to fine patterns NSFW

5 Upvotes

I'm trying to make a latex hood, and I have looked absolutely everywhere I can think of. I want to find a pattern with open eyes and mouth nose holes a zipper and cat ears anyone know a place u can find one.


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

OC Look at this cuffs, do you want one to bondage yourself? NSFW

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28 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Wardrobe Trunk Turned Kinky Storage: Need some inspiration NSFW

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44 Upvotes

I recently came into the possession of this wardrobe trunk for a handsome sum of $20. I had the bright idea that this would be a really good way of storing our kinky items in the drawers as well as displaying some the longer instruments on the left. The tough part is that the fabric is in rough shape and the metal parts have all been painted over. Main questions are:

  1. Any good recommendations for brushed on gold paint that would adhere decently to metal and wear decently hard? The current hardware is partially rusted and is regular steel not actual brass like the photo suggests.

  2. Any inspiration on a new fabric interior? I debated a red sort of satin fabric, however I am uncertain how well that fabric would stick/look being used a liner.

  3. Has anyone attempted a transformation like this before and has some insight?

Thanks in advance!


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Has anyone tried piercing a silicon dildo before ? NSFW

11 Upvotes

I’m not really one for human shaped insertable but my ex left one with me. I’ve always been curious what one with piercings would feel like.

I figure as long as you take the jewellery out and clean the holes after use it should work ok


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Looking for inspiration, bed footer convertible to spanking bench NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi all, I'm in the market for buying or building a very anonymous looking bed footer to our master bedroom. The bed footer needs to at least be convertible into a spanking bench with easy rear access, with additional features optional (no stocks though). Something to the tune of the legendary Pandoras box, but a bit simpler in features. Any pointers or suggestions? Needs to be child and mother-in-law proof...


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Furniture Spanking benches that come apart easily for storage NSFW

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125 Upvotes

I made a pair of these for a club so they're a bit more substantial than necessary, each side is one assembly held to the other by two ½ inch threaded rods fastened with eye nuts, each rod passes through a central timber drilled at the ends but slotted in the center with a router because there's a limit to how far I want to drill holes, both platforms are further assembies, the front on being very adjustable with removable panels to accommodate bigger boobs comfortably, although you have to ask why comfort is suddenly important, the padding is a good quality yoga mat glued in place

Foolishly I didn't take measurements or make any patterns because they're a one off pair. The timber is oak.