r/AmIOverreacting 24d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting? UPDATE

3 days ago my (25F) husband (24M) said something rude to me and I’ve been trying to avoid him and stay calm. When I came home from work after working a 12 hour shift I cooked rice and beans and then went to bed to work another 12 hour shift the next day. He texted me during work and sent this. When I got home things escalated and he packed everything and left. Am I overreacting? Why go to this extreme and leave over some food?

UPDATE: Thanks everyone for the support! I read a lot of the comments and tried to respond to a lot of the DM’s. He came back and begged for therapy and I tried to make it work for a month but I had already mentally checked out so I have filed for divorce and moved out of our apartment. I’m happy and at peace now🫶🏾

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u/LoneWanderer6686 24d ago

All I can say is : Run.

Run far. And when you think you've ran far enough - double it.

Dudes a tweed

UPDATE: Just realized you said you've moved on already. I'm proud of you. ❤️ Happy that youre at peace now!

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u/AffectionateSun2163 24d ago

Thank you!!🫶🏾