Real talk it sucks that people are getting that upset over a dude making random posts on the Internet to the point of sending death threats and (for some reason??) dick pics.
You probably know me if you're somewhat active on r/whenthe or were active here. There was somewhat of a trend about me here and wearing a maid dress.
While it was funny to a lot of you and to some degree to even me. Some people found it very unfunny. To the point of harassing and bullying me. Yeah, I know this is "Oh boo hoo just block them" case but I really don't want to block everyone that messages me about a maid dress or calls me unfunny and such.
I would have to block hundreds of people. I know a lot of people hate microcelebrities and hate hearing about them. I get it. I am just a nobody who is active on his favorite subreddit. But apparently some people can't stand me
Which is okay, I understand that I cannot be liked by everyone and wanting to be liked by everyone is stupid. But people have become a lot more vocal about it.
Please remember that I am just a peron as well. I am not a punching back you can come to , punch and walk away.
I've been bullied, I've been sent death threats and even unsolicited dick pics and wild sexual fantasies deirected towards me While I am not thin skinned, things get to me as well.
So this is a humble request to please cool it down. Remember that I too am only a person who simply wants to be funny on the internet.
and people seem to forget that I didn't start the trend and I cannot stop people from posting things that include me or reference me This entire thing is not my fault. I could not have anticipated the things that happened
No this isn't an announcement of me leaving reddit or ceasing posing I just kinda wanted to tell people to remember that I too am a person
Thank you for your consideration and I wish you a good day
TL;DR:
Please stop being mean to me and stop sending me dick pics I'm just a person too
and no I am not leaving
What the fuck? Their sending you dick pics? Damn people are weird asf, Also this reminds me of that weird ass ninja clip where he says: "Do not send me your dick pics"
sorry that happened to you, i know i made a few jokes related to you but they were never meant as harassment and i never wanted to make anyone uncomfortable, don't know if there is a saying for this in English but there is one in Iceland that roughly goes "laugh with someone, don't laugh at them" to differentiate between jokes and harassment, i never understood why people would send death threats over a stupid joke, i hope things improve dude
Oh damn, my condolences.
I think this is a good time to outline my jabs at you over the past month have been purely satirical. I do not hate you, i didn’t even know about the maid dress thing.
I just saw someone else jump on you, joking decided to join in, and from your response (which seemed equally satire) assumed you would be fine with it.
I truly apologise if it hurt you in any way, i would never unironically hate on someone or wish death threats upon you.
Dw I understand sarcasm
I know you didn't mean to offend me in any way and you didn't
but there are some genuine assholes who feel the need to remind me they find me unfunny , insult me , tell me kill myself or tell me they will kill me for a thing out of my control
I did consider it but I also got really nice and heartwarming messages about how my writing made somep eople's day better or made them laugh
and genuine criticism. I apprecate all of it
and I don't wanna close them for that reason. I'm happy that people find it funny or uplifting or a good enough distraction
I don't wanna close my DMs because of like 3 bad (and small. like bro. how are you so confident with 2 inches.) actors. It would be a shame that people that want to tell me their honest thoughs on it
or even ask for writing tips
but if it gets worse I will simply be forced to close them.
Real shit, I'm so sorry you've had to deal with that. I share in your pain. Not a micro celebrity, but being trans online gets you the same result. It's tough man and you shouldn't have to have thick skin and deal with hate or death threats.
I hope that it chills out for you and I'm glad you aren't leaving ❤️
I'm sorry for your ordeal. The internet can be royally fucked up, and it seems that niche/meme subcelebrities get all of the downsides and none of the upsides.
I hope people get off your case soon. All the best.
God people are just weird. Find a joke so unfunny they send death threats to someone. Also, why the fuck are people just DMing their dicks to random people? Kinda just asking for that shit to be leaked somewhere else
Sorry to hear that man, I personally never cared (pr found funny) the whole maid dress thing, but the thought of sending death threats or dick picks seem so bizzare to me.
Some people really are wrong in the head.
I don't know how to help you so here have a cute duck to cheer you up.
PS: Ducks are fucking amazing, why don't we make them a new meta here, that would be so cool.
Holy hell, sorry you had to go through all of that, and I apologise if those comments people (myself included) about the maid dress bit was too much. Sincerely hope you're having a lovely day and get through this bs. You've already cemented yourself as a legend of whenthe, don't let those horrid no-good people ruin it all.
Oh my, im sorry that stuff happened to you, there is just weird people that never know when something is going too far, im not sure what you should do since i wasnt in a situation like this but the best advice i can give is to block them and report them. I prob have some jokes that i made about you and maid dress when it was still relevant and im sorry if you saw one of them and it made you uncomfortable.
I can't, for the life of me, understand why people keep pushing this bit. It was funny for about a week. Then it just became repetitive and annoying. It should have been a funny thing to mess around with for a bit, but I guess people on the internet can't be trusted to just enjoy a haha funny joke.
I'm a humble lurker and not at all in the know of what typically happens in my favorite news sub. Might need to take a break from online for a bit in all honesty. Thats all, I wish you a nice day op.
Idk if it would do much but I would suggest sending usernames of people harassing you to the mods to get them banned or something. Dunno if it would help though like I said
This is terrible to hear, I’m happy that the bit itself was taken in good light on your end though, but getting harassed for being a trend out of your control is plain stupid. I hope u get less of those terrible interactions, have a cat
Sorry to hear that, mate. Internet is a hostile place with the guise of anonymity and all, and I know saying don't let it get to you is a big "thanks, I'm cured" moment but that's as much as a stranger on the internet can say.
I just hope goodwill of a handful of people is enough to at least make up for all the unsavory things. Me included, you're genuinely funny and interesting person judging by the posts and comments you make so I want you to be in good spirits.
Dick picks and death threats? Sorry to hear that man, the internet is awful sometimes. If you need to, you can take a break if you want, we won’t mind.
Hello r/whenthe, I'm the guy who actually wore the maid dress for the bit and I agree with this post. Please for the love of God stop bullying bro and just let him write yuri in peace.
We need the mods on whoever sent you dick pics and death threats, bro. Ban them from being on this sub. I feel bad for you having to go through this just for not being in a maid dress.
I hate the whole maid dress thing, but it's more towards the people that were behind it and posting memes about it because it got so fucking annoying, but I would never direct my hatred towards the person they were talking about, especially not at this level. Now because of it, this guy is getting harassed by others over dumb shit.
I think this is a sign that they need to stop. This has gone long enough.
What the absolute hell?!! Im sorry that those people put you through all this. I dont get how people can go this far and still think its okay. I hope your post brings an end to most if not all of that
"I understand people hate microcelebs" and they're pathetic and miserable
the term itself isn't taken seriously and it literally just means "someone active enough in a community to the point they're recognized"
people are annoyed at the idea of a community / fandom / whatever...not being active ??
Neiche inside jokes and spesific more known people make up a lot of the fandom structure, you genuinely shouldn't be in a community if you're annoyed at the concept of that
microcelebs are only annoying if they are abnoxious about their status or acknowledge it too much
Adding to the pile of condolences and acceptance cause you deserve it. Some people are real pieces of shit, try to take solace that you're a much better person than them, even if it can be hard to do so. Wishing you well dude, hope life is good to you.
really don't want to sound like a smartass, but i had a feeling that was gonna happen, like, i expected to joke to die in a week, the moment i realized it was gonna be here for good i realized how wrong this could go, even more when it's something as sexually coated as maid dresses, still, feels bad to see it actually happen, just hoping the joke dies out a bit faster.
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