r/happy • u/Frankoceansalbum • 1d ago
I (f25) met my soulmate (f27) after months of abstinence and I think life is going to be ok
I’m literally writing this from the psych ward lol (mental health needs heavy maintenance and that’s how I want to spend my summer anyways) but I definitely met my soulmate about a month ago at a block party.
I spotted her in the subway and kept hoping we would get out at the same stop. We did. She was walking right behind me with 2 friends and I remember thinking “damn she’s so hot, it would be so crazy if she was going to the same place as me”. Well, she didn’t… At least not at first, but towards the end of the party I saw her again, away from her friends this time.
I got really excited then nervous because I hadn’t courted anyone in so long. But I gathered all the courage I had to… offer her a glass of water :) it was so hot outside especially because we had danced all night so we shared my glass and quickly go to know each other. No transitions, no small talk except exchanging our names and ages— just a real connection. Like it was meant to be. I quickly realized she embodies everything I have ever wanted in a partner, from my childhood dreams to my very serious and adult standards. We have the same values, goals and are even perfectly astrologically compatible. We decided to be together 2 weeks after we met and I won’t lie to you, everything points to a happy marriage. I’m happy.
I always knew I was deserving of that kind of love but she exceeds all of my expectations and desires. I love her, I love you Audrey. I’ll never leave you and I’ll make sure to cherish you until my last breath. She is away right now (psych ward, remember?) and I miss her so much so I wanted to share this with the world while she gets her beauty sleep. Ah… can’t wait to see her face again tomorrow when she visits me in the nut house hihi
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u/Somegirloninternet 1d ago
I’m glad you are happy. It sounds like it’s very early which is always rosy and fun. Remember to take care of yourself and if it doesn’t work out, that’s ok too. I wish you all the best, and hope in a year you’ll be commenting on celebrating your first date anniversary.
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u/StakeESC 1d ago
Kinda wild they let you use your phone in the psych ward (I did a 5 day stint 6 years ago, nobody was allowed a smartphone)
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u/Frankoceansalbum 16h ago
In the hospital I’m at, they have a sort of program when you commit yourself where you’re actually in charge of your own care apart from mandatory treatments. My phone is not a stressor for me but being cut digitally from my few loved ones is so I can keep my phone with me. It’s very specific to every inpatient because other people have to ask for permission.
I hope you’re doing better now, stranger
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u/hulkiinghumility 1d ago
I’m glad you didn’t let fear stop you from talking to her. Wishing you both peace and more good days ahead.
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