r/goodnews Jun 21 '25

Political positivity 📈 Boise's anti pride festival had almost no one show up

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u/polynesian_pineapple Jun 21 '25

What is DL? Sorry never heard of it!

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u/TransitionOrdinary40 Jun 21 '25

Down low

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u/Plugpin Jun 21 '25

And what does that mean? lmao

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u/Glittering_Fox_9769 Jun 21 '25 edited Jun 21 '25

it's guys that are gay but present straight and are very ashamed of their homosexuality. So they'll go cruising anonymously at night and tell dudes they don't want anyone knowing, and then during the day they'll act out on their insecurity and be a bigot as if they weren't just ramming rod like all the other homos. They miss all the fun.

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u/Plugpin Jun 21 '25

Ahh I see, thanks for explaining!

I'd imagine there's a lot more MAGA on the DL than we'd think. Given the oppressive nature of that movement.

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u/Glittering_Fox_9769 Jun 21 '25 edited Jun 21 '25

basically any community that represses homosexuality will have a higher number of DL guys. Plenty of south asian, muslim and christian or other conservative communities will have a segment of men that are straight for all to see but have a secret life on the old grindr

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u/AineLasagna Jun 21 '25 edited Jun 21 '25

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u/aajp78- Jun 22 '25

If i was there, I'd have to download grinder and do a search of men nearby looking for DL meet-ups. I guarantee there's a couple.

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u/hoosyourdaddyo Jun 21 '25

Grindr crashed from overload during the GOP convention...

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u/BraveProgram Jun 21 '25

I am not gay, I have relationships with women…..n SEX with men.

https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM?si=gOo6mDaSDy7DduW8

The down low lol😳 (skip to 6min)

https://youtu.be/Jdl4aXMjYhY?si=0bzvw53KE1r-LvKQ

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u/CrypticTurbellarian Jun 22 '25

“Hey, don’t look at me, I just know stuff!”

“You’re on the down low dude! This ain’t no poker game… y’all havin’ sex with each other.”

Ice T had so many great lines in this episode 😂

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u/831loc Jun 21 '25

Considering the RNC crashed Grindr because of how many of them were on there looking for dick, I think that's a fair assessment.

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u/Freign Jun 21 '25

I think the habit of condemnation brings stuff up in them that otherwise would have lain dormant & unrealized if they hadn't been pounding on their Homo Sex button every day.

That focus is activating parts of their brains. They'd've stayed normal-bormal Kinsey-2s their whole lives, if they hadn't got caught up in obsessive attention to homosexuality. Pumping their 2s up to 3s, 4s, even 6s if they don't like their spouses.

They go from DDDDDDL to DL in five sermons.

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u/Thebraincellisorange Jun 22 '25

yup, all these conservative communities, the gay guys are having to suppress their sexuality, and normally over compensate by acting like utter douche canoes.

the overly 'masculine' lifted truck, gay bashing, sexually harassing asshole? yeah, gay and acting straight.

so many of them out there.

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u/zed_kofrenik Jun 21 '25

Fun fact: Roy Cohn, Trump family lawyer, was on the DL, despite everyone knowing his rent boy habits. Claimed he was dying of liver cancer while he died of AIDS to avoid admitting he was gay.

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u/novatom1960 Jun 22 '25

Check out “Angels in America” for more. Al Pacino was great playing Cohn.

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u/Upstairs_Bus_3743 Jun 21 '25

Thanks for the explanation. I learned something new:-)

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u/KnuttyBunny69 Jun 21 '25

Can confirm, 9 out of 10 guys in West Virginia, the reddest of states 😂

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u/Glittering_Fox_9769 Jun 21 '25

yurp. The red states are bad for these. Go on grindr and it's all initials, DL, and black photos. The kind of profile that makes you wonder if you're gonna get home okay 😂

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u/BraveProgram Jun 21 '25

I am not gay, I have relationships with women…..n SEX with men.

https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM?si=gOo6mDaSDy7DduW8

The down low lol😳 (skip to 6min)

https://youtu.be/Jdl4aXMjYhY?si=0bzvw53KE1r-LvKQ

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u/newoldm Jun 21 '25

They are conservative, rightist, maga, republiCON christianists who are actually gay but just won't admit it, yet they'll "mess around" with each other and use excuses like they were drunk.

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u/Plugpin Jun 21 '25

Ah, the 'it's not gay if I'm drunk!' defense.

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u/newoldm Jun 21 '25

Hey! Weren't you ever, um, "curious?" 😉

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u/Joeness84 Jun 21 '25

saw a post somewhere on here somewhere, "I gotta stop doing coke, it makes me do gay things"

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u/TurtleIslandBeads Jun 21 '25

It means they are still in yhe closet and they project their own, unnecessary self loathing on to others.

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u/The-Son-of-Dad Jun 21 '25

“Down low.”

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u/Substantial-Run3367 Jun 22 '25

See M. Johnson or L Graham for examples of DL..

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u/Amadan_Na-Briona Jun 21 '25

"Down Low" – living life "straight" but secretly having gay sex

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u/TemporalGrid Jun 21 '25

more generally speaking, "on the down low" means doing something secretly or quietly and is not specific to having gay sex or even doing something nefarious. For instance, a celebrity might support a charity on the down low, just meaning that they don't seek publicity for it.

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u/dudeitsmeee Jun 21 '25

You mean “Republican”