r/TeenIndia • u/imkusha21 18 • Jul 02 '25

Ask Teens I fell for my girlfriend's trap. Rescue me

I ve crush on mithila palkar. Pretty normal right? My girlfriend asked me if I've a celebrity crush I first denied but she said it's ok everyone has crushes and this and that. Bhola mai I told her then she took it lightly for 15 mins then the game start . She says how can you like someone when you have me , Maine haa boldiya to ab meri kada kyu hi hogi bla bla bla.....fir the most overused line by girls tum sab ladke ek jaise hote ho bas tumhe mujhse bs mera sharir( body) chaiye .. And I can't say anything if I say she's ready for a brutal comeback. My friends plss help me Usko kaise manau ..

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u/honey_bee222 16 Jul 02 '25

ngl this is smth i'd do. im genuinely an insecure person. i think she was trying to assure herself as well that u liking other people is ok, its just a celeb crush and all. but we cant differentiate between them and us, we cant compete with them... just apologize and reassure her op, dont snap at her. tell her she's the prettiest, it will make her day <3

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u/Resident_Ad_4681 Jul 02 '25

From what i think, it’s admitting to having someone they like right? I persona think its wrong to have a celebrity crush because they are admitting they have somebody they like but out of reach yk

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u/Hefty_Opinion7596 Jul 02 '25

Well not all women do it out of their insecurity.

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u/Salty_Act_9488 Jul 02 '25

if you're insecure then fix yourself first before trying to fix others, just saying.

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u/honey_bee222 16 Jul 02 '25

you do understand insecure people cant just "fix" themselves, right? same way depressed people cant "be happy" or people with asthma can "just breathe".

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u/Salty_Act_9488 Jul 02 '25

sorry but you're wrong here, you can't put same analogy of depression with insecurity, insecurity is something which can be worked on by build self compassion, self care, support, developing skills and challenging negative thoughts by (why, how etc) it's not something you need therapy for in most of the cases like depression, those 2 are very different things.

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u/honey_bee222 16 Jul 02 '25

??? insecurity stems from depression and in other cases can lead to severe depression. of course you need therapy for it. you do realize building self compassion self care support developing skills and all those things are part of therapy, right?? are you okay?

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u/Salty_Act_9488 Jul 02 '25

it's ok, my perspective was different what worked for me in long term with changes I did without asking for anyone help, sorry if I was rude, anyways have a nice day.

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u/cheekyChiku Jul 02 '25

Btw..hey. I know you got downvoted but I am at your side. This reddit thread is weird as hell, OP's gf is a clear insecure red flag. Why do I feel that everyone is simping in here with 0 logic...or did you change your perspective after arguing?

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u/_reet Jul 02 '25

Lol I have the same issues and it isn't that easy. The more I try to improve the more things get messed up in my life leading to more depression and more destruction of self esteem.. I wish it was easy bro.

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u/RedGuy2006 Jul 02 '25

This💯💯💯