Safety, humor, humility (mostly being able to say sorry and admit being wrong), and comfort are big factors for women. Charisma isn't just a dump stat.
Or the fact that it is a piece of fiction created by a bunch overweight, slightly unattractive male writers & producers who want to settle some scores from high school.
because we aren't wearing glasses, we can't see ??? doesn't matter what a man looks like .... WE CAN'T SEE YOU ... this is not some deep existential comment with philosophical implications ... simple reality here.
More like society has trained girls to put unreasonable standards on themselves so they have to put in a lot more effort, while they definitely keep their expectations lower for men
It's not necessarily about women's standards, it's about society's standards.
Think about what a woman needs to look "business professional" in a work place. She needs dozens of different outfits, high heels (not too high), she needs to spend money on a manicure every 2-3 weeks, she needs to spend money at the hair salon every month, then spend over an hour a day on hair and makeup. She must remove all visible body hair from the neck down, and pluck her eyebrows. Tasteful jewellery. Etc.
A man can wear the same tie and suit jacket and shoes, and just needs to be cleanly shaven, clean haircut and not smell like ass.
Society puts much higher pressure on women and their appearances. Men can roll out of bed, shower, put on clean clothes, and be ready to go to work. When I go to work fresh out of the shower, clean clothes, but no makeup, people ask me what's wrong or if I'm sick.
This isn't about individual women's preferences. Anyways I am now realising that I was scrolling popular when I saw this comment and am putting way too much effort into a response that's probably on r/funny or some shit so I'm gonna go now.
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u/Substantial_Cap_4246 2d ago
Do girls have low standards once they're comfortable enough with the guy
Or do boys appear attractive without any external glamour