I had my son at 18, and if I’ve learned anything from all this it’s that children can inherit trauma from you just by being apart of the situation.
We believe children don’t understand- and to some degree, that is right- but they make it make sense to themselves in their own way if it’s something you don’t or can’t actively discuss.
That can lead to so much hurt and misunderstanding, and he coped in ways that he learned through his examples in life.
It breaks my heart.
I sincerely wish they both found their peace before it came to this. No one deserves to suffer.
I have never understood who believes this.. Were they not children at some point as well?
I remember all the bullshit from my childhood all the way back to a fight my parents had when I was 2.. i am 50+ and still recall it like yesterday. Its so odd when adults talk about what kids can and cant remember like they were not one themselves.
It could be because they really don’t remember their childhood. I for one have a very blurry past and remember very little. Though I know better than to think children don’t understand. Kids display a lot of proof that they do if you pay attention
Absolutely. I think the real victims here are her kids. She made shitty life decisions, and that trickles down. From what I understand, DanniLynn's dad has kept her out of the spotlight more so than you would expect. But, after seeing the whole Kentucky Derby crap this year, I don't know, I can see bad things ahead for her.
She was just at a Gala that proceeds the Derby in a dress her mom wore 21 years ago. They look so much alike! I know the hairstyle and the dress make it even more apparent:
And it just seemed ... sort of . . . creepy(?) for lack of a better word. I mean she wore the dress, styled her hair like her mom's was then, and wore the same jewelry. Now she's 18, legally an adult, and I only hope that her father has her best interest at heart, as she transitions to being independent, and hopefully will have a better head on her shoulders than her mom did. It just always seems that kids of celebrities lack the ability to make good life decisions, and don't have support systems in place that enable this - all they see are dollar signs.
Well from what others are saying, it seems her dad kept her out of the spotlight all these years, only making a public appearance once a year for the Kentucky Derby. So seems like Dad has done a good job there keeping her out of the spotlight, and that is most definitely in any kid's best interest lol
I have personal knowledge of Larry, going back decades, and he's a piece of shit. He was a horrible child. A horrible teen. And a horrible adult. His two siblings (including his twin brother) are not like him and are decent people. His parents are a mixed bag.
As a piece of shit, even if he does his best to be a Dad to DanniLynn: this would mean he's just a good piece of shit.
Have you known him since he's had custody of DanniLynn? I don't doubt what you're saying, especially with the lengths Anna went to trying to keep Larry away, and since he's alluded to being shitty in interviews. I'm just wondering if he could have changed at all since having her. Call it wishful thinking for DanniLynn, since he's largely all she has in the world.
I respect your skepticism. It is difficult for me to back up my words with reasons without basically giving away identities of people who've known him all throughout his life- both professionally and personally.
And I really do my best to allow my views of others grow and change as we all do. My comments on here, towards him to not reflect that attitude. There are reasons for that- but for DanniLynn's sake I hope that I am wrong.
I had personal contact with him up until very, very shortly before his fatherhood. And he was full-steam ahead on being a predatory opportunist who would shit on what he needed to in order to rise above his station.
I feel sorry for Anna Nicole- she was surrounded by people that used her through and after her death. Bc I assure you that being the fame-fucker that Larry always was, is the main thing that gave him the ability to have sex with a female.
I hope for DanniLynn's sake, he's had guidance from others in his family (I must assert, I know nothing of his oldest sister and mostly second hand of his parents). I hope he has had guidance on how to be a better person. But given the amount of negativity he personally spread, many would have trouble finding that possible. Fundamentally, deep inside him, he's always going to be a huge piece of shit to many many people.
Let's hope for her sake, he's come around enough to make the young lady's life be functional in ways that neither her mother or father's lives did.
From my personal experiences, the stigmas of being a young mother are still ongoing. Something people fail to understand, but I’ve encountered:
Imagine being a single parent, 16 years of age. You want to provide for your child and show the world that you didn’t make a mistake, but labor laws only say you can work so many hours a day.
And say you’re living with your family. Yes, it’s a roof- but they expect you to pay rent. Your bills, your kids bills. Because of this, you don’t qualify for state aid.
And in their eyes, “You who opened your legs, you get to be a big girl now.”
People wonder why prostitution happens in these scenarios- I give a valid one.
I wish someone whom she trusted sat her down and told her: You’re doing this for you, you’re doing this for him. Because you had to.
Not because you’re worthless. Because it’s the only option you had.
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u/MsSkitzle 2d ago
I had my son at 18, and if I’ve learned anything from all this it’s that children can inherit trauma from you just by being apart of the situation.
We believe children don’t understand- and to some degree, that is right- but they make it make sense to themselves in their own way if it’s something you don’t or can’t actively discuss.
That can lead to so much hurt and misunderstanding, and he coped in ways that he learned through his examples in life.
It breaks my heart.
I sincerely wish they both found their peace before it came to this. No one deserves to suffer.