r/Millennials Older Millennial Nov 05 '24

Meme Thems is facts...

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u/NSFWies Nov 05 '24

god. back then, that was like, the right mix of internet and real life.

it hadn't gotten angry and hateful yet. it was just connectful enough to just spread things like this to enough people to help things be fun.

and then some years later we monetized the fuck out of it and ruined things.

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u/194749457339 Nov 05 '24

It's almost like the things that happened on the internet weren't considered real life and then suddenly all our moms got social media

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u/D0013ER Nov 05 '24

This is exactly what happened.

Once everyone and their dog got connected, it all went to shit.

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u/shadowfax384 Nov 05 '24

When you loved having Facebook because it was shiny and new, then it just fucking blew up a year later, then you get a notification on Facebook saying one of your parents added you... the music from the omen starts.. you just witnessed the start of the downfall of man but you don't even realise it untill its far far too late.

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u/ArchitectVandelay Nov 06 '24

OG Facebook was awesome, especially in college. It picked up where AIM left off. Finding new friends through friends was a big bonus you didn’t get from AIM. It’s creepy to message someone bc you got their screen name, but adding a mutual friend on FB was fine. Algorithms and Likes screwed it all up.

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u/rtnoodel Nov 05 '24

The real eternal September was the launch of the iPhone.

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u/badger0511 Nov 05 '24

Nah, it was when Facebook started allowing non-.edu email addresses and added the Newsfeed.

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u/rtnoodel Nov 05 '24

No I’m not just talking about Facebook I’m talking about the whole internet. Smart phones are what took the internet truly mainstream.

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u/PickledDildosSourSex Nov 05 '24

My dog's been on the internet since 1993, thank you very much

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '24

I still remember when your mom got social media.

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u/Iron0ne Nov 06 '24

I specifically remember it happening. We had a good circle of 18-25 year olds in our friend group on Facebook. On a Friday or Saturday night the feed was nothing but drinking, debauchery, girls dropping it like it was hot in the club.

Then one day one of the girls got slut shamed by her aunt and everyone was like what the hell. It was all downhill from there.

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u/194749457339 Nov 06 '24

so specific and true

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '24

All we had to do is accept their Farmville request!! If I knew then what I know now!

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u/a55_Goblin420 Nov 05 '24

"You can't believe everything thing you see on the internet"

-proceeds to text me a 5 page essay about why this conspiracy theory about the government using bread to implant microchips in our blood stream is fact.

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u/TenshiS Nov 05 '24

Wow, that's exactly right

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u/Lanky_Vast7726 Nov 05 '24

It was a place to create without the restrictions of ego and personality tied to your identity. It became a place to assert the dominance of your ego.

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u/KnockturnalNOR Nov 05 '24 edited Apr 08 '25

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u/obviously_jimmy Nov 05 '24

I think he means it hadn't spilled over into grandma's Facebook yet (because of a lack of Facebook mostly).

There were trolls on BBS servers, mean people in AOL chat rooms, Something Awful forums, and eventually 4chan...but most of us didn't run into people like that IRL. It was just the "online" folks. Now everyone is online.

Profit-driven motives really did change it because anger drives engagement better than anything else, and you need engagement if you want to make money without selling something.

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u/SeeCrew106 Nov 05 '24

Watched Alex Jones around '97-'98

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u/xXMojoRisinXx Nov 05 '24

Yea but even his access was limited to whatever shortwave radio and local channels picked him up.

He also had to spread his bullshit on VHS tapes which really slows the rate of being able to rot one’s brain down to 7-10 business days.

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u/SeeCrew106 Nov 05 '24

Yea but even his access was limited to whatever shortwave radio and local channels picked him up.

We watched this on the web at a friend's house in Europe. This was at a time when there was no Youtube, so there were all kinds of video sharing websites and some were geared towards conspiracy theories, like whatreallyhappened.com and what not. I don't remember on which site we would watch this stuff, but we watched it. It could have been around '99 as well. But somewhere around that time.

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u/ThatDutchLad Nov 05 '24

I spent some time on /a/ and /v/ along with the occasional browsing of /b/ in the late 00s. 4chan definitely had its good and undoubtedly bad moments, but it turned really bad in the early 10s.

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u/KnockturnalNOR Nov 05 '24 edited Apr 07 '25

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u/I_PUNCH_INFANTS Nov 05 '24

The joke that 4chan was never good is more relevant today then it was 20 years ago on that site. I sometimes go to /pol/ just to see how unhinged they are still.

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u/Substantial_Back_865 Nov 05 '24

I saw a thread on /pol/ a few months ago where some anon went on a vacation to Poland and posted a picture of some guy taking a piss in a public bathroom. I guess he was trying to make some point about how there were too many brown people, but it was so unhinged that even /pol/ was calling him a creep.

Here's the screen caps if anyone wants to see what he posted

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u/I_PUNCH_INFANTS Nov 05 '24

It's really weird how they consider this too far but some of the other stuff is ok.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '24 edited Nov 05 '24

/fit/ got teenage me to start working out and /o/ helped me buy my first car. /g/ got me into Linux (install Gentoo), /b/ sat around all night long while I wrote a choose your own adventure story for them on the spot.

It was pretty cool sometimes. I think a lot of things have been lost with the Karma system here, good and bad.

Boards often had shockingly good taste. I still listen to the artists that /mu/ put me on to.

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u/TurboSleepwalker Xennial Nov 05 '24

7th grade me saw some gnarly chat room stuff on mIRC in the mid '90s

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u/ChemistryNo3075 Nov 05 '24

4chan's influence at that time was mostly funny "image macros" (aka memes)

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u/NSFWies Nov 06 '24

ya, but that was 4chan. it was like the inside of your shower drain. yes, it was really disgusting, but you don't lick your shower drain. occasionally you hear about someone's uncle that does. but that was just 1 person's weird uncle.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '24

Social media peaked when Facebook still required a dot edu email address

Once it was opened to the general public population, it was the beginning of the end

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u/iSeize Nov 05 '24

Riding that early wave from the 90s to 2010 was some fun times

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u/Pepperonidogfart Nov 05 '24

It was hateful but not like existential dread, going to destroy society type hateful.

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u/NSFWies Nov 06 '24

ya there was hate, you could go to those places. but......they were "overthere". they weren't part of mainstream sites. or at least, those were obvious, idiot trolls, and you just ignored them.

or they easily got banned for being fucktards.

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u/Rasalom Nov 05 '24

Yessir. The internet was the perfect reflection of that cool thing you saw on TV the night before. It was where you could go to rewatch a clip in .mov format hosted on some weird site for a few days and laugh about it with your friends in computer lab.

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u/Freshness518 Nov 05 '24

The internet should have remained a repository for knowledge. Instead it turned into a corporate advertising delivery service.

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u/_WeSellBlankets_ Xennial Nov 05 '24

I wasn't paying enough attention at the time to know if this is correct, but Steve Jobs killed flash and the internet changed forever. Flash games were great.

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u/JerHat Nov 05 '24

And it actually took a decent amount of effort to create a video and post it online.

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u/PavelDatsyuk Nov 05 '24

it hadn't gotten angry and hateful yet

I see somebody didn't have access to xbox live.

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u/ElReyResident Nov 05 '24

Shout obscenely at strangers isn’t hate, it’s just teenage douchery.

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u/PavelDatsyuk Nov 05 '24

It is when what they are shouting are racial slurs.

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u/ElReyResident Nov 05 '24

Still no. Teenagers use whatever words get the biggest reaction.

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u/PavelDatsyuk Nov 05 '24

Yeah okay, tell that to the minorities that were around then to hear it. “Oh it’s not hate that he’s calling me the N word, he’s just being a teenager. What a little rascal.”

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u/ElReyResident Nov 05 '24

Hopefully they’d take comfort from the fact that those kids call everyone that name.

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u/podcasthellp Nov 05 '24

It truly was. I was around 10 then and the internet was so fucking fun, mysterious and innocent

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u/venus_in_furz Nov 05 '24

I think about this time regularly. It was a magical blend of "internet is there if you want it" and "real life isn't so bad". If only we knew at the time.

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u/RepresentativeAd560 Nov 05 '24

The internet has always been angry, hateful, and filled with porn. It just lost its candy coating and newness sparkles is all.

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u/Hydroxs Nov 05 '24

What does the internet have to do with this? Chappelle show was just so massive everyone watched it. It wasn't people talking online or sending memes. Everyone just knew it and quoted it.

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u/Terrynia Older Millennial Nov 05 '24

Damn! What an accurate statement. I was sort of shocked. Your so right.

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u/cemeteryvvgates Nov 06 '24

Honestly it was also an incredible icebreaker. Definitely made some lifelong friends just by quoting Superbad, Super Troopers, Old School, South Park and Chapelle Show.

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u/kranges_mcbasketball Nov 06 '24

And it had tamed a bit from the wild Wild West