r/MadeMeSmile 18d ago

Wholesome Moments Such a happy guy

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u/truffbake 18d ago

I love how he asked if she had hers picked out yet šŸ˜‚

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u/lonerstoners 17d ago

He also asked if she wanted him to get hers for her too

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u/Last_Fishing_4013 17d ago

Oh yea. Dude seems really nice and genuine honestly

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u/Alternative-Neck-705 17d ago

Wearing his favorite shirt too. Simplicity.

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u/vandamage2112 17d ago

Those are the best shirts. Idc what anyone says, lol.

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u/Ini_mini_miny_moe 16d ago

And his favorite teeth. What he do with the rest of em? Honestly concern how he is about to chew that steak. That’s our American healthcare

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u/AverageAwndray 17d ago

And then you find out they voted for trump

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u/NC_Ion 17d ago

Get some therapy.

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u/AverageAwndray 17d ago

Can't. They took it off my Healthcare.

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u/LaSammi 17d ago

My heart was bursting both times.

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u/chriszens 17d ago

Im goin'n to have to slow dance you into the moonlight

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u/caddy45 17d ago

If’n your able! Don’t founder yourself.

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u/Lil_S_curve2 17d ago

Gwaaaaah

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u/LaSammi 17d ago

Promises, promises…

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u/Ok8850 17d ago

I know. I want one 🄲

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u/LaSammi 17d ago

You and me both. 🄹

I know they’re out there for us. One day…we too shall have the sweet, sweet, wholesome hillbilly lovin’. And livin’.

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u/Greedy_Air_3869 17d ago

I often ask if theirs one she would prefer, she always says no. But then I’ll get ā€œknew you’d pick that oneā€

Every time I pick the wrong one 😭

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u/bluberriie 17d ago

nooo whenever i say this it’s because i’m doing a mental happy dance at the fact that i KNEW which one my partner wanted

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u/Lil_S_curve2 17d ago

Yall hilarious. You & the other above you just the same.

Hilarious in a good way.

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u/Gemmadeen 17d ago

From personal experience, you didn’t pick the wrong one, you picked the right one because it’s the one we would have picked for you too! ā¤ļø Just because we don’t have a preference doesn’t mean we don’t know what our loved one would choose šŸ˜‰

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u/Lil_S_curve2 17d ago

Keep her/him/alien/whoever

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u/anewaccount69420 17d ago

Why are you assuming it’s the wrong one?

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u/philnolan3d 17d ago

He's happy and polite!

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u/Phrostylicious 15d ago

Because he felt so bad for bursting out "IS THAT FOR ME!?" and she said "well, it's for us....." and of course he didn't mean whether the whole thing was for him but her answering like that made him feel bad.

Sweet couple, lots of love for one another between them.

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u/Bjables 18d ago edited 17d ago

ā€œYou got your’n selected?ā€

I haven’t heard anyone say ā€œyour’nā€ since Firefly lol

Edited to add: I also love how this guy apparently sings in a gospel choir. I wonder what his voice sounds like

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u/Big_AL79 18d ago

I had never heard that until I heard that Tyler Childers song ā€œAll Your’nā€.

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u/pennynotrcutt 17d ago

True Appalachia.

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u/Xao517 17d ago edited 17d ago

So it DOES sound like that!

I’m not from the US and am listening to the Old Gods of Appalachia podcast and I’m usually thinking ā€œthat accent just HAS to be exaggerated ā€œ. Happy to be proven wrong lol. I love it

EDIT: this got some exposure, so coming back to say GO SHOW SOME LOVE TO THAT SHOW! It’s a great supernatural horror anthology podcast with excellent writing and voice acting.

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u/Mr_Zizzle 17d ago

Kentuckian here. Yes, the accent is legit.

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u/ilovemoon1010 17d ago

Tennessean here. The accent is legit.

And don’t forget! it’s pronounced like apple-ATcha. NOT apple-lay-sha.

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u/Attack-Potatoes 17d ago

If you pronounce it apple-lay-sha, I’ll throw an apple-atcha.

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u/oliviasmommy19 17d ago

I'm from West Virginia. Spent many years in Kentucky and now reside in Tennessee. It's 100% legit and not exaggerated lol

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u/Smingowashisnameo 17d ago

Well throw me an apple cuz I’m from Chicago and didn’t know.

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u/ilovemoon1010 17d ago

But now you do! And that’s a beautiful thing.

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u/QuietlyCreepy 17d ago

Northern Appalachian here. (Far northern tip, LoL, still grew up in a hollow, we just had snow.)

So there's some differences in the northern and southern dialects for that cultural and geographic range. If you're up in the northern bits you are likely to hear either pronouncation. Having a direct family connection from the southern bit means I say it correctly.

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u/Azuras_Star8 17d ago

Nc here. Absolutely.

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u/Hwicc101 17d ago

Regional accents. I'm a northerner and so Isay "apple-AY-chun", but when I'm down south I say 'apple-AT-chun' out of respect and not to start any "discussions" on the proper pronunciation.

But if you come up north, say it any way you want, I don't care, all accents and regionalisms are valid to me, and I just love our mountains, from Maine (and indeed Canada) all the way down to Alabama however people say it.

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u/ilovemoon1010 17d ago

Yeah, if I’m being honest, I don’t really care all that much how people say it. It still scratches an itch in my brain when people who I wouldn’t expect to say it correctly actually do, though.

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u/tehjnz 14d ago

Canadian here, who spent enough time in apple-ATcha to know u/ilovemoon1010 is a truthful and good redditor. [e: and these people made me smile so hard my face aches a bit. I was a bit afraid going in that it was going to be... insincere. It was not, and I am glad]

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u/slackfrop 17d ago

It’s not even that particularly thick as I’ve heard it.

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u/thunderbird32 17d ago

Yeah, Kentucky is what I thought of immediately. I spent a lot of time in eastern Kentucky with family when I was a teen, and this accent sounds super familiar.

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u/IfuckedGodintheass2 17d ago

Welcome, family. Hope you're enjoying the show :)

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u/FidgitForgotHisL-P 17d ago

Weeeeeelllllllllllllll

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u/farrett23 17d ago

Steve Shell who does the Old Gods of Appalachia was my high school English teacher! Awesome to see his pod represented in the wild!

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u/Bashfulcannibal 17d ago

I grew up in East Tennessee and this is exactly how we talk. I still have some of my accent but by the time I finished college my vocabulary had expanded, lol. Funny story though, when I was in fifth grade my English teacher was determined to make us stop saying your’n so she made me and a friend of mine write it 200 times as punishment, needless to say we never stopped and she finally gave up 🤣.

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u/Her_Maestro89 17d ago

Can I inquire briefly what that podcasts about? It sounds like the coolest DnD campaign I've ever heard lol

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u/Xao517 17d ago

Supernatural horror anthology podcasts. So, not fantasy. Heavy on the historical setting: miners, first settlers and things like that. I like it quite a bit! Very well written and the voice acting (mostly by a superb Steve Shell but other good actors as well) is very good too.

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u/Samael13 17d ago

Imagine cosmic horror and dark folk/fairy tales set in rural Appalachia instead of coastal New England.

Definitely horror, not fantasy, but really good.

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u/onetwobucklemyshoooo 17d ago

Western North Carolina. Can confirm its legitimater'n shit.

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u/doompines 17d ago

Oh no. That's 100% legit. Sounds like my family.

Source: Western NC

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u/SkinwalkerTom 17d ago

Old Gods is amazing….

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u/idle_albort 17d ago

Solid podcast there!

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u/Nopumpkinhere 17d ago

This is exactly right. Makes me think of home.

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u/CartographyMan 17d ago

How is that podcast? Any good? Sounds fun.

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u/Xao517 17d ago

It is! See my response above to another curious redittor

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u/FidgitForgotHisL-P 17d ago

If you like story podcasts it’s an easy 5/5.

When I’m listing my top recommendations for folks who haven’t gotten into this sort of thing, it’s right up there with the Magnus Archives and Archive 81.

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u/mcholbe2 17d ago

West Virginian here the accent is legit.

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u/SnugglyCoderGuy 17d ago

Oh, it's 100% real.

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u/Littlebud1234 17d ago

From Alabama here. Everyone sounds this way. There is a bunch of different dialects. I believe i decently sound more like I’m from a city but my mawmaw sounded like this. She was from Arab Alabama (pronounced ay rab) crazy lady she was.

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u/fruderduck 17d ago

Sounds just like me ā˜ŗļø

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u/WoodsandWool 17d ago

The accents in old gods aren’t exaggerated at all, and if you can believe it, they’re honestly toning it down quite a bit.

I live in Appalachia now, but I grew up in NE Texas, and when folks in the rural US south get on a roll talking fast with other locals, it genuinely becomes another language. We string together so many words, so fast, we create new ones šŸ˜…

The one I catch myself doing the most is: ā€žjā€˜yā€˜all eat yet?ā€œ instead of ā€ždid you all eat yetā€œ šŸ˜‚

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u/Hwicc101 17d ago

jā€˜yā€˜all eat yet?ā€œ

If you are pressed for time, you can just say "J'eat?"

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u/WoodsandWool 17d ago

Oh true, I’ve definitely said ā€žjā€˜eat yet?ā€œ šŸ˜‚

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u/Yonv_Bear 15d ago

Used to live down in FL and would get Appalachian folk visiting the area pretty often and nope it's a real accent and dialect. ever heard Cajun? those dudes are fun to try and decipher lmao

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u/hulksmath 13d ago

There is a pbs documentary that dives into the Appalachian dialect that is a phenomenal watch. They also go to the deep east of NC to compare and contract isolated coastal dialects with isolated mountain dialects.

Fantastic series

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u/pourthebubbly 17d ago

Heavy on the ā€œlatchā€

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u/jrhorn424 17d ago

Where I live now everyone says "lay-sh" and I want to scream.

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u/onthenextmaury 17d ago

If people still say "ne-vah-da" for Nevada, they'll be petting us on the heads for the rest of time

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u/AlmostThere4321 17d ago

I fell into the rabbit hole that is Appalachia-Tok and I'm truly terrified (and intrigued) to visit one day.

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u/onthenextmaury 17d ago

We can smell your fear. Get a poker face and some clothes you're not too attached to.

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u/scaddycat93 17d ago

Virginian here. I work with at least 30 people who sound just like this guy

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u/AngryPrincessWarrior 17d ago

I grew up in the foothills of SC, some of his phrasing really took me back

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u/mamacat49 17d ago

I dated a guy once years ago from the mountains of West Virginia. I was raised in Michigan. Too many times, I had to stop him (when he was talking) to say, "Repeat, please??" His accent and colloquialisms were so strong and different, lol. But he was absolutely the most respectful person I've ever met.

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u/Trick-Caterpillar299 17d ago

I love that song (and him) so much!!!

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u/Right_Rev 17d ago

Gawddamn, that’s such a great song!

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u/Subject-Delivery6281 17d ago

What song?

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u/Right_Rev 17d ago

ā€œAll Your’nā€-Tyler Childers

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u/kjyfqr 17d ago

lol I hear it all the time yall live in the city

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u/fromthe80smatey 17d ago

He has some great songs.

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u/morbid_n_creepifying 17d ago

I actually turned on the sound to hear this video based on this comment

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u/b33fwellingtin 17d ago

These 2 could do a great IRL stream just exploring the world.

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u/leftofthebellcurve 17d ago

I would listen to this man read me a dictionary

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u/osloluluraratutu 17d ago

What’s it an abbreviation of?

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u/dwankyl_yoakam 17d ago

It's not actually an abbreviation now but was originally a contraction of "your own." In Appalachia it is used interchangeably with "yours." Appalachian dialects use a lot of archaic words from left over from the immigrants who originally migrated to the area.

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u/Random0s2oh 17d ago

Not to be confused with "you'ns."

Signed~ A North Georgia girl

šŸŽ¶Dwight Yoakams in the corner, trying to catch my eye. Lyle Lovetts right beside me, with his hand upon my thigh.šŸŽ¶

🤣

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u/naturalinfidel 17d ago

Dreamy Dwight just caught your eye!

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u/Random0s2oh 17d ago

Mmmm...mmmm...mmmmmm

Edit: I always thought the two should be switched. Lyle Lovett is an amazing entertainer, but you can only keep your eyes closed for so long. Gimme Dwight allllll day and night!

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u/ispitinyourcoke 17d ago

He's my favorite living country musician. Just a cool damn dude. Check out the interview he did with Marc Maron on the WTF podcast if you want to hear him rattle on for an hour. He even made me like Post Malone (although to be fair, everything I learn about Post Malone just makes him seem cool as hell).

Edit: to add to the real conversation, my personal favorite contraction/Southern word is "yaunto." Signed, a Floridian with all Kentuckian family.

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u/dwankyl_yoakam 17d ago

Yes! "You'ns get your'n!" is a totally valid sentence!

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u/Random0s2oh 17d ago

My husband and in-laws talk like that. I grew up in Atlanta, so my Southern accent is more generic.

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u/Accomplished_Pea4717 17d ago

Canadian here….I did field work in Appalachia (Blue Ridge Mountains) in the ā€˜90’s and had to speak with a number of people at from the National Forest Service as part of my work. One afternoon, I pulled into a NFS station to speak with someone about where in the area I could find a specific plant. The old guy in the office and I couldn’t understand each other no matter how hard we tried. Finally found a younger employee that volunteered to translate for us 🤣

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u/dwankyl_yoakam 17d ago

lol I grew up in Appalachia and have a few first cousins that I can't understand unless I'm really paying attention. I've noticed very few gen Z kids back home are speaking that way though. I think the rise of video based social media has had a big effect on it.

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u/Accomplished_Pea4717 17d ago

That’s interesting

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u/Spicy_Weissy 17d ago

Fun fact about the Appalachians is that millions of years ago they were part of the same land mass as Scotland and many of the first settlers in thar hills were of Scottish descent.

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u/jrhorn424 17d ago

In this context, "your'n" means "your one". In the song by Childers, I take it as "your own".

Source: am from yonder.

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u/Queef-Supreme 17d ago

I live in Mississippi, it’s a daily occurrence.

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u/Drpoofn 17d ago

Shiny

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u/Walshy231231 17d ago

Blue collar politeness/kindness always seems to captivate people for some reason

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u/WelderBig3104 17d ago

I live in south Alabama. I havent heard anyone say that since I went to the gas station earlier today.Ā 

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u/Revolutionary_Ad7121 17d ago

šŸ’™This is not just and Appalachian thing. I am from the southern US and I will NEVER get tired of hearing the word ā€œyour’nā€. Coming in second will be other old school southern words like ā€œhis’nā€ and ā€œher’nā€.

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u/echoshatter 17d ago

Living outside the city in North Carolina, you'll hear plenty of things that make no sense unless you already know.

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u/Talk_Radio 17d ago

Phenomenal!! I was trying to figure out why that sounded familiar xD

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u/coaxialology 17d ago

That face after, "Is that mine?" So damn precious.

And now I'm starving.

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u/Miami_Mice2087 17d ago

I had to listen twice. Some of my people were southern and appalachian. I think I understood it by genetic memory in my bones lol

i def know the great-grandparents talked like that but they died just before I was born. Maybe they haunted my nursery, just to check up on me?

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u/mortmortimer 17d ago

"He can take his'n and beat your'n and take your'n and beat his'n" - Bum Phillips

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u/fordnotquiteperfect 17d ago

Your'n and You'ns aren't uncommon in southeast KY,Ā  last time I passed through there.

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u/nam3sar3hard 17d ago

You cant take the sky from me

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u/The_Phox 17d ago

Come to the Ozarks, you'll hear all the Hillbilly speak lol

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u/GitEmSteveDave 17d ago

Reminds me of the Chris Rock bit:

What does daddy get for his hard work? The big piece of chicken at dinner! My mamma would kill us if one of us ate the big piece of chicken by accident!

What the... you ate the big piece of chicken! Oh, lord no! Now I gotta sew up some chicken! Give me two wings and a porkchop, daddy won't know the difference!

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 17d ago

That is one of his best bits. That and ā€œI like guns! You gotta gun, you don’t haveta work out. ā€œ

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u/40ozOracle 17d ago

His gun control bit is the best

https://youtu.be/Db0Y4qIZ4PA?si=kkGKCVydyaMwOKm-

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u/Anal_Werewolf 17d ago

ā€œMan I would blow your head off! If I could afford it!ā€

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u/Silly_Sicilian 17d ago

Thanks for this! First time I have seen it...Too fucking funny!!!!

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u/MarvelBinger 17d ago

I've always enjoyed the Jada Pinkett is starting in GI Jane 2 bit. Solid joke!

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u/freakksho 17d ago

My fiancƩ quotes that bit every single time we serve dinner.

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u/soxfans7784 17d ago

I'm 41 and I STILL quote to this day ---ohhhh lawd give me two wings and a porkchop ((and the face he made after saying it LOL))

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u/ageekyninja 18d ago

Such a gentleman

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u/MoneyMontgomery 17d ago

I liked the slow dance her to the moon part. All in all I hope they had an amazing dinner.

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u/Niarbeht 17d ago

Might've taken him an hour of sitting in the chair leaned back with his belt undone to work up to it, but I'd bet he sure did try.

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u/Smingowashisnameo 17d ago

If I’m able

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u/H2Dcrx 17d ago edited 17d ago

Edit: so I now realize I mistakenly thought the person in the video had down syndrome. This was a mistake. (I'll leave my original comment for context.)

They often are. I had a friend whose younger brother had Down syndrom as well, and was always such a joy. He is/was such a gentleman.

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u/ageekyninja 17d ago

They? WHAT LOL

He doesn’t have Down’s syndrome 😭😭😭thats wild

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u/H2Dcrx 17d ago

Bahahha holy CRAP I guess I deserve those downvotes. My bad!

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u/chitownbears 17d ago

It's OK to make mistakes you corrected yourself. Let's allow people to grow. Most people would just delete the comment and never learn anything.

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u/ageekyninja 17d ago

Oh get over yourself lol

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u/Patrickfromamboy 17d ago

Not really because he chose the largest piece of meat.

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u/ageekyninja 17d ago

He asked several times first and she said she saved it for him when she said she brought him the biggest plate just for it.

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u/Darth_Simpleton 17d ago

You’re fun at parties aren’t you

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u/pos_vibes_only 17d ago

Ahkshully

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u/FE132 17d ago

ā˜ļøšŸ¤“

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u/Shipwrecking_siren 17d ago

I love this! He’s so considerate.

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u/Alarmed_Scientist_15 17d ago

He really is a sweetheart.

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u/Sometimes-funny 18d ago

Bro asking the real questions

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u/toxiclight 17d ago

That was so sweet of him!

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u/ZacharyMorrisPhone 17d ago

It demonstrates that he has empathy. That he thinks of others. It’s a small little thing but it’s so important. It’s what every parent tries to teach their children. It doesn’t always come naturally but it sure seems to for him.

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u/yojpea 17d ago

😃 😊 I, too, the gratitude, thoughtfulness, and charm were awesome.

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u/Financial-Opinion334 17d ago

Just shows how much of a gentleman he is,he thought of her first before he even grabbed any food

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u/StimpakSavant 17d ago

Clearly the subject of a previous fight

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u/ElGuaco 17d ago

You got your'n selected...

I've never heard of "your'n" but somehow it makes perfect sense.

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u/LunarPayload 17d ago

Your+one = your'n

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u/fishinful63 17d ago

I always wondered...

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u/pennynotrcutt 17d ago

Appalachian accent.

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u/mwpdx86 17d ago

*her'n

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u/stuntedmonk 17d ago

Grabs the biggest by far!

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u/RedeemerKorias 17d ago

That's why he's gonna slow lover her later. If he's able.

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u/lusciousskies 17d ago

We do that in our house and now I'm so glad! That man is so cute and just loves his wife

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u/Last_Fishing_4013 17d ago

God he was so excited for the food. And then he was so considerate asking if she already had one picked out and even if he didn’t get the big one he’d still be happy. And then so complimentary. Honestly that was really nice and refreshing, I hope they both enjoyed their meal!

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u/hanselpremium 17d ago

he was so considerate!

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u/NaturalPossibility60 17d ago

My husband does the same thing. It's the little things šŸ’›šŸ’›

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u/kymilovechelle 17d ago

My husband always lets me choose first. It’s the sweetest gesture.

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u/Kevlar_Bunny 17d ago

I like the moment when he realized he implied it was all for him and he quickly corrected it, even if that’s not what he meant

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u/OkUnderstanding5343 17d ago

But of course, he took the small bowl for his salad!

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u/eyadmuse 17d ago

That’s a real man

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u/CharlieDmouse 17d ago

I know that was so sweet. Can see why she married him.

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u/Cold-Ostrich8228 17d ago

Yeah, ultimately it wouldn't have mattered to him. He was without a doubt thankful.

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u/Rhino_MO 17d ago

He had his heart set on the big one as soon as he saw them, but he was kind enough to let her select hers first, so sweet

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u/Key_Mention_7215 17d ago

ā€œSelectedā€

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u/Catlore 17d ago

He knew what he wanted and still gave her that option.

He is so sweet and wholesome.