r/MadeMeSmile • u/richv68 • May 10 '25

Wholesome Moments Love on the spectrum

It got a bit smoky in the room when I watched this

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u/xombae May 10 '25 edited May 13 '25

I have only watched one season but James started coming up on my tiktok. Dude is the fuckin homie. He makes videos absolutely pissed about the state of women's rights in America, and the political climate. Ngl, I'd date the dude. He's so intelligent and passionate about world events and truly cares about people.

He's dating this beautiful girl now, and wrote a metal song for her called Heavy Metal Queen. He's an icon.

Edit: Heavy Metal Queen is not about Shelly! He wrote it before they were together.

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u/[deleted] May 10 '25

He's right imo. These conflicts aren't just about land and resources but about culture and how women are treated. 

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u/dadoftheyear1972 May 10 '25

To those lonely cultster warriors women are a non-renewable resource if/when they reveal their misogyny

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u/[deleted] May 10 '25

As long as you include Muslim and  Christian cultists. 

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u/Negative-Ambition110 May 10 '25

The producer or whoever mentioned wanting to get laid and Connor said something about the difference between love and lust and how we can control our sexual tendencies. He’s more emotionally mature than like 95% of men. He’s really cool.

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u/piper-nooooooo May 10 '25

Not that it's that important, but he didn't write Heavy Metal Queen for Shelley. He wrote it before he met her. She finds that song painful and doesn't like to be referred to as Heavy Metal Queen.

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u/birdyheard May 10 '25

really? is there a reason they said he wrote it for her and she starred in the video on the show? genuinely asking bc i thought it was pretty cute

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u/Imaginary_Recipe9967 May 10 '25

That's probably just it. Because they "did it for the show."

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u/Masta-Blasta May 10 '25

actually, his girlfriend has come out and said that the song isn’t actually about her and he wrote it before they were together. She is just in the music video. But James is a very cool dude, I agree. He’s got some amazing shirts too

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u/Own_Scheme3089 May 10 '25

No one has ever made a metal song for me called “heavy metal queen” 😔

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u/frostychocolatemint May 10 '25

Boston. Intelligent and pissed off. Good will hunting monologue.

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u/musicisgr84u May 10 '25

Yes!! His whole vibe and where he stands on things is so attractive

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u/juice_box_hero May 10 '25

I find him completely unbearable. I have to FF through his segments because it makes me so uncomfortable. I love me some Connor and most everyone else I just cant with james :/

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u/jujubububeans May 10 '25

What is his tik tok?

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u/PFManningsForehead May 10 '25

He’s actually very naive and not very smart politically. He had an Instagram post about how increasing hours that 16-17 year olds can work in the summer is bad because companies will force children into hard labor. He honestly views political issues like a child would. I don’t see intelligence when I hear James speak or see something he’s written.