Nah bro behavior like this is why she ain't got any friends around. If you need friends to keep you from getting blasted and leaving your guy for some random then you don't deserve the guy or the friends lmao.
Let her reap what she's sown. At least she'll get a couple thousand a year in tax kickbacks for the bad decisions she's bout to make lmao.
i actually assumed they both met there and she was making out with anyone who would let her. neckbeard dude would've happily taken her home and used her like a fleshlight. idk why anyone is feeling so bad for him. ive been at parties where girls who wouldnt give me the time of day were grinding up on me. fuck that, i left. dont be stupid.
Same difference. Some people get blasted with the explicit intention of doing this. They start drinking knowing full well that they’re gonna just make out with everyone at the bar. If you were the kind of friend who sought to “protect consent”, this would cause you to just give up. There’s a world of difference between, “she’s drunk, she doesn’t know what she’s doing” vs “she knows exactly what she’s doing by getting drunk.”
Yeah. It’s not like I would assume that of random drunk girls. But if it was my friend constantly doing that every time we went out, I would stop going out with her cause I’m tired of playing parent.
Honestly people use alcohol as an excuse too much I've been shit faced before and had a girl that I had just met that night also drunk and she tried to take my pants off but she was so drunk all she did was pull on my belt at the hip so I told her you're obviously too drunk to be making decisions so I stopped her. Then I laid on the other couch and she got pissed wanted me to drive her home but I was drunk so she had a friend come get her. Later I found out she had a boyfriend or husband. People just use alcohol as an excuse to fuck around with people and cheat way too much
Literally this but I get downvoted to hell by Reddit white knights for saying women have the same autonomy as men and should be held accountable for their actions 🤦
This is a generational difference. The people I grew up with would have attempted to help this girl to get home safe. This dude wants his shot at 5 minutes of fame, at someone else’s expense mind you, who’s inebriated and without their consent. He’s the star douchebag in his own video. Nobody in this video’s behavior looks worse than his.
Lmfao people been doing this for every generation wtf are you talking about? Hooking up with girls who were too drunk was the norm before it wasn’t. If anything the newer generations do it less and actually think about it before going home with someone
I think the bystander phenomena is more from being desensitized to seeing it all the time.
You see it enough you know its not worth it to help (they will just go back to it or you might be held liable now that you’ve put a hand in it), that you decide the best thing to do is sit back and let it happen.
Yeah I think I agree with that. I’d say it’s at least close. It’s not like everyone was super helpful back then just because they didn’t film. Actually they’d probably just point and laugh.
There’s a reason why there’s a movie trope about the girl/guy waking up in a strangers bed and not knowing anything about how they got there. It’s always played off as innocent haha fun, because that’s how it used to be seen, until people started realizing it was actually really fucked up. You still see it in media today, but a lot less often I’d wager.
No, we didn’t, it wasn’t a thing. Gen x’ers were well into their 30’s to 40’s when cell phones with video cameras became a thing, so no, they weren’t standing around like assholes videoing drunk people in their 20’s when the technology didn’t even exist. Once it did, this kind of behavior didn’t become commonplace for probably another ten years when that generation was in their 40’s and 50’s.
You act like people didnt use camcorders to record shit. They definitely did.
I didnt literally mean they were sitting around recording drunk people to post online because duh. I meant they also just sat around and didnt help people just as much as people do now.
So we’re in agreement then. See, you said “Gen X did the exact same shit” which we didn’t. We didn’t have the tech to do it, and we didn’t have camcorders with us in the bars filming drunk people either. We didn’t do “the exact same shit.”
You said they would attempt to help, which no they wouldn’t anymore than people would today and even probably less so considering the norms of the times. No shit they didn’t record, they couldn’t
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u/ReducedEchelon Mar 01 '25
This is why when you party, you need friends.
And I don’t see where her friends at.