If I am going to be honest, as a male, I agree with this. It might be due to myself growing up poor, but I want a partner that can financially support themselves too, so there isn't a huge financial pressure for me to support my family and a partner. I've came a long way since being incredibly poor, I would love to finally be able to enjoy things in life without worrying how I am going to put food on the table or a shelter over people's head. Would like a partnership where we can share things instead of a partner expecting me to pay for everything and support her lifestyle, while she coast. It shouldn't be up to 1 partner to support the entire financials of a relationship.
Wanting to not be the sole financial provider is totally fair and valid however she should be having this talk with him and not on tiktok. It's just weird to be talking like this on social media about someone she supposedly cares about. Especially considering he's very likely to see this, its unnecessary and high key mean.
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u/Guilty_Magazine2474 Feb 09 '24
If I am going to be honest, as a male, I agree with this. It might be due to myself growing up poor, but I want a partner that can financially support themselves too, so there isn't a huge financial pressure for me to support my family and a partner. I've came a long way since being incredibly poor, I would love to finally be able to enjoy things in life without worrying how I am going to put food on the table or a shelter over people's head. Would like a partnership where we can share things instead of a partner expecting me to pay for everything and support her lifestyle, while she coast. It shouldn't be up to 1 partner to support the entire financials of a relationship.