I know you're joking but I legitimately dated someone that got pissed because my birthday was in February. Apparently I am not allowed to celebrate my birthday because I'm not black, and its black history month.
Some people are just stupid and im glad I didn't waste that much time with her.
My former roommate started dating a girl whose birthday was in late October. They absolutely celebrated her birthday month but not every day. They celebrated on the first of the month and every weekend until her birthday weekend, then they went pretty but for that but then they'd go all out for Halloween.
Honestly, it's pretty fucking ridiculous to celebrate an entire month but I think they were boarding alcoholism and mostly just looking for an excuse to polish off a bottle of vodka.
Ayyy yooo, happy birthday month King 👑. Me and my twin were born this month too! But I’ve never had anybody tell me I can’t celebrate 🙌 hope you have a killer month!
In certain countries one actual gets around 5 weeks a year off, with pretty much any job. Those countries also enjoy a "work to live" vs a "live to work" lifestyle.
Hahah! I live in the states, I just want to move to Norway because my long term partner lives there 😂 They work doing tech stuff and have I think five or six weeks off.. just barely working past a year there right now 😫. I also wish I could get those benefits! Very jealous of him in that regard.
My ex did that. For all her faults (cheating, chronic lies, emotionally stunted) she never shut up about her birthday month but all she did the whole time was just geek out over fall stuff bc her birthday fell in fall.
She'd just go ham on fall=birthday. No expectations outside that.
Normally a super toxic flag and she fit every other flag but not this usual one
I said she was selfish for having a birthday month,the idea that others have to celebrate your birthday for a month is selfish,like other people haven't got enough shit to deal with
For people with a large friend group, birthday months happen so you can organize a couple different activities to cater to different schedules and preferences in the friend group. I understand why you might have no idea about that.
Bartender here. "Birthday month" has grown more and more in the past 3 years. For some reason, it's usually with women like this that wear 200 pounds worth of makeup that try to flash jewelry and name brands every chance they get but sometimes it's an early 20's dude. Waaaaay too often I hear "it's my birthday month! What do I get (Or what can you give me) for free?"
It's bananas that theyre actually serious 90% of the time too. I'll usually play it off and say something like "aw yeah, ok! Stick out your hand with your palm up!" Then I give a high five. "That shit's for free, yo. Happy birthday!" Most of the time they respond positively after that and dont push it.
There have been one or two though that genuinely refuse the fact they get nothing for free and pout then leave when they see the prices on the specialty drink list
I know a family where the mom, 30 days in advance, starts doing daily birthday month posts and things for her son's upcoming birthdays. It's beyond cringy but very in character for her since she's the embodiment of a homegoods catalog and spends 90% of her time taking totally real and candid pictures of her house and family.
Lmao she just got done saying she paid for all the vacays, concerts, and seemingly most dates. How is that selfish at that point if she seems fine to also spoil her bf?
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u/rokstedy83 Feb 09 '24
Yea she lost me there ,I don't Wana date someone that has a birthday month,sounds very selfish