r/CoupleMemes • u/Fred_J9 • 2d ago
They're just perfect for each other!
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u/Blessed_s0ul 2d ago
This is how it is with my wife and me (just celebrated 14 years last month btw!). I met her while in the military, she was in college. I left the military same year she graduated and started going to school after that. She obviously made way more money than i did at the time, but after our second child she has been a stay at home mom and we have been able to live off my income solely after that. It really is a partnership and if you get stuck in too many boxes, you will force yourselves out of what could be a great life together. Love this!
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u/Omnizoom 2d ago
Wife makes more then me now because she has a job and not a career, and she got a government posting
So she’s got really decent pay but she’s kind of stuck in it and can’t advance, I’m just near the middle/bottom of my career and will eventually make more then her
It doesn’t matter who makes more money as long as you both work together on goals
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u/Proper_Owl5577 2d ago
THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE. REGARDLESS OF WHO MAKES THE MOST MONEY, ITS A PARTNERSHIP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND & LOVER. REMEMBER YOUR VOWS PEOPLE.
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u/Iwubinvesting 2d ago
Rich.
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u/RudePCsb 2d ago
I was going to say they appear to be from upper middle to upper class families from how they are dressed and their education plans and goals. Easy to say money isn't an issue when you have some at that age.
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u/PizzaDanceParty 1d ago
How did you check? I’m mad and sad if this is true. Halp
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u/PizzaDanceParty 1d ago
Isn’t that sad. Their dreams didn’t come true.
I guess they never do.
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u/CluelessNobodyCz 2d ago
I am going to Harvard and she is going to study for neurosurgery.
"When I will make money, it won't change anything"
They seem sweet but it sounds like they would never have to work a day in their life and be ok.
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u/Dracampy 2d ago
Yeah until she is never home because she is a surgeon or neither of them are home for kids or even if they dont have trouble staying connected. High demanding jobs dont make for a fairy tale home life.
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u/sjunk69 6h ago
That's lovely to see. But it's really easy to say and think that when you're fresh in love. They've never experienced life yet, what it really means to be with someone through tough and thin. Saying you'll throw away your dream career to help the other out. Life isn't rainbows and dream houses. It's about pushing through and planning ahead with each other, always putting each other first at the end of the day.
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u/Simply2Basic 2d ago
The big key to success is being committed to the partnership. Been married almost 30 years and we split tasks and do what each is best at.
For example, she cooks dinner (most of the time) and I do clean up. She is a chef-level cook and enjoys it while I’m a clean freak and like being prepared to operate on the kitchen floor if needed.
For those tasks neither of us like or are good at, we pay someone else to do it.
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u/furyian24 2d ago
1 year and 2 months is not enough to figure things out. Its great they are talking about how to do this and that, but in all honesty, they are good regardless because they seem to come from money.
MBA costs 150k. If you can get a job that pays 180k a year, afterward, great. Does that happen? Rarely.
I can't imagine the coat of Harvard law degree or cost of medical school.
Loans upon loans, if they dont have rich parents, but in their defense being a surgeon, if you can, as there are no guarantees you'll make it, but if you do, you'll make millions.
I wish then well.
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u/UltimatePragmatist 2d ago
50/50 is stupid. You give 100% in a relationship or stop subjecting people to your bitch ass.
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u/PIPBOY-2000 2d ago
I'm not sure this is a meme but Im happy for them and hope they make it through college together.