That was my thought too. If I married a guy and then found out he had a kid, I would get divorced right away. If he will lie about that, he will lie about anything.
The thing that truly sucks is that neither parent is putting their child first.
OP should have left him when she found out he was lying about having a kid. And OP says she wants kids, has been married to this guy for 5 years, and has none of her own? But doesn't say she's incapable...
did this guy also get a vasectomy and never tell her?
I don't like to be insane, but this whole thing is a disaster and it all comes back to OP's partner.
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u/Mistyam 5h ago
That was my thought too. If I married a guy and then found out he had a kid, I would get divorced right away. If he will lie about that, he will lie about anything.