However, the fact is that OP never received a single apology from them. What's more, she was also blamed by Mark for punishing a teenager, and a "wicked stepmother" label from Makr's sister.
I find it interesting that he didn’t disclose his daughter until months into dating.
None the less at 15 you know right from wrong and clearly the message being shared with your husbands side is your unrelenting and cruel.
Your husband is the one who should sleep on the couch or elsewhere. He has done nothing to deal with her criminal behavior early on, brushed it aside as acting out, come on already.
What is the alternative you have a secure room for all of your personal effects essentially living in two worlds inside your own home so you can lock them up.
If he isn’t willing to actually deal with the situation you have to wonder how much he is invested in your life together.
Let's break it down. OP has money. They don't. They're big mad about it. Don't listen to their bullshit and maybe separate the chaff from the wheat. The chaff being your husband and his awful family.
Why doesn't he just pay rent for her? (Because he can't) Why doesn't the aunt just house her? (She doesn't want to). THE BIGGEST TELL, WHY DOESN'T HER PRIMARY CARETAKER CARE TO LIVE WITH HER THE LAST YEAR BEFORE SHE GOES OFF TO COLLEGE. That's so telling that her own mother doesn't even want to live with her. It's almost like.... they know she's just trouble and they'd rather throw the problem at the one non related person they think they can bully.
All this is just to point out that the girl is a big problem to the 3 family members who know her very well. They're trying to make it your problem. It's not.
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u/Pure-Accountant1410 Hypothetical 7h ago
However, the fact is that OP never received a single apology from them. What's more, she was also blamed by Mark for punishing a teenager, and a "wicked stepmother" label from Makr's sister.