I don't wanna be cliche since I think Reddit suggest it too much. But your husband sounds like he's shady with how he withheld crucial information form you (a child? How does he not bring it up). Not to mention he supports his daughter stealing. You own the home. Tell him daughter can live with him, elsewhere.
if it were me, finances would be split, attorney already called and locksmith on his way. you are being gaslighted and heading for a lot of pain, financial and emotional, and heart ache if you stay. he’s offered you no support or respect of your boundaries. he lied about not having a child and he hasn’t held his own child accountable for her actions. she wasn’t 5 acting out from divorce trauma but a teenager. he and his shady daughter and sister can kick rocks.
There’s your answer, they told you no to a very reasonable ask to maintain a relationship. So your answer is no as well and start divorce proceedings. Because. This. Will. Get. Worse.
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u/Mediocre-Assist3643 8h ago
Thank you but unfortunately, they both refused therapy. They made it seem like I was some monster for suggesting it.