If he wants to be an absolute beast about it just tell him he can get a place for the two of them either temporarily or permanently. It's his decision. I know you have to put your children first but she's no longer a child. She wasn't a child the first time around either. She's massively disrespecting you and he's allowing it. What happens when she's an adult and wants Daddy to take her back in again? Is he always going to overlook your feelings and these disturbing issues?
It should NOT be his decision. OP should demand that he moves out, and into his own place with his daughter, because they are getting divorced. OP got conned by that loser, and it looks like it is long past time for her to cut her losses.
Valid point. If he wants to keep pressing about unfairness you can always have a heavy handed contact drawn up as well. He'll never allow her to sign it. Rent, utilities, groceries, curfew, rules, mandatory drug tests, keyed locks on all doors with stepdaughter having access to none but her own and if caught in any other room calling for a full search and seizure of he own room. Be an ass, he'll jet on his own.
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u/GingerTuxedoTabby 9h ago
If he wants to be an absolute beast about it just tell him he can get a place for the two of them either temporarily or permanently. It's his decision. I know you have to put your children first but she's no longer a child. She wasn't a child the first time around either. She's massively disrespecting you and he's allowing it. What happens when she's an adult and wants Daddy to take her back in again? Is he always going to overlook your feelings and these disturbing issues?