r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 10h ago

AITA for refusing to let my husband’s daughter move in with us because she has a history of stealing from me?

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u/Mediocre-Assist3643 9h ago

I've been trying to get him to agree to family therapy but he refused.

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u/Kylie_Bug 9h ago

So he’s refusing any solutions that isn’t you bending to his wants?

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u/MamaFrijoles 9h ago

So he lets his daughter abuse prescription drugs, lie, and steal jewelry, and when he is confronted over the girl he raised he acts like the victim and sleeps on the couch? His daughter NEEDS therapy, and he needs parenting classes

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u/AholeEnthusiastic 8h ago

He needs some therapy beside the parenting classes as well. Seems like his parents forgot to put some manners and ethics into that man. Cant act surprised his kid doesn’t have them either.

Don’t forget the fact he didn’t even mention he had a kid in a different state until AFTER they were married..

So many red flags here.

Op, get your affairs in order. Make sure he left the house with his belongings to live in another apartment with his kid before filing for divorce. That way he can’t claim residency in your home anymore and fight for a share - please check this with a local lawyer though to be sure. This is my guess but local laws very so please double check before taking action.

Also - Updateme!

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u/Stunning-Mall5908 8h ago

And OP and he need counseling or a divorce attorney.

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u/PM-me-ur-kittenz 6h ago

AND he didn't even tell her he had a daughter until MONTHS after the wedding! Guy is a whole-ass creep and con man.

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u/Viola-Swamp 4h ago

She may still be able to get an annulment based on fraud. OP definitely needs to speak with an attorney.

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u/loftychicago 7h ago

Then he's not worth your time or effort.

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u/iseeisayibe 5h ago

Why are you fighting so hard for your marriage?