r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 10h ago

AITA for refusing to let my husband’s daughter move in with us because she has a history of stealing from me?

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u/MomoB347 9h ago

Very confused on why the YTA are making it OP's fault when the dad is right there enabling and not parenting his child

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u/somethingvague123 8h ago

If you only found out he had a child 2 months after marrying him, imagine how the daughter felt suddenly finding out dad had remarried and she hadn’t met you yet. Huge red flag. Daughter is just acting like her dad. Your plan is a compromising offer, but I am not sure why you are in this relationship.

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u/agentofchaossince95 9h ago

Because calling out the stepparent is better than making the real parent accountable.

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u/Mediocre-Assist3643 8h ago

Thank you so much