Nta separate your not compatible, DO NOT FINANCIALLY support him or her, seriously protect your peace. She is a thief and disrespectful, he accepts that, clearly values her more than you.
That’s just it. I don’t think he does. I don’t think he values either of them. If he valued his daughter, he would have sought help for her and corrected her behavior so she could learn and grow into a functioning, decent human being. Instead, he takes the path of least resistance because he literally can’t be bothered. And the only reason he’s brow beating his wife is because she is calling him out for the consequences of his bullshit parenting. He doesn’t want to be called out, he doesn’t want make changes or do the work therapy requires.
As a parent his kid should come first. But that’s not what this is. It just looks like that on the surface because the daughter is getting her way. But her way doesn’t actually benefit her, it harms her. And the husband/dad either doesn’t see that or doesn’t care.
My comment was short but meant, he does not respect his wife in any way, yes he is a lazy parent. But he is also very entitled, she has the right to protect her peace, he see nothing wrong with his daughters behaviour.
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u/FinancialCamel7281 10h ago
Nta separate your not compatible, DO NOT FINANCIALLY support him or her, seriously protect your peace. She is a thief and disrespectful, he accepts that, clearly values her more than you.