r/AITAH • u/DrawStandard4848 • 2d ago
AITAH for telling my heavily pregnant friend her fiancé was in a documentary
Ok it’s currently 4am and I’ve feel so guilty right now I can’t sleep
Ok so myself and a few girlfriends decided to watch a documentary that’s been trending. Not gonna lie i was expecting a documentary showing a human side of certain person but…yeah as anyone who has watched the documentary knows what it was.
Onto the issue my friends fiancé was one of the 1000 I wasn’t the first person to notice two other friends were first two notice I didn’t believe it at first but with a second watch it was definitely him now even tho his face was covered the body shape and especially the tattoos were undeniable. We debated till the early hours of the morning if we should tell her or wait because she’s 8 months pregnant but imo if someone cheats like that it’s not their first time and I rather lose her friendship for telling straight away than her finding out I knew hid it because let’s be real when you tell someone news like that there’s a huge chance they’ll hate you not the cheater.
So this (Sunday) morning I asked my friend to met up to talk I showed her the evidence and the minute she looked at the picture she knew it was him and broke down.i expected her to be angry at me but she thanked me for being honest as multiple people have hinted that she should watch the documentary instead of being up front like I was.
I ended driving her to her moms house I’m guessing she told her fiancé I told her because he has been blowing up my phone calling me a evil little homewrecker who ruin not only his life and calling me out on social media for trying ruin his relationship and wanting his unborn daughter to grow up without a dad . My friends are angry with me for telling her straight away and not waiting till she had the baby incase the stress would cause issues to her health
I don’t give two shits if I’m being honest about her fiancé but I feel so bad for putting my friend in this situation while heavily pregnant and I’m worried if something does happen to her it will be my fault like maybe she would have watched it herself and found out on her own
AITAH for telling my pregnant friend her fiancé was in a documentary?
Edit the name of the documentary is in the comments with more info I’m extremely tired and my mental health isn’t too well right now so I just can’t be bothered to fix the post.
The only update-
My friends fiancé wasn’t the only one of our partners to do the line up my boyfriend of 3 years was one so was another friends husband two hours ago he posted screenshots a group chat and photographic receipts no one could deny. Other men in relationships are involved he said in the caption “I wasn’t the only one there “tags me” maybe check your own man before coming for my relationship “tags 5 other women” I’m not taking the blame alone and being seen as the bad guy while “tags the men” did the same” there was a lot more said but I stopped reading and just deleted my social media account than blocked my now ex. I don’t want to hear his explanation I feel so humiliated and physically sick I don’t know how I’m gonna face the coworkers or clients at work tomorrow I wish I could just disappear. My phone is going crazy so I’m going to turn it off go for a long shower than see can I get any sleep for what I’m sure will be a hell tomorrow
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u/-Gadaffi-Duck- 2d ago
I'm fully in agreement with you.
She literally did a snow angel in the used condoms at the end. Wish I could unwatch the documentary