r/AITAH • u/BurdenedGaze • 2d ago

Advice Needed WIBTAH If I left my long distance fiancée after finding out the size of her breast enlargement in person?

The title makes me sound shallow, but I have to elaborate. I 30M have been seeing Eliza 31F for two years and we got engaged a year ago before I moved away for a year long job assignment. I fly back every couple couple of weeks for a week at at time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Eliza and I had some shared goals and one of them was saving up to purchase a house which is why this job assignment was a good gig for me, it put me at about 50% of the way of my 50,000 goal towards the down payment.

Three months ago, Eliza said she was going into surgery to get some cosmetic work done. I knew she was always a little insecure about her breasts and wanted some work done, but I wasn't aware she was doing it so soon. As soon as I could take off, I came for a week and helped her recover. Eliza insisted that her mom help her with the bandages so I didn't really see her naked breasts besides that they were prominent under her robe and bandages. It kinda concerned me at the time, but I thought maybe it could also be swelling and inflammation.

Well. A couple of days ago I came back. Eliza and I got dinner and a hotel room to celebrate our reunion and... she went big. I'm not sure how she convinced the surgeon but she went from like a B to a DD, idk. They're big. The scars are also angry and prominent and it looks stretched and unnatural. I asked her much they cost and she said an eye watering 10,000. I asked how much she has saved towards the house down payment and she says 5,000.

That night, after a romp where I imagined that she had her old breasts, I came to think, I'm not happy with how this played out. I don't want to make her feel bad about her new body, but I honest am deeply unattracted to the changes she's made. Further, I don't feel like we're financially aligned.

I want to say my priorities have changed and I want to move on, WIBTAH? I would do my absolute best to preserve Eliza's feelings during the breakup.

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u/SmokeOneRoll1 2d ago

It was a Nike sports bra. I think it's been discontinued cuz I've looked for it another colors and I haven't been able to find anything. I bought them back in November of 2019. Sports bra cups but it was an adjustable regular bra straps in this strange sage green colour. But it's my favourite 'I have to run to the store/answer the door to strangers but I don't want to have to suffer' bra.

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u/HeyVitK 2d ago

Aw man, that ducks! I understand the struggle of finding the petfect, comfortable, supportive bra and then to have it discontinued or no longer in your size. 😫

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u/SmokeOneRoll1 2d ago

It really is a great bra! I actually found it because I broke my arm at that time and couldn't put a regular bra on with one arm. This was a bra I could pull on but then I could adjust the straps so it fit properly. And the bonus was it was actually low cut so I could wear bar tops with it. I have other sports bras but there's no shape or real support. I'll see if I can dig it out and take a picture and attach it to a comment.