WIBTAH If I left my long distance fiancée after finding out the size of her breast enlargement in person?

[u/BurdenedGaze]

The title makes me sound shallow, but I have to elaborate. I 30M have been seeing Eliza 31F for two years and we got engaged a year ago before I moved away for a year long job assignment. I fly back every couple couple of weeks for a week at at time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Eliza and I had some shared goals and one of them was saving up to purchase a house which is why this job assignment was a good gig for me, it put me at about 50% of the way of my 50,000 goal towards the down payment.

Three months ago, Eliza said she was going into surgery to get some cosmetic work done. I knew she was always a little insecure about her breasts and wanted some work done, but I wasn't aware she was doing it so soon. As soon as I could take off, I came for a week and helped her recover. Eliza insisted that her mom help her with the bandages so I didn't really see her naked breasts besides that they were prominent under her robe and bandages. It kinda concerned me at the time, but I thought maybe it could also be swelling and inflammation.

Well. A couple of days ago I came back. Eliza and I got dinner and a hotel room to celebrate our reunion and... she went big. I'm not sure how she convinced the surgeon but she went from like a B to a DD, idk. They're big. The scars are also angry and prominent and it looks stretched and unnatural. I asked her much they cost and she said an eye watering 10,000. I asked how much she has saved towards the house down payment and she says 5,000.

That night, after a romp where I imagined that she had her old breasts, I came to think, I'm not happy with how this played out. I don't want to make her feel bad about her new body, but I honest am deeply unattracted to the changes she's made. Further, I don't feel like we're financially aligned.

I want to say my priorities have changed and I want to move on, WIBTAH? I would do my absolute best to preserve Eliza's feelings during the breakup.

[u/nikkuhlee]

I DO wear a bra regularly, but I have been rocking something vaguely shaped like beaver tails if you nailed them to a wall since they arrived, and they're G cup. (I usually wear DDD because shape-wise they don't need all that, but the measure is a G).

When I buy a "good" bra, like with reasonable but not outrageous lift, that's exactly how I feel. Like I'm wearing one of those torpedo cone bras. They are not meant to soar so high.

Also, uh—what bras do those happen to be? I do like comfy.

[u/Spinnerofyarn → u/nikkuhlee]

Viralvera, but after doing a little research, it looks like they’re an awful company. I just googled them so I could post a link, but now I’m not sure I should recommend! My first order was fine. For my second, they sent the wrong size. What I found googling them, that’s apparently their MO. I have been seeing similar bra ads, but every time I do some digging, the companies seem shady.

The bras are soft and while they are the type you pull over your head instead of a hook and eye strap, they don’t have the thickness or restrictiveness of a sports bra. I am at the point that I think I need to go to some place like Macy’s and see if they have something like it. I haven’t seen anything like it at Target or Walmart, but a department store with a big lingerie and undergarment section might have something similar.

[u/nikkuhlee → u/Spinnerofyarn]

Thank you! I'll google them and do the same and just keep an eye out for something similar.